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Posted: 2/7/2006 8:55:37 PM | Let me give some history here.
~I was with someone for 4.5 yrs, then we broke up and I started to date this other guy for 9 months, well it was a pretty good time we got along well most of the time and well no relationship is perfect but when it was good it was very good .
Anyways recently we broke up and a friend of mine decided that she knew this guy she thought I should meet, well I went out to the bar and we had a great night, few days later I find out that he is still very much married and his ex wife calls me, well it wasnt good call but then we had worked it out and she said that she wished us well, well I dont want someone who will cheat on his wife even if they are seperated because he was with her, she told me they were working it out but he lied to me and my friend and me about not being with her that it was over with them. Well basically now he sends me this text message hoping I will still be his friend. Hmm no his wife is leaving him after knowing all this and it can only be good, I was caught in the middle of this and I am sick to my stomach thinking about it.
Players should be shot.. Ya I SHOULD HAVE NEVER AGREED TO GO OUT WITH A MARRIED GUY BUT TO ME AND I SHOULD SAY OUR MUTUAL FRIEND THOUGHT HE WAS BEING HONEST, HE SAID THEY WERE OVER AND STUFF LIKE THAT. Well TO MAKE A LONG STORY SHORT, I will be meeting with my friend who set us up and his ex wife to discuss this, I never met to hurt her in anyway, and she wants to make sure that I am ok and I want to do the same for her, he is not right.
I do not think he will contact me anymore knowing that I am gonna be talking to his wife and I guess its a good thing but why do men have to be so cruel and heartless. ITS REALLY TO BAD HE WAS A GOOD GUY WE GOT ALONG SO WELL , IT WAS UNCANNY.. ohh WELL I will go on. Anyone been through this sort of thing? or have anything to say? | |
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Posted: 2/8/2006 9:19:42 AM | i met someone on this site who was a total game player an predator. he know who he is. he made up a bunch of b.s and lies and told me everything to get what he wanted, the whole cliche. maybe i was stupid, probably was. but maybe i was just thinking with my heart. and i did something very stupid but very minor. and suddenly it was like i shot his dog or something. it was like i never existed. like i said, major predator. Now i see that he is on many many favorites so he seems to be at it again. Anyone who would like to know who i'm talking about, email me at yahoo. or here. i don't want to see this happen to anyone else. THIS GUY IS SERIOUS TROUBLE.
Good Luck Everyone!
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Posted: 2/8/2006 2:33:35 PM | Hi all
That is a very good ? Why do me play games I have had about 24 coffee dates on this site, and all I can say is. WoW what losers; in my add I was very honest, non somkers and no head games. But it did not work, about 10 of them lied,they do smoke all the time, and 4 of them where drunks.They drink every day,5 only wanted sex. 4 are still waiting for there X's to come back, and are not sure what they want.2 take all kind of drugs and one sent his kids to meet me(loser).4 said the where a few extra pounds(lie really big);2 I just walked out on.And the last 2, one was married and he said his wife and him did not have anything in commin(big loser). And the last one is the only good one I have meet on here.So that is very bad odds if you ask me, so I am done on here,so good luck to any one who thinks they will find someone. But I can tell you I have meet some very nice ladies on here at the meet and greets.So take care ladies.Be careful don't settle for any one, stick to your guns on the man you want.
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Posted: 2/8/2006 4:55:26 PM | I'm good at monopoly.....
Do not pass go, do not collect 200 dollars....
J/k.......This thread is redundant.... | |
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Posted: 2/8/2006 5:00:34 PM | | omg another thread about why men play games. i think i have seen this thread about 4 million times. maybe at this point you should go get yourelf a board game. im not trying to be rude and i knwo its coming across that i am but plsssssssssss stop with the male bashing this type of thread is getting old. ppl who do this type of thread men or women are just starting to sound as tho thre bitter or something to that lines. | |
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Posted: 3/21/2006 3:53:26 PM | Women have started MASSIVELY disrespecting men en masse. Therefore; men are doing the same in far different ways.
It just so happens that many women end up having a baby born from disrespect.
Many of the women who's ad says that they are looking for respect, and class, and courtesy etc etc etc.....are the ones who do not even reply to a rather long, insightful and friendly message in regards to their ad and POF in general.
I've lost faith in women in general.
looking for respect, and class, and courtesy etc etc etc
Seems to mean "looking for a hot guy who looks good with his shirt off, who my friends will be in awe of and call me slick for dating...who may HAPPEN to have the above listed traits. If not; that can be overlooked. Further more; if you are NOT a super hot boy; please do not any level of respect or courtesy whatsoever.
*shrugs*
I don't feel bad when these women are being used by friends of mine.,.at all. IN fact; I like to place bets on them.
I like shallow girls the best. You really don;t have to worry about hurting their feelings much because...well...you know...who cares? | |
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Posted: 3/22/2006 4:36:29 AM | | I think alot of people are very selfish. They find someone that they are happy with and they enjoy their company but they think something better will still come along. | |
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Posted: 3/22/2006 11:36:03 AM | 1st not all men play games many of us really want to met and have a relationship or friendship
2nd women also play this game
there has been a couple of time i have been chatting with women and they stop or they dont show up. | |
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Posted: 3/22/2006 1:58:51 PM | does anyone play that game hand and foot?
and on the whole thread thing i think everyone is prob guilty of this at one point in there life.
