| help me survive valentines day and this week.
Posted: 2/13/2006 1:06:39 PM | Struggle that is what life has become for me. I lost my wife Monica to another man. I feel like moving on and finding love again but each day that goes by I still feel like life is a long struggle. I loved her and if she is happy that is the only thing that makes me happy. She left me after an injury I aquired last summer. We were better friends than ever lovers and maybe we should have left the relationship at the friend level. We were married for twelve years. I gave so much of my life to her taught her all she knows and now she is the one who is with someone and happily moving on. She can buy the man in her life something for valentines day I will be going to bed early with no dining out and no card. I wish there was more out there for me.
Today I got a phone call from someone on this site but they said they would call me back, but never did. My hurt will not stop I feel like a ship wandering at sea with no where to dock. Maybe I did something really wrong in my life and I don't remember it for noone should endure this much heartache and to add insult to injury my birthday is on Friday with again no one to really tell me it is ok to get older. No dinner with that special someone. No cake with candles again just an early night of sleep after a hard days work.
I loved my wife and I guess I always will but if she is happier without me than that is a blessing for her. The real one for me is out there and my wish for this year is to find you. I am an honest man with real true love inside of me my heart is shattered and I am only finding the glue to piece it back together again but this time of the year is the hardest for me.
Time is the essence and it has healed me to an extent but romance is missing in my life right now and this is a romantic time. So I sit here feeling a little sorry for myself and letting the world know how unhappy I am. I pray that the woman that is gonna save me from my lonliness is nearby and can lift me up a little to see the rest of the world.  | |
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| help me survive valentines day and this week.
Posted: 2/13/2006 1:26:26 PM | hang in there, and look around you. I bet there is a lovely woman that you see everyday but do not really see! I too am feeling sorry for my self this year. After 13 years of not having anyone I got flowers and the works last year but this year -- it is not going to happen because my man just dumped me today!!!
I have been crying all afternoon and need some TLC. It would be nice if someone just reached out and gave me a hug right now.
So I feel for you, I hope everything works out better for you! | |
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| help me survive valentines day and this week.
Posted: 2/13/2006 1:38:15 PM | For sure this is the worst time of the year to get dumped. Be strong you will survive, and just say he must have not been the one for me. The best to come may be around the corner. | |
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| help me survive valentines day and this week.
Posted: 2/13/2006 3:59:11 PM | | Stirling68, hang in there bro! Things will get better. Life is all about cycles. Enjoy the ups and ride out the downs. I bet an "up" is right around the corner for you! | |
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| help me survive valentines day and this week.
Posted: 2/13/2006 6:01:46 PM | This really is a bad time to be going through such heartache. Try not to make the fact that it is Valetines day, any worse for you. If you focus on that it will only exacerbate your pain.
I know first hand how difficult this can be to get over, but know that you can only go up from here. I wish you well. | |
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| help me survive valentines day and this week.
Posted: 2/13/2006 7:07:36 PM | | Hey Sterling68..Just before Christmas i was dumped as well..and this sure is the worst time to be alone.I have just moved to a small town and the prospects aren't that good,as far as single women.I try to say to myself she wasn't for me,and it was only a little over a year i can survive.But i truly loved this woman and thought maybe she was the one.Hang in there pal,i too will hit the sack early on the 14th and hoping the 15th will be the day i meet the one.Keep your chin up Pal..... | |
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| help me survive valentines day and this week.
Posted: 2/13/2006 7:30:45 PM | Time heals all wounds you will get through this. Follow your heart and don't give up there is someone for everyone. Read Dr. Phil's book Love Smart it is helping me to understand things that I didn't know I have been single for 4 years my guy left me while I was in the hospital
after surgery remember its not you its them I believe in Karma and believe me she will get whats comming to her....If it makes you feel better make a voodoo doll.....just kidding thats not nice.....Keep the faith.... faith is like a wheel barrel it only moves when you push it....
Things happen for a reason we may not know the reason at the time but eventually we get what we deserve Happiness and love is just around the corner you have to be ready or its going to slip away.....
No one can save you from loniness but you and you want a woman who can share your life not destroy it. no one wants to be with a lonely guy just one thats alone.....
May you have a great life and keep your heart open its only cracked not broken......
smile you have the world ahead of you. I always say Life is simple people make living difficult.
If you don't have a date maybe we can chat on line I don't have a date either we can have a Valentines date on-line. That will be the first for both of us.....
Keep saying to your self I am a good guy its her loss and move on......I am waiting for your e-mail. Happy Valentines day | |
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| help me survive valentines day and this week.
Posted: 2/13/2006 8:25:32 PM | | I know how you feel I lost my husband lae year .Not to anouther wowman ,he passed awaay.I will be glad when Valintines days over and doon wiyh ..God be with you and who knows you might meet someone today . | |
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| help me survive valentines day and this week.
Posted: 2/13/2006 11:03:17 PM |  Sterling... I'm sorry you're going through this pain................
You are not ready to find someone new............she may have moved on but you haven't ...
You need to deal with this loss.... deal with making yourself happy.... being happy alone......
Until you are able to let go of her.... you will not be able to get yourself emotionally available to meet someone new.
You are a special person.... and you will find someone special......... | |
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