| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/14/2006 6:32:42 PM | From women who want to use their **** to play games, to those women who have decided that life is easier when you have multiple guys you can date and have pay for meels regularly.
From chics who think that they are the Holy Grail for manhood to the chics who are so mentally unstable that they project their feers onto everything.
From the women who preach chastity while jerking the other guy off under the table to the women who love to say "it's just sex".
I've always felt it was a raw deal when the "guys" talk down on women, or when they say "**** them and forget them".
But anymore, I am starting to feel like thats exactly what should be done. Run your game on them before they can finish running their game on you.
Go in for the sex and get out as fast as you can afterward. Don't think of the woman as another person, think of her as a hole to be plugged for awhile.
Give me reason not to feel this way, honestly, I don't want to be the typical guy using a chic for her body, but I find myself starting to believe that mentality. | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/14/2006 6:39:12 PM | | Your generalizing a whole bunch of people. Not everyone is like that. Sure there are people out there like this. But this is only a selection of people that do this. Those are the people who get VD. And that shi t is everywhere now. | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/14/2006 6:42:02 PM | It can get very frustrating, but speaking from experience there are many fantastic women available (not limited to this site)... it's a search/quest kind of thing.
I work in a hospital and I can tell you from being in that environment, the bad ones seem to pop up all over the place. The reason being, in my opinion, is because the very good ones to entrust with your heart are not out in the limelight seeking and/or demanding attention. They are usually the quiet, reserved, and humble type that are in the shadows.
We all know that good people exist. It's just a question of when that little sweetheart crosses your path.
Keep your cool. | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/14/2006 6:42:35 PM | You and many men here in the US are sick and tired of what you mentioned plus more - it's called "feminism". This is a disease amongst most western females. Many men here in the US are boycotting western females altogether and going with meeting up with foreign women not using personal sites but going to their native country (eastern europe seems to be popular) finding that woman void of any westerized garbage disease of the brain, marrying them and living there. They will not bring those females here in the west, because if they do they'll in time be Americanzied and then they'll be a lost cause like most of them already here.
Just go to dontmarry.com and see the multitude of threads pertaining to this.
I've adopted living the Lifelong Bachelor status as it was my choice than to deal with westerized female trash on the MOST part.
Take Care and Good Luck | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/14/2006 6:47:55 PM | | SCREEN YOUR DATES / PROFILES / WOMEN SWEETIE. QUALITY AND CLASS STILL EXIST. DON'T ACCEPT LESS AND YOU WILL FIND THE PAY OFF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR. | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/14/2006 6:48:30 PM | There's always going to be players .... and then there's always going to be those who are 'in it for real'. Anyone can change at anytime... but it would be sad for someone who respects women, relationships, themselves if they became a player because of what they've seen and what can and sometimes does happen. Don't forget to look at the other side too... just cause you're not there, or haven't found the right person yet, doesn't mean it won't happen. It's so difficult to sometimes work your way around and through that stuff, but it can be done... and I think the end result will be worth it.
I believe if in your 'heart of hearts' you're an authentic real person, looking for something real, then you just can't do anything different than be yourself. Just be true to yourself... and who you really are. I wish you well... I believe there are really great people out there... and someone that's likely just for you -- you just haven't found her yet. Good luck!
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/14/2006 6:48:49 PM | **Just here for the forums
Does this say anything about why you are here?
Me thinks you complain too much...Considering there are - oh - 3.1 billion women on this planet and you are generalizing about most of em.
The problem is you expect certain behavior from ALL women and when a few let you down, you whine and cry. Go on, lose respect...doesn't sound like you have much for women anyway.
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/14/2006 6:49:44 PM | May be generalizing, but so far, the above describes just about every woman I have dated.
Most recently, a woman I took out, had a good time, got along well. Talked to her yesterday, come to find out she has 4 other guys on the hook. No biggie to me, I understand competition. I then find out she's been dating 3 of the guys for over a year.
Now, I have to stop and ask myself, why is she dating these guys for so long? I meen, after a year, you should know whether you want to keep that person in your life permanently, or at least for a monogomous relationship. I said as much to her and she tittered a little and just say's she doesn't know yet.
There is only one explanation I can think of to explain it. She likes the fact that these guys take her out and feed her. Essentially, each guy is a free meal, free entertainment account and the occasional ego boost.
I respectfully told her that I was unwilling to date her, on the chance that in a year or two, she might say she wants me to stick around for the long haul.
She was irritated with my reasons but was cordial.
Honestly though, it just kinda pushed my respect for women one inch closer to the drain. | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/14/2006 6:53:42 PM | | Perhaps you are looking at the wrong type of girl. Step outside of what you are used to and explore. What you expect will give you exactly that. I wish you the best my friend! | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/14/2006 6:56:37 PM | if you're feeling little respect for women... you'll get little respect back from women.