Hand and foot rules (jus in case you can't tell i love that game)  | |
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Hezron
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Joined: 12/15/2005
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Posted: 3/22/2006 2:25:32 PM | | Sometimes women think we are playing games because they read way too much into everything. One thing I have always notices is that many women border on the neurotic. They falsely assume that everyhting has to do with them. I love that commercial for the deodorant where the guy is in the shower and the girlfriend comes storming in all pissed and indignant and holds his shirt up and demands to know where he was because he was obviously not out running as his shirt was dry. I thnk that one speaks volumes. forthe most part I would say that men are much more stright forward than women do at times our behavior seems baffling because we are just raised and conditioned very differently | |
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Posted: 3/22/2006 3:08:56 PM | just because you choose the wrong guys to hang around with, it doesn't necessarily give you a reason to moan and whine about it.
girls naturally gravitate towards a-holes. | |
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Posted: 6/9/2006 5:50:54 PM | | I for one did not come on here to play games, yet out of all the woman I've talked to, I have only found "ONE" that did not play any games. Even though it didn't happen between us (her call) I'd take my hat off to her, if i wore one!!! All the rest so far seem more interested in playing games!!! I've wasted more time on this site being played than it's been worth it... | |
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Posted: 6/9/2006 5:59:14 PM | Well if i think alot of us knew then we would be cut off guard less often,maybe sometimes we are to trusting or whatever,but i know sometimes women as well can be just as bad to men so it can work both ways.all i know im not into a player ,and if it ever happens to me ,i hope karma will bite him in the ass lol.good luck all'.i think most of us are looking for the same thing ,someone to hang out with or date and to share some time with and go from there.life is short.it is nice to have someone special and trustworthy to be with let it be to care about or fall deeply in love.  | |
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Posted: 6/9/2006 6:01:00 PM | You are 31 years old and are shocked that this could happen to you?
There's no need to say anything to anyone about this one night. Get over and get on with your life. | |
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Dru
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Joined: 12/17/2005
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Posted: 6/20/2006 9:56:29 AM | Ohhhh....players should be shot. Ouch. Men and women both play games it's just that women dont get caught as much. I recently met up with a girl thats been with her bf for 3 years and she been into me for 2 months. Women play games on a grander scale at times too. Like the: It's Yours game. 
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Posted: 6/20/2006 1:57:41 PM | | Bottom line...if the divorce wasn't finalised he was still married. In those situations ask for proof. It's like buying a Civic to haul a boat and find out that you needed a big truck (no kidding, I've seen it done!). Research the person first. Hopefully the person will be upfront and say "hey, we're seperated and may/may not work it out" or "staying together because it's cheaper and we can date outside the relationship" etc and make damn sure the spouse is fine with it if you go there! | |
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Posted: 6/20/2006 3:15:28 PM | HI,I AGREE WITH YOU I CAN,T SEEM TO FIND THE RIGHT MAN BECAUSE THEY ALL WANT TO PLAY GAMES I RECENTLY MET A GUY WHO I THOUGHT WAS THE ONE FOR ME WE GOT ALONG SO WELL WE TALKED ON THE PHONE FOR HOURS TWO THREE TIMES A DAY I THOUGHT I FINALLY FOUND THE RIGHT ONE WELL ALL OF A SUDDEN I MISSED ONE CALL TO HIM AND HE GOT UPSET HE E-MAILED ME AND ASK ME WAS I UPSET WITH HIM I SAID NO WHY WOULD I BE,HE SAID BECAUSE YOU DID,NT CALL ME I TOLD HIM I WORKED 16HRS ON MY JOB I WAS TIRED I PLAN TO CALL HIM THE NEXT DAY I TOLD HIM I WAS INTERESTED IN HIM AND WOULD STILL LIKE TO BE FRIENDS I DID,NT WANT TO BE AN ENEMY,ANYWAY HE NEVER CALLED ME AGAIN MY FRIENDS EVEN LIKED HIM THEY ASK ME WHAT HAPPEN I SAID I DO,NT KNOW I SAID HE DID,NT EVEN HAVE THE DECENTCY TO WRITE ME BACK THAT,S THE LEAST HE COULD HAVE DONE.WHEN YOU SAID MEN ARE CRUEL YOU HIT IT ON THE NAIL YOU ARE RIGHT THERE ARE SO MANY DECENT WOMEN OUT THERE THAT DO,NT DESERVE TO BE TREATED THIS WAY IT,S SAD,BUT I DID SOMETHING I WILL NEVER DO AGAIN I TOLD HIM THAT HE WAS RIGHT FOR ME BIG MISTAKE ON MY PART THAT WILL NEVER HAPPEN AGAIN.
IT,S A LESSON TO LEARN AND I LEARNED IT.: | |
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Posted: 6/20/2006 3:28:02 PM | | PLEASE LET ME KNOW WHO THIS GUY IS I,VE BEEN THROUGH THE SAME THING WITH ANOTHER GUY I DO,NT KNOW WHY THEY JOIN THESE SIGHTS THEY ARE CRAZY AND CRAZY MEN ARE OUT THERE,MEN YOU NEED TO KNOW THESE GIRLS ARE ON HERE TO DATE AND HAVE LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS DO.NT COME ON THIS SITE IF YOU ARE,NT INTO THAT WHY DONT YOU MEN GROW UP THAT,S WHY THEY HAVE PROSTITUES FOR GUYS WHO WANT TO PLAY GAMES,NOT THE DATING SITE GOT IT!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 6/20/2006 3:35:34 PM | | OF COURSE GAMES ARE FUN FOR YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE A MAN BUT KEEP PLAYING GAMES AND GO UP TO THE RIGHT WOMEN AND PLAY GAMES AND IT WONT BE FUN ANYMORE ,SOMEONE LIKE ME FOR INSTANCE WOULD LOVE TO MEET A GUY LIKE YOU TO TEACH YOU A LESSON ABOUT GUYS WHO WANT TO PLAY GAMES. | |
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