| Women fake orgasms more often than not? Posted: 1/25/2005 1:16:07 PM | "most women FAKE orgasms most of the time! It is really more common than not."
Don't you women get tired of faking O's all the time? What's the main reason for doing it? There's even a debate now if some women are even capable of having an orgasm at all. Ladies, help us men to help you. We don't want you faking orgasms all the time. we want you to have them as often as possible. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not? Posted: 1/25/2005 1:19:03 PM |
We don't want you faking orgasms all the time. we want you to have them as often as possible.
That's why I don't fake them. Faking it doesn't do me any good. If you fake them then the guys think they are doing it right. You have to show them or talk to them about it. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not? Posted: 1/25/2005 1:22:37 PM | | Shannon, I agree 100% with you. Practice makes perfect. If a woman pretends she had one after two minutes of sticky fumbling, then isn't she just setting herself up for more of the same? I understand that sex isn't everything, that it's not always required for either of the sexes to have an orgasm, but to fake them all the time just seems to be cheating both partners out of the experience. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not? Posted: 1/25/2005 1:28:03 PM | | More women need to take control of their orgasms. It seems like certain ladies are thinking that if a man doesn't give them one through sexual intercourse, then they are incapable of having one. Or, some may be a little uncomfortable with sex, and want to get it over with ASAP. I didn't think that this happens all the time, though, with most women. I'm rather disappointed to hear this. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not? Posted: 1/25/2005 3:21:25 PM | ROTFLMAO
I'm sorry I couldn't help it....If you men want us to take control of our own orgasms.....Well hell ladies grab them dildos and those strap ons....men have just made themselves obolete...lol Finally a man that actually admits that he want no responsibility for pleasing a women in bed...obviously the women you have been with know this....that's why they are faking in...getting it over ...get you off them ..so that they can go to the bathroom and take control of their own orgasm....lol... Now don't be mad at me...take a look at what you saying ...I just thought it was funny..I'm playing with ya..don't get offended...but pardon me ..got to go take care of an orgasm...brb.....lol | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not? Posted: 1/25/2005 4:47:04 PM | I would think that would be similar to faking happiness during christmas when you get a stupid gift. It wont get any better without awareness.
Good job to the ladies that don't fake! | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not? Posted: 1/25/2005 6:56:05 PM | lol
I'm not sure where I said that I don't care if my partner has an orgasm or not. I do what I can to ensure this. However I certainly don't expect a woman to give ME an orgasm all on her own. Some just lay on the bed and spread their legs. I do what it takes for me to have one. THAT'S what I'm saying. Ladies, go ahead and expect the man to do all the work it takes to give you an orgasm. That seems pretty one-sided to me, and is just asking for disappointment. If you're not having orgasms during sex, then maybe you should communicate with your partner about this, instead of just being disappointed and faking it. I've known ladies that do whatever it takes to ensure they gratified themselves. If that involved them rubbing themselves during intercourse, or telling me they want to change positions, or whatever. Why is that such a weird thing for women to do for themselves? I never said that I just get off, and then ignore the ladies needs. Hell, you don't have to go into the bathroom to use that dildo. I'll use it on you, if that's what it takes. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not? Posted: 1/25/2005 9:46:40 PM | | Ok, let me just say that sometimes sex can feel really good yet not be good enough to bring a woman to an orgasm. I faked orgasms for 7 years. It wasn't until I became more open sexually that I took control of my body and demanded orgasms. Sometimes a s woman it is very frustrating when ;you have a man that can't follow simple instructions, such as- don't move. There wree plenty of times when I just took care of myself as it was much simpler. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not? Posted: 1/25/2005 10:13:27 PM | "Buldog if you knew what u are doing no woman have to fake it!! main reason duh!!!!!"
I don't care anymore. Fake it if you want. Just don't breath in my face when I want to go to sleep. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not? Posted: 1/26/2005 6:43:38 AM | | Wow, never thought I would get this much of a response to my post. haha. First of all...I never said that women SHOULD fake orgasms....but that they DO fake orgasms...or at least a lot of them do. See, in my opinion, a lot of women can't tell a man how to give them an orgasm because they don't know themselves. Women need to give themselves an orgasm first. Then they can tell the man how to do it. And all women's bodies are different, so no two women will achieve an orgasm in the same way. The main reason I responded in the first place is because a MAN was telling women how they need to get an orgasm. That is like a male GYN telling a woman that something won't hurt when they are working on them. That is bullsh*t...how in the hell do they know? haha. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not? Posted: 1/26/2005 5:30:15 PM | First, I looked back in the original thread, and nowhere did I say that anyone NEEDS to have an orgasm. I asked whats her name what she was waiting for, to have one. She then responded that she couldn't have one. I was surprised to hear this, as I believe if she has all the right parts, then she is indeed capable of having one. Obviously, there are sexually frigid people out there who will not have an orgasm until they loosen up about their bodies.Then you came in and misquoted everything I said. This is a text based forum, so when repeating things others have said it's polite to get the facts straight. I BELIEVE that she should have an orgasm. Is that better? I BELIEVE that she should drop everything she's doing right now, and go have one. We're not pilgrims, nor are we Amish. Sex is a good thing. I was also disappointed that you said that MOST women fake orgasms MOST of the time. You are speaking for alot of women when you say that. At least over half. So, I thought this deserved a topic. Maybe we should have a little survey:
Do you fake orgasms most of the time? | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not? Posted: 1/26/2005 8:35:32 PM | Ok, if my addition is correct, that's three ladies who say they currently do not fake orgasms.
And two who say they will.
I'm not doing this to judge those who say they do or not, I'm really just curious if what I heard is true. | |
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| Women fake orgasms more often than not? Posted: 1/26/2005 11:20:26 PM | oooo....ouch. Why fake when a women can have them 4 or more ways...no toys required. Try doing Kegel exercises and I recomend them for the guys who want to have added "mucho gusto" www.kegel-exercise.com | |
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