| Ladies who only date younger men Posted: 2/7/2006 1:06:53 AM | So we have all heard womens views on older men with much younger women, but my question is for the gentlemen and how they feel about women their age who are only attracted to younger men. It's like the reverse grade 9 situation for the males where your women flock into another age pool and you are left out to dry.
I was pissed in Gr 9 and I know I would be pissed if I was single and couldn't attract a woman my own age at that time in my life. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men Posted: 2/7/2006 1:55:19 AM | | i agree with this i knwo i am going to be bashed for my opinion but here it goes. i think the woman that do this are simply avoiding the fact that there getting old. i mean its better to be seen with an immature boy toy on your arm then a man that is at the point in his life were hes ready to have a family. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men Posted: 2/7/2006 2:19:46 AM | I don't think that's the whole reason...sometimes you can't even tell the age difference...sometimes it's because of the the sexual compatibility, or the fact that they actually did hit it off...or maybe they have not got that desire to settle and marry, or might have already been there done that and don't want to do it again. Just like lots of older men...what's good for the goose is good for the gander. I don't know why it really matters all that much, because you wouldn't want that person to be with you but desiring someone else I would hope! Each has their own preferences and hopefully one will come along for everyone!!!! Happy fishing!!!  | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men Posted: 2/7/2006 3:31:06 AM | I would only date a man who is 18-27. i'm 23 year's old.
i could not see an man/guy my age dateing somebody under age of 18. I don't know to me that just doesn't make, him/her look good at all.
My boyfriend's brother is 26 year's old, and is married to a lady who is in her late/late 40's.
And its not that she's in her late 40's, that i do not like her or them being togeather.
It's just the fact she want's/try's to change his "imagine", his personality his look's (more his looks).
She would alway's tell him oh baby you'r look so much HOTTER if you started looking like one, of those "MODLES" you see in an mag.
If she loved/loves him she would NOT wan't to change his looks or his personality, or anything about him.
He has a daughter who is 4 year's old (last i knew) and his gf (the one were talking about) is alway's, cutting down his ex wife wich is his daughter's mom.
He deserve's so much better than her she think's i'm nothing but white trash W"hore", when she is the one who talks down about his kid's mom and him and alway's bad mouthing his dad.
She use to live not to far from my aunt before my aunt died and she(not my aunt) would alway's walk up and down the street, during winter time with short ass shorts on and an short tank top she weigh's over 150 pound's.
The way she carried herself around town was not discent at all she didn't care, who you was or how you was related. She would alway's call my boyfriend over to the side and talk to him, and i asked him one night what was she wanting.
And he told me nothing just asking me about mine and your blazier and if, her and joe (the brother) could borrow it. And he asked me infront of her, so can they borrow it baby and i was like yeah don't care whatever. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men Posted: 2/7/2006 5:17:44 AM | . Some women yearn for a middle aged fling just as many men do. These are people who have lost their rudder in life for a while. They are usually people who worry about aging and so step a little closer to the wild side for a couple years before they get their adult bearings back. But, of course, actions have consequences. And, one problem is that action often impacts adversely on their present and future life.
Was it Benjamin Franklin who wrote “In Support of Older Women”? I remember seeing the text in French when I was young. It was more or less of a snicker piece for young guys, suggesting using a willing older woman for training in intimacy.
