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 Mojo_LA

Joined: 12/15/2004
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Can a great sex life be ONLY sex?
Posted: 2/19/2006 5:22:22 PM
I read a post by another forum member that got me thinking.

She's young (under 21) and very attractive. She was ranting in another thread about how she's only attracted to alpha males - guys that are tall, athletic and very smart. She admits that these kinds of guys cheat a lot, but *her* future husband will be faithful because she's going to sexually rock his world.

Then she went on to mention that she won't do anal and rarely oral, but other than that he's going to be VERY happy.

So I wonder - how men out there would be "very happy" with a sex life like that?

And how many ladies believe they could keep a man truly satisfied with "no anal, rarely oral but great sex?"
 chellelea

Joined: 12/31/2005
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Posted: 2/19/2006 5:31:28 PM
You said it all with...she's under 21!!!

I've learned an awful lot about myself and men in general in the years since I was 20 and my guess is she will too. Whether she learns it the hard way or the easy way...who knows.

Do I think that a man could be truly satisfied with just sex, no oral or anal? I'm sure there's some man out there somewhere but most I've come across wouldn't be happy without the oral at least.
IMO...part of the great sex is the oral (giving and receiving) so I'm not sure how just straight f*cking could be called great "rocking someone's world" sex?! I need more to classify it as such so I would assume that most men do too.
 hardener

Joined: 12/19/2005
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Posted: 2/19/2006 5:34:12 PM
shes 21.... she doesnt know her a$$ from a mole hill... and the only thing thats going to enjoy that are drunkin fools... or a one night stand... when the girl get a clue about how relationships work.. she will realize that sex is the bonus to everything else not the other way around.
 real12luv

Joined: 1/2/2006
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Can a great sex life be ONLY sex?
Posted: 2/19/2006 5:36:49 PM
Hardener?.....wow you werent kidding

OT: Shes living in a dream world. No oral = boring sex.
 Alpengeist

Joined: 1/30/2006
Msg: 5
Can a great sex life be ONLY sex?
Posted: 2/19/2006 5:41:10 PM
she's gotta hobb the knob, at least once a week.
Everytime? Even better.
I know how to return favors.
I can live without anal.
 Blondeamazon

Joined: 11/3/2005
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Can a great sex life be ONLY sex?
Posted: 2/19/2006 5:42:01 PM
You said it all with...she's under 21!!!

I've learned an awful lot about myself and men in general in the years since I was 20 and my guess is she will too. Whether she learns it the hard way or the easy way...who knows.

I totally agree...HON 21 24 26......I used to think i knew alot back in my twenties..


Do I think that a man could be truly satisfied with just sex, no oral or anal? I'm sure there's some man out there somewhere but most I've come across wouldn't be happy without the oral at least.

COULD NOT AGREE MORE...
 Jetplague

Joined: 4/4/2005
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Posted: 2/19/2006 5:51:49 PM
No oral, no anal, with just sex....Sounds like she's anal ready. Heh!
 Mojo_LA

Joined: 12/15/2004
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Posted: 2/20/2006 10:54:42 AM
Who out there has been in a relationship like that and what happened?
 rogue_angel

Joined: 10/6/2005
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Posted: 2/20/2006 10:58:48 AM
She doesn't know what she's missing, but when she's thirty she'll look back and realize it !
 k.kong

Joined: 1/4/2006
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Posted: 2/20/2006 11:26:20 AM
as I read the question, the operant word here is "life", so my answer is NO. Sex, as your life, should be an ever-evolving thing, and if you and your chosen one keep evolving, keep living, then sex is just a part (a wonderful part), but just a part, because is so much more. Grab life, ride that bull for all its worth, and hope you never have to look back and regret the ride.
 coloradogal1963

Joined: 2/15/2006
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Posted: 2/20/2006 11:39:28 AM
Okay, I can understand the no Anal - but RARELY oral? Isn't oral a sex staple? Kind of like touching and kissing? Giving and receiving oral can be much more intimate and bonding than even intercourse itself. Just my opionion
 buzzingbee

Joined: 3/25/2005
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Posted: 2/20/2006 11:40:02 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^^ (k.k.)
Live every day to the full as if there was no tomorrow.
(It took me time to understand it)
 johnhays97420

Joined: 2/19/2005
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Posted: 2/20/2006 5:48:07 PM
ya know all i like is to give and satisfy a woman i dont like to recieve oral couse i think it is gross. but anyways every one has their own oppinion and they are respected to it.
 The Anti-Date

Joined: 8/29/2005
Msg: 14
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Posted: 2/20/2006 5:51:53 PM

And how many ladies believe they could keep a man truly satisfied with "no anal, rarely oral but great sex?"


If I'm in a relationship I don't look at it like keeping a man truly satisfied, more of an opportunity to give my partner some pleasure. The way you put it seems like it's a duty which would really turn me off. I have lots of things I 'have' to do; sexual acts shouldn't be part of that.
 stylishseeksstud

Joined: 11/23/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 2/20/2006 6:40:06 PM
umm ok, my friend was with his ex and she never gave him oral.........i couldnt believe it
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