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 Shattered

Joined: 12/1/2004
Msg: 1
Why Do Women Make Us Cry???
Posted: 1/21/2005 7:03:48 PM
Sorry just had to vent a bit


My Tears

My tears my tears
They flow for you

Now faced with a question
Of what I should do

A friend and a love I thought you could be
But it seems your true goal was just to hurt me

I cry and I cry, because I am so sad,
Just simply knowing that makes you so glad

You value me not, from what I can see
But this hold, you still have on me

How can you be so cruel, I just wanted to try
But your version of that was, saying good-bye

I don’t want to go, but it hurts more to stay
So tomorrow I will start a brand new day


Gino
01/21/2005
 squeak365

Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 2
Why Do Women Make Us Cry???
Posted: 1/21/2005 7:15:27 PM
Gino

Hang in there dude...each day will make you stronger....

Squeak
 Shattered

Joined: 12/1/2004
Msg: 3
Why Do Women Make Us Cry???
Posted: 1/21/2005 7:19:54 PM
I know i guess I never looked up the meaning of friend, seems it's very different than what I remember it being

Thank You , you are always so nice
 squeak365

Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 4
Why Do Women Make Us Cry???
Posted: 1/21/2005 7:21:11 PM
As are you...
 Bright Delight 4 U

Joined: 12/29/2004
Msg: 5
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Why Do Women Make Us Cry???
Posted: 1/21/2005 7:24:22 PM
I couldn't begin to count the times I have felt heartache over break-ups. There are so many 'triggers' that bring up memories; a song, a movie, etc. Women have told me they LOVE ME FOREVER, cause I am a really nice guy, & lover, but they didn't last FOREVER.
I found that looking back, they were all disfunctional, and I was a 'safe harbour'. After time, they STILL did what they had in past relationships = they left. So does being a 'good guy' pay????? What do you say, Ladies?
 Shattered

Joined: 12/1/2004
Msg: 6
Why Do Women Make Us Cry???
Posted: 1/21/2005 8:41:31 PM

they were all disfunctional


I guess mine came from the same crop
 syncmaster15

Joined: 1/10/2005
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Posted: 1/21/2005 9:14:12 PM
It's just like anything else. You have to get over it and move on to find a better/different one. There's more than one out there. It goes both ways ladies.
 Shattered

Joined: 12/1/2004
Msg: 8
Why Do Women Make Us Cry???
Posted: 1/21/2005 9:18:50 PM
yes i know more fish, i need a trout not a carp
 syncmaster15

Joined: 1/10/2005
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Posted: 1/21/2005 9:20:13 PM
Keep looking body, there's one for you.
 Shattered

Joined: 12/1/2004
Msg: 10
Why Do Women Make Us Cry???
Posted: 1/21/2005 9:26:42 PM
thanks i know
 jimi77

Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 11
Why Do Women Make Us Cry???
Posted: 1/22/2005 12:52:06 AM
simple... because we love them and when we truly love it hurts to say goodbye.

also might i note.. because they can.
 Aptitude

Joined: 1/5/2005
Msg: 12
Why Do Women Make Us Cry???
Posted: 1/22/2005 1:02:36 AM
It has been almost 3 months since I broke up with my girlfriend... It still hurts very much, but I am slowly reclaiming my life...

She was everything I looked for in a girl which makes it even harder.. But somethings are ment to be... the upside is I am finally sorting out ME...

I let the past dictate my emotions for far to long, I am 28 and still acting like when I was a teenager.... but no more!!!!

I have created so much pain inside me that I can not stand it anymore, and breaking up with her has put a stop to my excuses for not beening happy with in me...

I am starting to be a happier person cos I have great friends and tools that are helping me... can see the light at the end of the tunnel...
 Angeleyes711

Joined: 1/9/2005
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Posted: 1/22/2005 1:21:53 AM
well the real question is why do guys make us cry? Guys are guilty of the same thing
 Ender

Joined: 2/1/2004
Msg: 14
Why Do Women Make Us Cry???
Posted: 1/22/2005 2:27:35 AM
Women make us cry because we allow them too. DOn't get emotionally involved before you relaly know someone and then you won't have to write poetry online to salve your soul.
 Shattered

