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Posted: 2/10/2006 3:08:43 AM | Just received a mail from an Egyptian guy, 35 years old letting me know that he is planning to arrive to the Netherlands sometimes in April and has chosen me as a " Submissive, hot lady to go and spend a few nights with him in a hotel since he would like to enjoy his stay in the Netherlands and experience Hot, sexy moments".
While reading his message, I got a feeling to know what does he mean by: Submissive????
How does he know if I am Submissive or not?? Is this because I am an Eastern woman??
Reading my own profile does not project a submissive woman or does it??
I don't find myself at all being submissive specially when I don't know a date very good, or when did I ever go to a hotel to meet a man and spend the night with him??
Am I being preserved as a " Pleasure lady" being on the dating site??
I have a feeling that I am being insulted, or am I being misunderstood?? Or, is this a way men try to get a woman do things for them??
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Posted: 2/10/2006 4:07:03 AM | | He's probably just a guy looking for a booty call or that you're desperate for male attention and he's decided to grace you with his presence. Don't even bother with him. He sounds freaky. | |
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Posted: 2/10/2006 4:15:00 AM | ^^^ I have already blocked the guy. But, it makes me think how has he gotten the ideas he has already about me and why!!
Or, maybe in the other side of the world, a woman being on a dating site means a whore to them!!
Pitty, pitty!!
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Posted: 2/10/2006 6:52:59 AM | No, your profile doesn't give the wrong idea (it gives me the impression of someone soulful, creative, sensitive and romantic). He's just flying into town and seeing who he can hook up with for the night in the Netherlands and you were his most attractive option (and yes, he may have tried with other women as well).
Submissive means that you're passive and will "submit" yourself to someone who is more agressive and dominant than you.
He's just a man looking for overnight sex in a city near you. | |
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Posted: 2/10/2006 7:32:36 AM | | His English not so good. He read “Do not like” but think “like”. He read “Being dominated” and sport wood. Make love to nice Egyptian man for big joy. | |
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Posted: 2/10/2006 7:35:14 AM | | ^^^He sure offended me with his message though he was trying to put some decent words also through it. But, how primitive of him, I think. | |
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Posted: 2/10/2006 7:38:21 AM | | ^^^No, but, he had written in a very excellent English. He explained also about his English Literature majoring some years ago. But, it is about his intentions and his very low ideas about women who do appear on the dating sites. | |
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Joined: 1/28/2006
Msg: 10 | |
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Posted: 2/10/2006 7:39:21 AM | submissive? if a guy said that to me I would be gone so fast, in a blink of an eye,,,, he might think I disappeared as I would be gone faster than a blink of an eye.
he sounds like a sicko | |
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Posted: 2/10/2006 7:56:05 AM | No, no, no. If he was truly proficient in English he wouldn't have said that he was looking to "experience hot, sexy moments" if he was looking for sex, he would have said ...
"Wow, I read your profile and I think you're extraordinary. I see a deep and sensitive, emotional being in you. I also love art and photography. Your cats are beautiful. I would love to take that walk with you and see where our journey leads us. I'm going to be in the Netherlands on business in two weeks and would be honoured if you would join me for dinner, champagne and strawberries in my executive suite at the western hotel."
All attractive women get pitched for sex by men on this site, it has nothing more to do with who you are or what you're projecting than beauty and availability alone. | |
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Posted: 2/10/2006 8:19:37 AM | | Explored and capitalised on mens' every emotional need and deep-seated desire in cities all over the world for the benefit of wild unattached sex? Oh hell ya. Just this week alone... | |
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Joined: 5/29/2005
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Posted: 2/10/2006 9:16:13 AM | He`s an idiot.I think most people from his area just assume that women in the rest of the world do what ever they want them to do.
There is nothing wrong with your profile and you are pretty. | |
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Posted: 2/10/2006 9:32:32 AM | | Plain and simple, he's a man. I'll bet that he sent the same exact email to a bunch of other girls, too. I have lots of men emailing me just telling me their age, that they're good looking (yet don't have a picture in their profile), and that they're "well-endowed". They're hoping that someone will bite, and don't want to take the time actually looking, so they email a lot of girls, just keeping their fingers crossed. They're not worth your time. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that all men are that way, just some. Good luck to the rest of you! | |
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Posted: 2/10/2006 9:41:35 AM | | I think you have lived a very sheltered life if this kind of behavior surprises you. Emails like that are what motivated workers to erect the great pyramids long ago. | |
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Posted: 2/10/2006 11:08:57 AM | | Well gee, with a handle like "mind reader" it seems like you could read between the lines...he wants booty. He hopes you're into meeting strangers in hotel rooms for sex. He hopes you're submissive enough to say "yes sir, and what should I be wearing to please you?" | |
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Posted: 2/10/2006 12:33:01 PM | | I got an email on POF a while ago from an Egyptian guy who wanted to trade camels for me. He thought I was worth 12 camels. I'm still not sure if that was a compliment or an insult. | |
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Posted: 2/10/2006 12:50:41 PM | Flip him the bird and threaten to chop off his ballocks if he even considers messaging you again
That usually works
Maria XOXO | |
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