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 WAdreamer
Joined: 8/20/2003
Msg: 1
How do you know when a man loves u?Page 1 of 6    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6)
What are the signs that tell you "He is in love with me"? Is it different for different guys?

Or is it the same thing that sticks out in your mind that triggers it?

And please no responses like "Well he beats the hell outta me thats how I know"
 verysweet
Joined: 1/31/2006
Msg: 2
How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 2/18/2006 10:23:53 PM
I agree how the hell do you know? I wish i had some answers to this one too. But right now i know nothing,obviously.
 kindirishman
Joined: 1/29/2006
Msg: 3
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How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 2/18/2006 10:38:10 PM
There are many indicators that a man is in love with you. For instance:
1. He calls you every day
2. He seeks your approval for almost anything, especially clothing.
3. He tries his best to impress you every time he sees you.
4. He tells you seriously emotional and private things he wouldn't tell anyone about
5. He writes you little love notes.
6. He buys you a "permanent" gift such as a pet.
7. He devotes more time to you than he does his friends.
8. He feels comfortable enough to show his vulnerable side.
9. He may love you if he also wishes to have your parents' approval, and wants to get to know your family.
10. He takes you to meet his parents and relatives.
11. You overhear him saying amazing things about you to his friends when he thinks you aren't listening.
12. If he talks to for hours after making love.
13. If he can remember what you said a week ago. (shows he's paying attention, enough that he really cares about what you say)
14. He writes songs for you.
15. He makes you dinner and waits anxiously to see if you like it or not.

The list goes on and on. If you want more just ask :) I know a lot of these things are good indicators because these are some of the things I have done when I was in love. Been a while but I still remember how to show a person I love em. Cheers.
 KrazyTrk
Joined: 11/9/2005
Msg: 4
How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 2/18/2006 10:38:20 PM
they sit here and write threads about how they feel
 nicomanti
Joined: 2/18/2006
Msg: 5
How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 2/18/2006 10:52:27 PM
ummmmm, how about when he says "I love you".........maybe?!?!?!?
 UWantThis
Joined: 11/19/2005
Msg: 6
How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 2/18/2006 10:54:22 PM
If he is willing to be with you in a long-term comitted relationship without sex, then that would be a very good indicator. If a man truely loves a woman, he will love her for her personality and the way she makes him feel when she is with him or even talks to him. He should be content with just being able to share time with her, hold her in his arms, and essentially being together. If he isn't, then he probably isn't in love with her.
 kindirishman
Joined: 1/29/2006
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How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 2/18/2006 10:57:37 PM
Precisely UWantThis. Another excellent point. And as for men saying they love you..........uh well...........not all of them mean it. Some feel pressured into saying it. Or say it to get into your pants. You can't really believe that until you see all the other indications first nicomanti.
 serendipitous17
Joined: 11/13/2005
Msg: 8
How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 2/18/2006 11:28:17 PM
You know he loves you when you don't have to wonder if he loves you... you just know and there is no question.
 fubar1374
Joined: 11/22/2005
Msg: 9
How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 2/18/2006 11:31:33 PM
when you throw up and your to sick to clean it up so he does
when he argues with the cashier over the price check being incorrect on the tampons!
when you burn the food and he eats it anyway
when he makes sure you have the nicer car and he settles for the junker!
and finally when u tell him you dont feel like swallowing so he lets you know when hes gonna come!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lmao but if this last one happens often the love fades a little!!!
 indierockgrrl36
Joined: 11/16/2005
Msg: 10
How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 2/19/2006 12:12:18 AM
that's a pretty good list Irish, and I'd say accurate!
 HOTTESTANGEL25
Joined: 2/12/2006
Msg: 11
How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 2/19/2006 3:49:10 AM
JUST LOOKING AT WHAT HE DOES TO YOU AND FOR YOU.
BESIDE THOSE,LOOK AT HIS FACE AND EYES WHILE HE SAYS "I LOVE YOU"
I'm sure that Your heart will give you the answer whether he really loves you or not.
 Integral_life
Joined: 1/2/2005
Msg: 12
How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 2/19/2006 1:48:42 PM
msg3 by a kindirishman "the real truth"

1. He calls you every day.
1. "Hunn gimme another beer!"

2. He seeks your approval for almost anything, especially clothing.
2. "Are these jeans worth you sewing another patch on"

3. He tries his best to impress you every time he sees you.
3."Look what I got for my truck"

4. He tells you seriously emotional and private things he wouldn't tell anyone about
4. Ax murderer --- after killing his first ax he felt really good, why stop a good thing.