Joined: 12/1/2004
Msg: 15
Why Do Women Make Us Cry???
Posted: 1/22/2005 6:13:30 AM
well i agree with Jimi,
and because they can,,,

and sure i guess i have made women cry, but i have never intended to,, i have never teamed up with one of there x's and shared ever secret they have and used it to hurt them, thats the intentionl hurt, it hurts enough knowing that my x and xx are in contact, but it hurts more to know that i mean so little and that my feeling do not matter here... just hurt hurt hurt, sorry i just do not get some people, i just dont get how one you give 3 years to one and the other a year, but at the end your nothing but a monster, sh*t if im so bad give me those years back....
 Shattered

Joined: 12/1/2004
Msg: 16
Why Do Women Make Us Cry???
Posted: 1/22/2005 7:27:31 AM
well thank you, thats very sweet
 OnTheBus

Joined: 9/12/2004
Msg: 17
Why Do Women Make Us Cry???
Posted: 1/22/2005 9:32:48 AM
They make you cry because you let them. (I have too)
 Shattered

Joined: 12/1/2004
Msg: 18
Why Do Women Make Us Cry???
Posted: 1/22/2005 10:01:17 AM
just read this,


DOn't get emotionally involved before you relaly know someone and then you won't have to write poetry online to salve your soul.


first off its real hard not to get emotionally involved after 10 months, after any quality time together I would say

and im here to save my soul?, thought i was just expressing myself
 discover

Joined: 3/15/2004
Msg: 19
Why Do Women Make Us Cry???
Posted: 1/22/2005 3:22:22 PM

i have never teamed up with one of there x's and shared ever secret they have and used it to hurt them


So I guess your x and xx did this to you? Maybe you need to look at the reason's why they left you and what prompted them to do something as hurtful as that. If it was something about you then you may need to work on it. If it was just that you ended up with two really vengeful women then ... well, ouch.

When you really care for someone and believe in them - loving them unconditionally - you will always let your guard down. Doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman, we're all human beings and the feeling of hurt is as strong an emotion as any other.

What's important is how we deal with that hurt. What we do to cope and get passed it. Hopefully it makes you stronger as a person.
 cinnamon

Joined: 9/19/2003
Msg: 20
Why Do Women Make Us Cry???
Posted: 1/22/2005 4:13:27 PM
Sorry it hasnt worked out for you.. I hate it when that happens. Everyone's been through it and there's no other way out of the pain but to grit your teeth and tough it out :-) Soon you'll realize that the tears and the reminiscing are gradually becoming far in between.
Goodluck
 coolin86

Joined: 1/7/2005
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Why Do Women Make Us Cry???
Posted: 1/22/2005 9:49:54 PM
i know how this stuff can hurt. i was in a relationshif for 2 years when she broke up with me. now she wont kiss me or hold hands or anything. recently ive found out that she has kissed many gies i know including my best friend. he told me about it and said he was sory. but she tried to deny it. after i told her that he told me she confessed. i used to think she was my sol mate and now she lies to me all the time. i just needed to vent
 indigo rose

Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 22
Why Do Women Make Us Cry???
Posted: 1/22/2005 10:41:58 PM
if I made a man cry that would kill me..
I have cryed over a man a time or three
 IrishBeauty22

Joined: 3/24/2004
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Posted: 1/23/2005 4:33:57 PM
alot of women are ruthless I'm sorry:( I cried alot over men,So I know how it feels to be upset. Id never make someone cry on purpose
 get2thechopper

Joined: 1/2/2005
Msg: 24
Why Do Women Make Us Cry???
Posted: 1/25/2005 7:23:30 AM
We're all human, and very given to sh*tty judgement calls I'm afraid. Had my fair share of heartache, but u do find out who your true freinds are, and dude there are plenty of great girls out there. waitin for a stand up sort of a fella like yourself. Just never forget about yourself though.

Take care
 BlackThorn101

Joined: 1/6/2005
Msg: 25
Why Do Women Make Us Cry???
Posted: 1/26/2005 5:19:17 AM
I HONESTLY HAVE TO SAY THAT WOMEN HAS MADE ME CRY A LOT OF TIMES, BUT MOST OF THOSE TEARS WERE FROM BEING HAPPY AND COMPLETE, FEELING LOVED AND NEEDED.

FOCUS ON THE GOOD TEARS NOT THE BAD ONES...

NOTHING IN LIFE IS INTENDED 2 LAST FOREVER, SO DON'T GET HUNG UP ON THE PAST, LOOK FORWARD TO THE FUTURE.

TOMORROW IS GONNA BE A GREAT DAY MY FRIEND.

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