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Posted: 2/22/2006 7:34:54 PM | | Even if it is the hottest girl on the planet, how can guys protect themselves against "bad intentioned" women? | |
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Posted: 2/22/2006 7:36:00 PM | | Teflon. You have to be encased in teflon. The only way.:-) | |
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Posted: 2/22/2006 7:57:15 PM | back up an look at the whole picture over time.
The truth is self-evident.
You can fool all the people some of the time and some of the people all of the time, but you can't fool all the people all the time. Time is the key.
Intentions show themselves in action over time.
Can't get away from it or hide it.
But you can't blind yourself to it without paying.
And most of what you call 'bad intentioned' women don't consider themselves to be that.
Most of all, remember that you're just another fish.
How often do you think about the 'fish' or whatever other animal that was killed for your lunch?
Not much i bet.
But they got theirs because of your bad-intentioned hunger. Do you see yourself as bad-intentioned? (unless your a vegetarian - just using that as an analogy)
good-luck! | |
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Posted: 2/22/2006 8:13:59 PM | | I find many women attractive. I lose complete interest when you find out there alot about themselves. I think most guys do. The result is they use them right back. Not healthy for the community. | |
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Posted: 2/22/2006 9:31:27 PM | ^^^ What? Did I miss something?  | |
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Posted: 2/22/2006 10:16:42 PM | wait till you see the baggage that piles up in another 10-15 years...
lol...
some need an 18 wheeler to carry it | |
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Posted: 2/22/2006 10:28:54 PM | just be true to yourself... and whack your pee-pee with a hammer when it tries to lead you astray!
PS I'm not responsible for anyone who follows my crackpot advice.  | |
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Posted: 2/22/2006 11:32:55 PM | All i can say is bravo to you who said be true to yourself. That's what it is about. Yes some women are very deceitful; greedy; money hungry; stray; lie; create drama.....But lets not forget that men do that as well. If's all fine and dandy to trash women, but like VWCAMPERBUS said....BE TRUE TO YOURSELF and i may be wrong on this, but i think he means when he says whack your pee-pee when it tries to lead you astray" he means take responsibility for yourself as well. It takes two to bug up a relationship. Instead of trashing women, perhaps your forum entitled "intention" should be both for men and women. I'm bi so believe me i've had my fair share of asswipes on both sides. However, to be honest, in hindsight i'm the one that put up with it until i got smart and gave them the boot; yet i met some very special ones in my life that are true blue. So, let's be fair and say both men and women can be very caniving.....good luck to those of you who feel women suck...one day when you least expect it, Ms. Right will fall from the heavens then you will have to eat your words. I hope i did not offend anyone. I just felt that both sides of INTENTIONS needed to b e heard by someone who has had both sides.....Anyhoot, not preaching..just speaking my mind...tk care, be happy and don't expect the worse...just be aware and honest with yourself....are you the one helping create the situations by not speaking out? Peace out ppl | |
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Posted: 2/23/2006 12:01:02 AM | i say cover yourself with a big ziplock bag op. | |
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Posted: 2/23/2006 12:38:09 AM | | Wow waiting for the one that's deceitful....why wait, you already said all women are..just go out and get ya one. Are you saying that you are only good for a period of time? That clears up the stuff you wrote. But what i do get is that is full of ups and downs. Just because there are downers does not mean the worst...shit happens; move on. Relationships are an ever evolving thing because some people cannot be honest to the othe for various reasons (fear of losing them; they don't like confrontation, etc) This comes with time and trust. Don't tell me that the fifty and seventy five year marriages are based on such crap. Look ahead and not behind cuz ou are gonna bump into something. I promise i don'tmean to insult, but i see that you are quite open with your words. I must be a rarety because i m not one of those women you speak of and to be honest, not all of us are.....Be fair. Good luck to you. | |
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Posted: 2/23/2006 2:08:21 AM | Even if it is the hottest girl on the planet, how can guys protect themselves against "bad intentioned" women?
If teflon doesn't work.....
Look, we as guy's are natural born strategists. We KNOW women & they know squat about
strategy and they have only one tool up their sleeve....albeit a powerful one.
We already know their playbook but what gets us in trouble is lack of patience. | |
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Posted: 2/23/2006 3:20:01 AM | Petalz I want to commend you on expressing your opinon and pointing out that there are both men and women with bad intentions. Just as there are both men and women who truly have nothing but good intentions.
If you really think about it there truly are more people (both men and women) that have nothing but the best of intentions. Unfortunately, the people whom have bad intentions just really stick out in our minds more.
Now if you seem to continuely end up with people that have bad intentions maybe you should really think about what it is your looking for in someone and open yourself up to the possibility of exploring other options.