5. He writes you little love notes.
5. " I went to bar, that's where I are ... love you "

6. He buys you a "permanent" gift such as a pet.
6. Can you say "ch ch ch chia"

7. He devotes more time to you than he does his friends.
7. His friends are raging man whores and he knows he'll fallow suit

8. He feels compfortable enough to show you he's vulnerable side
8. Full-Moon three steps ahead of you on the stairs.

9. He may love you if he also wishes to have your parents' approval, and wants to get to
know your family.
9. He's tired of the stink eye your parents give him because he's boinking their daughter.

10. He takes you to meet his parents and relatives.
10. Visiting hrs 2-3pm on Thursdays, metal detector, and body cavity search at the door.

11. You overhear him saying amazing things about you to his friends when he thinks you aren't listening.
11. You overhear him saying amazing things about you to his friends when he's "pretending" you aren't listening.

12. If he talks to for hours after making love.
12. Tell him to shut the hell up and go to sleep.

13. If he can remember what you said a week ago. (shows he's paying attention, enough that he really cares about what you say)
13. If he can remember what you said a week ago, then you're in a heated arguement.

14. He writes songs for you.
14. Down in Beaver Valley
Where the bullsh!t flies thick
Cowboys are restless
And babies come quick
There lies Elenor
The girl I adore
That dirty old dog fackin'
Cowconted whore

15. He makes you dinner and waits anxiously to see if you like it or not.
15. If you approve he'll start eating too.

You mentioned that the list goes on kindirishman, would you like to add some more?
 CountrySugar
Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 13
How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 2/19/2006 1:56:43 PM
hmm

He puts the toliet seat down when he's done..
He thinks all your annoying lil habits that drive everyone else mad are cute..
when your sick he holds your hair..
He'll drive 1/2 hour to drive you 2 blocks so you don't have to walk in the cold..

 Moon Unit
Joined: 1/13/2006
Msg: 14
How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 2/19/2006 5:37:24 PM
Can't say I've ever experienced man love... and I'm OK with that.

:P
 umm1
Joined: 2/13/2006
Msg: 15
How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 2/19/2006 6:09:18 PM
don't go by what he says......

its in his actions you will know
 lifes~crash~test~dummy
Joined: 2/13/2006
Msg: 16
How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 2/19/2006 6:51:25 PM
every guy is different, you will know it when you see it....
 kermancutie
Joined: 10/9/2005
Msg: 17
How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 2/19/2006 7:36:27 PM
I just go by that song "When A Man Loves A Woman"
 GrabLifeByTheHorns
Joined: 1/17/2006
Msg: 18
How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 2/23/2006 1:59:43 PM
@CountrySugar - I love that drive 1/2 hour to drive you two blocks one...OMG that would be the ideal man! LOL
 Anahi90255
Joined: 8/23/2007
Msg: 19
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How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 1/2/2008 7:29:21 PM
None of those things that are listed I have experienced. The only thing that I have experienced is meeting his daughter and him just not letting go of me when I have tried to end the relationship. What does that tell u??
 masonthehammerstanley
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 20
How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 1/2/2008 7:44:12 PM
When a maaaaaaan loves a woman...
She can do no wroooonggggg

When a maaaaan loves a woman...
sleep out in the rain
if she said that's the way, it ought to be

When a maaaaaaan loves a woman....

Ok, I'm done now, sorry bout that
 Part-Time SUPERTRAMP
Joined: 12/23/2007
Msg: 21
How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 1/2/2008 7:46:26 PM
he will tell you and when he tells you, you will believe it without a doubt.
 kathy411
Joined: 5/12/2006
Msg: 22
How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 1/2/2008 7:52:04 PM
I never needed to hear it .. I just knew. I don't know how; all I know is that there was no doubt and the words were not necessary to prove it.
 ^^Batgirl^^
Joined: 6/24/2007
Msg: 23
How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 1/2/2008 8:06:25 PM

and finally when u tell him you dont feel like swallowing so he lets you know when hes gonna come!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Love, schmove.

Better gimme some warning big guy.

^^BG^^
 mommasays
Joined: 6/24/2007
Msg: 24
How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 1/2/2008 8:33:51 PM
everyone expresses they love in different forms:

1- words
2- he spends lots of time with u
3- he gives lots of gifts
4- he does things for you
5- he likes touching you a lot

but then any nut can do all these things

what choices is he making daily??? actions speak
 mr. dynomite
Joined: 9/11/2007
Msg: 25
How do you know when a man loves u?
Posted: 1/2/2008 9:26:58 PM

How do you know when a man loves u?


He gets a boner.


*shwiiiiingg*



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