Linzae
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Joined: 11/27/2005
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| Need some help with my profile !!! SOS !!!
Posted: 2/6/2006 3:13:54 PM | Hey everyone!
I would like to ask others to help me by giving my profile a review! Also if you could give me some pointers that would be great! New to this so in need of any help I can get!
Thanks
Lindsay | |
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Garf
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Joined: 4/4/2005
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| Need some help with my profile !!! SOS !!!
Posted: 2/6/2006 3:20:57 PM | There's nothing wrong with your profile at all, it makes you look very honest and approachable.
It does not make you look like an easy one-nighter, which is what too many guys are looking for, so you're lucky that way...it weeds out the morons.
Only guys who are interested in someone with substance are going to contact you...so you're gonna have to wait a while. 
Don't change a thing, the pic is a little blurry...but who cares, it's cheery. More pics, if anything at all.
Here, have a penguin.
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| Need some help with my profile !!! SOS !!!
Posted: 2/6/2006 3:36:56 PM | | I think it's fine! I know it's tough to sell yourself on these sites. I don't know if there is such a thing as a perfect profile. I personally look at interest's because I want to get to know someone who is interested in the sames things as I am. It doesn't have to be that way because I have seen ones that you see lots of personality in their profiles but no common interests. Having said all that I don't get very many responses to my profile or my emails. C'est La Vie. | |
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Linzae
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Joined: 11/27/2005
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| Need some help with my profile !!! SOS !!!
Posted: 2/6/2006 4:19:27 PM | Thanks for the input, I guess it is hard to find a guy who is more interested in some then anything on here!
I just want to find a good guy! Why is that so hard? | |
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| Need some help with my profile !!! SOS !!!
Posted: 2/6/2006 5:12:22 PM | Your profile is good but talk a little more about the interests you have not just a list for the compatability level out there I am looking for is how passionate people are about what they are interested in. If you broaden that part of your profile you will get a couple more nibbles and increase your chances of getting hooked. | |
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| Need some help with my profile !!! SOS !!!
Posted: 2/7/2006 5:23:03 AM | Ok...maybe I can toss a few things out here that might help you....
This is a catalog shopping site.....the better the item looks, the more demand it will generate. So your profile is definately important to generating interests.
However, generating interest can be passive or aggressive. Passive, you wait for e-mail to come to you. Aggressive, you go out there directly and a) message others or b) make yourself more known through postings in the forum. Don't be afraid to do either...it works!
But we are here about your profile. If I look at it...the best I would give you is a C on it. Why you ask ? Well here we go....buckle up!
1) Headline - Your headline isn't bad but it doesn't stand out either, something eye grabbing, and funny works best
2) Picture - you are beautiful, the picture is not bad....but we need more...laughing, having fun, sexy, sophisticated....these pics sell! Outdoor pics are better too...give us some variety
3) Your profile description - I would have fallen asleep except for the many animated smiley's Sure you need to tell us you are sweet warm and want a nuce guy to cuddle up to.....hello, everyone wants that...well except the few Domme's here that want to crush men's ballz
Firstly....sell your unique qualities...what is special about you,,,here is where you can tell us about your 3rd nipple, 6th toe, spoon collection or UFO abduction.
Secondly..tell us what your looking for in terms of height, build, eyes, hair...character is fine, fitness, kids...ya da ya da do
Thirdly...and most importantly...paint us a fun, sexy and exciting picture of being together, the fun and sexy things we would do, stuff like travel, camping, etc. You did do this in your profile but cuddling up and watching a movie is a rainy day thing...it registers about a 4 out of 10 on the Young-Guy-Excito-Meter. Want to know what the 10's are...just think Sports - Sex - Food in no particular order.
My last point always gets me in hot water. Smoking  In the dating world, you might be better off being as leper. Smoking is about as big of a taboo as drugs. I am not suggesting you lie on your profile. I am suggesting if you are trying to maximize your ability to find a nice good man, give up the smoking.
More importantly, be 100% honest and be yourself!
Best of luck to you
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Linzae
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Joined: 11/27/2005
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