As for me, I don’t particularly give a darn what others do and so just totally disregard people who act like that. There is little or no reason for me to associate with them. . | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men Posted: 2/7/2006 5:32:48 AM | | Im 36 and never once have I been attracted to someone 26 or younger. Sure, they're cute but they're boys to me. They have a lot to learn and are inexperienced in arenas that I need them to be experienced in. They cant fulfill needs that are desired? Sure the sex might be great but its not all about the sex now is it? Especially anything long term. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men Posted: 2/7/2006 12:26:11 PM | | I'm not interested in younger men because I'm avoiding the fact that I'm getting old - I've always been attracted to younger men. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men Posted: 2/7/2006 1:01:56 PM | You're so right mustangsally... age doesn't matter... as long as there is a connection there, you share common interests and goals, and are attracted to each other, age shouldn't affect anything. i prefer to date younger guys, but i would date someone my own age or slightly older if i clicked with them.  | |
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AI03™
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| Ladies who only date younger men Posted: 2/7/2006 1:12:13 PM | | For alot of women, it's simply that the younger guys don't have the baggage, therefore they don't have the bitterness, making them more fun to hang out with. | |
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arri
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| Ladies who only date younger men Posted: 2/7/2006 2:15:50 PM | if the women in your age group only date younger men, then go after a woman who's older than you Cougars are fun!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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arri
| Joined: 10/5/2005 Msg: 12 | |
| Ladies who only date younger men Posted: 2/7/2006 2:42:26 PM | ^^^ Be careful. Some of the cougars think that you might want a relationship with commitment and want to get married  | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men Posted: 2/7/2006 3:13:36 PM | WOW...I was just reading this, and I had to post this...I am now 39 but 38 at the time I was dating a 20 yr old...we hit it off right from the start...we work together, and we all hung out together after work, so one thing led to another...Yes, the age thing came up...and at first it didn't bother him, but 3 months into the 6 we were together I noticed things...so when his 21st Bday came around I had been preparing myself to get traded in for a younger model! lol Well I did, and it was for my 16 yr old daughter! thought for sure we were going to Jerry Springer! lol I have always been attracked to younger men, but this time it hurt just a little to close! So I have made a vow not to have anything to do with guys younger than 28! so far I have dated older...and I was bored outta my mind...as for the ones my age.....OMG, never never again....but I am not giving up! As for my "cuttie', I still care for him a great deal and I want him to be happy...I am sorry that my daughter treated him so shabby...but I knew she wasn't serious! He and I are still great friends,and we still hang out together, do fun stuff and just get silly sometimes... and for that I am sooooo greatful for! Besides I knew I wasn't Mrs Right, but I just hope when he finds her, she will appreciate EVERYTHING I taught him! LMAO age is nothing but a number...until it bothers the other person! with that all said, thanks for reading.... Kell | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men Posted: 2/7/2006 8:07:33 PM | | I have never dated anyone over the age of 44. I don't go looking for younger men, they seem to find me and I am not complaining LOL. Age is a number. You can be 29 and act like 50, or visa versa and attract like minded people. | |
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arri
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| Ladies who only date younger men Posted: 2/7/2006 8:53:26 PM | I was raised never to ask a lady her age. Besides, it all comes down to mutual boink worthiness at the end with total disregard for age.
I bet, even cougars would do a ... doable 40ish year old man.  | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men Posted: 2/7/2006 8:58:48 PM | | LOL.... I'd get myself in trouble if I didn't ask a guys age! LOL Cuz there are A LOT of boink worthiness guys out there! LOL | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men Posted: 2/8/2006 2:06:29 AM |
I was raised never to ask a lady her age Sounds like wise elderly are all over the world even behind the fallen "iron curtain" ...when it comes to ladies' age.
+ or - does it matter when your heart is beating fast and you know, then she is right | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men Posted: 2/8/2006 4:39:44 AM | all i can say from my "oppion" sex is NOT everything, sex is NOT the most imporant in the realtionship.
sure sex is good and we all "need" and have that "desire" for it but it's not the most IMPORANT, thing, in the realationship.
If you'r dateing somebody who is younger, than you like 5yrs younger then yeh.
I would say wait on IT because neither of you would wan't to get, introuble with the law for haveing, sex with somebody who's not legal age.
My Boyfriend Is 27 Year's old and is NOT like the guy's, you see now days in their 20's.
Most guy's in their 20's early-late are NOT all imature some of them know, how to act and have acturly "outgrown" the childish/imature game's. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men Posted: 2/20/2006 9:05:12 PM | same goes for me c3sparkling..its called a mid life crisis. although it's said that it is a purely male phenomenon, i doubt it. but then again younger people are just more attractive to some? although i think huge age gaps for any sex is weird. | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men Posted: 2/20/2006 9:09:43 PM |
I was pissed in Gr 9
^^ if you can remember this so vividly....you are much too young for moi~...;) | |
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| Ladies who only date younger men Posted: 2/20/2006 9:10:51 PM | lol... yep its kind of a shame that, younger men can go/last longer than guy's in our age group's/older.
But ahwell.!
Hey! c3sparkling how have you, been doing.? | |
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