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 pinklily
Joined: 9/24/2005
Msg: 1
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ok...if someone breaks up with you or you break up with someone....do you ever consider having "no strings attached" sex with them after the break up?
 Stonestongue
Joined: 11/13/2005
Msg: 2
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Posted: 2/17/2006 9:26:49 PM
It sounds odd, but it depends on the situation.....If you are still friends and care about each other, it is ok, I think.....I know I have, but it still meant something. I'm strange that way though....I'd have to be seduced in order to have meaningless sex. As long as no one gets hurt and you're careful, I can't see the harm!
 dud
Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 3
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Posted: 2/17/2006 9:26:51 PM
@ pink - why? you wanna break-up?
 pinklily
Joined: 9/24/2005
Msg: 4
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Posted: 2/17/2006 9:29:38 PM
now Dud...who said it was ME who wanted to break up???? LOL

Just wondering...if after a break up...if he, or she still calls...if sex, which was great, is still possible?
 Firmbear8
Joined: 2/12/2006
Msg: 5
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Posted: 2/18/2006 12:14:16 AM
LOL
Well I just broke up with my lady and no sorry I won't be available forj ust sex with any ex!!
 Firmbear8
Joined: 2/12/2006
Msg: 6
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Posted: 2/18/2006 12:14:33 AM
LOL
Well I just broke up with my lady and no sorry I won't be available for just sex with any ex!!
 Stillalicious
Joined: 2/9/2005
Msg: 7
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Posted: 2/18/2006 3:42:17 AM
ahhhhhhhhhhh things have returned to normal!
 Carri3
Joined: 12/9/2005
Msg: 8
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Posted: 2/18/2006 4:52:19 AM
firmy!

That didn't last long did it! Jump the gun a little quick? Welcome back!
 Northy2
Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 2/18/2006 6:30:18 AM
Ahhhh .. love is in the air again ! ...
 .Lisa
Joined: 2/4/2006
Msg: 10
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Posted: 2/18/2006 6:36:24 AM
no cause an ex is an ex for a reason i just become a reborn till my next relationship
 kitkat45
Joined: 6/18/2005
Msg: 11
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Posted: 2/18/2006 7:30:19 AM
Pink....I do hear you on that....when the sex is damned fine it is very hard to let it go....
This would have to be thought out a great deal to ensure that nothing starts back up again....
 pat_983
Joined: 5/23/2005
Msg: 12
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Posted: 2/18/2006 7:35:16 AM
I hope i will never be able to answer this question...
 Creter
Joined: 7/7/2005
Msg: 13
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Posted: 2/18/2006 8:25:19 AM
Some places are worth revisiting, others not.
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 14
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Posted: 2/18/2006 8:31:22 AM
Sure why not it happens - you're still friends right. Sex is sex it's not like you'd be making love, the emotion behind it would no longer be there. You're both consenting adults and if the moment just seems right why not.
 Enig
Joined: 12/30/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 2/18/2006 10:43:29 AM
As safe as it may seem, both should be very clear about the no strings factor. Although it doesn't usually work out that way for most I think, there are a few who it works for.
 twisted40
Joined: 8/3/2005
Msg: 16
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Posted: 2/19/2006 10:39:48 AM
Nahhhh, none of'em were that great anyways.
 The-Callebrese-Kid
Joined: 7/10/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 2/19/2006 12:28:38 PM
I couldn't , and here's why;

If an ex and me , split up because of sh1t caused by her , then no way , my pride would'nt allow a woman , no matter how hot she is , to think that she can get me anytime she wants .
 kitkat45
Joined: 6/18/2005
Msg: 18
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Posted: 2/19/2006 12:33:15 PM
Right on Ma! I totally agree! There is a measure of self pride involved here..If I was not good enough to be with, then I will not be good enough to have sex with! Period!
 kamaris_kiss
Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 19
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Posted: 2/19/2006 3:48:54 PM
Hell...I am not even any good at the "friends with benefits" thing...I would definately suck at having sex with the ex...omg...sheeeeeesh...yeah...will keep it on the up and up...and take care of it me self...lmao...safety zone for sure!!

 Ruby Red
Joined: 1/11/2006
Msg: 20
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Posted: 2/19/2006 3:52:19 PM
Well I haven't done that one yet.......but there was this 1 guy........if he calls me.......damn I'm a gonner.......ain't turnin that one down!!
 roxygemini
Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 21
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Posted: 2/19/2006 3:54:23 PM
Well if they are the ones that broke up with me they usually don't have a choice in the matter because I tie 'em to the bed and get 'em!!
 Enig
Joined: 12/30/2005
Msg: 22
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Posted: 2/19/2006 5:15:19 PM
Lmao Ruby.

Roxy: Haha it might be better to ask first tho, like maybe wut they like to be tied up with.
 d-belle
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 23
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Posted: 2/19/2006 5:33:00 PM
I have done it.....years and years ago, but it wasn't worth it because it only confused things more. I won't go there again.
 helen of troy
Joined: 9/5/2005
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Posted: 2/19/2006 6:36:41 PM
All the time, with one guy off and on since I was 19. He has always been my favourite and I fantisize about him when we are not together. Now I think it is true love and I may be ready to attach strings, or tie a knot.................lol!
 pinklily
Joined: 9/24/2005
Msg: 25
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Posted: 2/19/2006 7:37:16 PM
I'm not going to do it lol I just know how much I would kick myself afterwards. Nope...this girl has too much respect for herself now.....and new batteries lol
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