Sounds like your choices are a bit off.... try someone out of your normal choices... you might be surprised. All women are not as you've described... far from it. :) | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/14/2006 7:02:27 PM | Why not limit your lack of respect to that ONE woman and not all women?
And men have "dated" multiple women for thousands of years and got away with it. Seems to me you liked the double standard prevalent in the past.
I believe in one relationship at a time...Goddess only knows, I do not have what it takes to juggle two or more men. One is exhausting....I will chat with several guys but always letting them know it is friendship only.
If I were to judge all men by those that have let me down, by now I would have gone gay. My heart was recently broken and I am letting it mend before I decide what to do. He wants back into my life and we did have a connection...but I must give myself some time to decide if what we had (and could have) was worth more than the heartbreak I have been thru.
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/14/2006 7:10:01 PM | "Feminism" at it's best and they sound like most of the female responses so far in this thread, then comes the bomb and all the games and demented thinking becomes evident.
I'm NOT saying that the women here in this thread are bad as I don't know them nor will I judge them - but again most of the feminists sound like what they've said in their responses.
These feminists sound so good in the beginning, that's the problem till you either be with them in a real long term relationship or shortly after the marriage vows - then it's too late.
You'll then be taken to the cleaners for at least half of your hard earned assets and maybe even have an STD too to boot. | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/14/2006 7:13:42 PM | You attract what you are...I said these words to a friend 2 months ago after
his constant "why me "? rants......
You cannot go on doing the same old things and expect different results...
A very wise old friend of mine told me shortly before he passed on......
there are only 2 things you can do to change your predicament...
1) Solve it - do what needs to be done
2) Let it be - you cannot solve it because the problem is BIGGER than you at
the moment
When you blame external factors , you cease to have control over the
situation ..your mindset ,attitude and eventually actions follow suit. | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/14/2006 7:15:38 PM |
Why not limit your lack of respect to that ONE woman and not all women?
She's only the most recent one, there have been others that have been slowly chipping away at it.
And men have "dated" multiple women for thousands of years and got away with it. Seems to me you liked the double standard prevalent in the past.
I have no major problems with a woman dating more than one guy, that wasn't the appalling thing to me. What turned me off was that she knew she did not want any of them, she merely kept seeing them becouse they gave her a free meal and took her out for free entertainment, and gave her a nice ego boost for occasions such as today when she was showered in gift's. She was unequivocly using the men to take care of some of her problems since she is unemployed.
Also, I realise I was generalising, I know there must statisticly be the "nice girls" out there somewhere, I'm just yet to meet them.
Right now it seems that I keep meeting the same woman, different face, but same chic.
I've gotten to the point that I can see what she is going to say to me before she says it. I have a mental checklist going on during the conversation, waiting to check off the subjects as they come up.
rape story...check
abuse by boyfriend or significant other......check
being cheated on.......check
explanation as to why they are unique and special.....check
explanation about how they've turned their life around and only expect the best....check
over and over and over.
I don't know what I can do, I go into each situation with an open mind. I've dated women from all over the spectrum and so far it has been the same experiance over and over. | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/14/2006 7:24:39 PM | Don't you think we're tired of the same crap that you mentioned above when it comes to men? get over it and get on with your life. All females arent the same, just like all men aren't.
As a woman i've been done the same way by men. Hey, that's life sweetie. You need to be strong enough emotionally and mentally to move the F on without trying to get revenge or holding a grudge( because that's what it TRULY means to move on, duh) .
Every man on this planet isnt going to act the same way as those 3 or 4 men that I've had bad experiences with. The same goes for you when it comes to women. Oh, if you didnt know, women have been used for thier money too. It goes both ways sweetie.
Forgive and forget dude. It's not spiritually healthy to hold all that crap inside. | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/14/2006 7:25:38 PM | May be generalizing, but so far, the above describes just about every woman I have dated.
Maybe it's you that need do some real soul searching and identify why you keep repeating the same mistake time after time with the same type of women you attract.
The rewards can be truly plenteous and certainly self advantageous.
One cannot fix what one cannot acknowledge.
Good luck!
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/14/2006 7:26:22 PM |
Ever stopped to wonder Why you keep attracting the same type of woman?? Maybe it has something to do with you!
I'm more than happy to hear some suggestions as to what it is about my character or demeanor that would attract these players and basket cases. | |
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| I'm losing my faith and respect for women
Posted: 2/14/2006 7:31:46 PM | | Too many men have told me that's it's frustrating to figure how to please a woman that they'll appreciate you for the long haul or forever. But then again that "feminism" term comes up. Look at that site I posted as many of your questions will be answered, it did for me. There's alot more that can be stated but I won't here that could make this thread go crazy. | |
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