I believe that the best is yet to come so we should all just sit back relax and enjoy the ride whether it be good, bad or indifferent and try to learn from it as opposed to carrying around illgotten feelings.
Now I wish you all only the best and I hope you find what it is that you are searching for! | |
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Posted: 2/23/2006 5:39:00 AM |
I find many women attractive. I lose complete interest when you find out there alot about themselves.
Then I'm thinking one of those blow-up girls will be just right for you -- because then you won't "lose complete interest" when you find out she has a LIFE.
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Posted: 3/15/2006 10:04:00 AM | With respect to people, I think there will always be the good, the bad and the ugly. Agreed, often the most attractive are the worst users but not necessarily. My advice is to not lose heart and keep sorting. Oh, and try not to get sexually involved with obvious bad eggs. Letting go can be painful.
Petalz, you have a new message.... Cheers | |
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Posted: 2/16/2008 9:16:15 PM | OP ... I don't know if you can protect yourself from "bad intentioned" women
... but I do know that if you go into a situation with a closed heart and suspicion of bad intentions, then you will not get the full love and warmth of a relationship.
Go with an open mind and heart ... and the few bad intentioned people will pale by contrast to the better experience an open heart will lead you to with good people | |
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Posted: 2/17/2008 5:33:36 AM | | condoms are a great protection barrier | |
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Posted: 2/17/2008 8:14:06 AM | | Don't give them your money....ever! And always, always use a condom! | |
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Posted: 2/17/2008 9:19:56 AM | Nothing is foolproof, of course. Time usually makes things clearer as well - it's getting enough time and insight without getting nasty surprises that can be a problem. Love usually means you trust someone - blindly, all too often. The alternative is cynicism which takes a toll on love. You risk, or you don't risk.
Even so, you can do things from simple and easy to complex to help protect yourself and mitigate risk without becoming cynical and paranoid.
The two biggest issues I see discussed in the forums are paternity (either you didn't intend for that but "somehow" it happened, or you're made to believe you're the father but are not), and divorce or common-law breakup without a good prenuptial or alternative agreement.
Both can be addressed if this matters to you. At the least, you can do a paternity test immmediately, so the courts can't say your time window to test this has passed, or you can freeze your sperm and have a vasectomy, so that you and ONLY you have control over paternity. A prenup, or a non-marital cohabitation agreement can protect assets and income if you have anything worth protecting.
Not romantic, perhaps, but if you're not truly careful and methodical about new relationships, you either do these things or accept things however they turn out, and blame noone but yourself. | |
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Posted: 2/17/2008 3:42:11 PM | It's been my experience that men are more attracted to the drama queens, golddiggers, liars, cheats, etc. They'd rather have a hot girl bat their eyelashes and say ''buy me a drink and while your at it a new car too''....rather than be with an honest woman/nice girl.
I'm thinking a lot of these very hot hot hot chicks look so good because someone is paying for their hair and nails to be done, designer clothes, and plastic surgery....those women have learned to play the game well, and wield their sexuality like a sword. And they walk away with a lot of goods in the process. | |
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Posted: 2/17/2008 6:24:56 PM | Bad "intentions" swings both ways . . .
A few things I have learned . . . [hindsight is perfect sight! heheheeeeee]
-Stand grounded . . .
-She/he says what she/he means . . . .followed by . . .
-She/he does as she/he says . . . .
LISTEN . . . .
OBSERVE . . . .
ASK QUESTIONS . . . .
WAIT . . . .
N TIME . . . again . . . IN TIME . . . if it does not add up . . . WALK!!!
Moral the story: “Time is priceless . . .”
Just a friendly fishie in these aguas . . .
~Myth~ | |
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Posted: 2/17/2008 7:14:32 PM | Whoa! Bad intentioned Women???!!! What about bad intentioned MEN!!!!!???
I think theres an equal amount of bad intentioned both sexes...
CowTrucker
Chapman, Kansas | |
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Posted: 2/18/2008 8:05:45 AM | | Keep your pants on! | |
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Posted: 2/18/2008 8:11:18 AM | Listen to your gut instinct. Keep a monitor on how often your gut instinct is right. Most people have a gut instinct about a person and then go on to ignore it. Then they have that V-8 headslap moment about the person was like and wonder how it could have been avoided.
If you don't have a good gut instinct monitor, make friends with someone who does and get their advice. | |
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Posted: 2/18/2008 11:23:15 AM | | Don't base your dating criteria on 'Hottest'. | |
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Posted: 2/18/2008 5:37:33 PM | Thats a very easy to answer. Tell me who you friends are and Ill tell you who you are.
A girl with bad intention will keep things and ppl secret in her life. Ask her to meet her friends and get to know the ppl around her, youll get your answer. Thats my own opinion anyways.
good luck | |
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