| | Male Virgins? Do they exist?Page 1 of 8 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8) | | It seems like you meet girls that are waiting until marriage every now and then, but you hardly ever meet a guy who is waiting. I am trying to wait ( I am not a virgin but I want to stop and wait since I have become a Christian I have went over this and over this ) and it would really help me if I met a guy who was the same, but it just doesn't seem like that is a possibility. So my question is ......... are there any out there anymore? | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 1/27/2005 12:56:09 AM | Yep I was a virgin till I was 22... just wasnt ready. Wasnt a wait till marriage thing though..
but wow.. it would be hard to stay a virgin and be with you! lol | |
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Posted: 1/27/2005 6:28:53 AM | I've been one for all of my 49 years. Came very close twice in some odd situations, but it didn't happen.
While reading a book a few months ago, I found out why I haven't been able to.
It turns out that I was put into an incubator at birth, and missed that vastly important first outside contact with my mom, where part of what happens is that the baby develops the ability to transmit and receive in that "intimate wavelength". As the result, I'm still single, went on my first date a couple months ago, and that was because I wanted to see if I could prove the author of the book ("Feelings Buried Never Die" by Karol Truman) wrong.
Up until a few months ago, I was going through life doing fine, not really paying attention to the part of me that deals with all things intimate, but somehow, that part of me is wide awake and looking for a ladyfriend. | |
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Posted: 1/27/2005 8:10:00 AM | | If you're a Christian flshygrl, then you know they have been forgiven if their not virgins, and you must trust that they will be loyal to you only. Yes, there are guys who are virgins. But, not all virgins are Christian, and not all Christians are virgins. | |
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Posted: 1/27/2005 12:53:37 PM |
not all Christians are Virgins
I understand this. I am not a virgin, but I am wanting to try and give up sex. Maybe I could meet someone that isn't a virgin but is also willing to wait and put sex off, therefore I was just wondering if there were any male virgins out there... maybe I should revise the question.... are there any men wanting to start over like I do? | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 1/28/2005 8:08:03 PM | | There are men that lose their virginity just out of curiousity. And really did not see what all the excitement was all about ....and then don't get really into until marriage. With the large percentage of females now with genital herpes, a guy is lucky if he feels this way. | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 1/29/2005 1:53:16 AM | | My buddy says since he became a Christian he will wait for marriage. He has been waiting now going on ten years. As I say I think he has become a born again virgin! | |
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Posted: 4/26/2005 8:25:55 AM | | I'm not a christian and I'm not a virgin, but I am now waiting for long term. I have differant reasons then religion. I feel that sex has become too important to too many people. I would like to have relationship that is based on something much deeper then sex. I feel that when I find that person and we do have sex, it will be much more powerful. | |
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Posted: 4/29/2005 5:29:46 AM | | I would be happy to start over with you and abstain from sex until we are married, provided we get married tommorow. Thats if your into old worn out Scottish men. | |
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Posted: 5/1/2005 10:41:43 AM | I just wanted to applaud you for your decision to abstain from this point forward. Sometimes people feel that if they have done it once, what does it matter? I believe (and I'm a virgin so I may not be totally right) that its harder to have THEN abstain, then when you haven't had at all. So shows strength in character for you to make that decision.  | |
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Posted: 6/19/2005 9:51:09 AM | Sounds good. Wait....wait...wait....hmmm
I wonder if its like hunger...
Or, ifs its like private club...exclusive club...vs..public airport or public cheap and easy stall or facility. (have u seen the kaliber there? lol)
I told someone that I was 3 or so years out since last..she called me a born again virgin
hahah I had never heard that..but think you do become..somewhat...so... | |
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Nibe
| | Joined: 6/17/2005
Msg: 16 | |
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Posted: 6/19/2005 3:55:53 PM | | Gotta agree with some of the previous posts. Dating you flshygrl and not sleeping with you before marriage would be impossible. Kinda like dangling a piece of meat in a cage with a lion. I mean eventually "he would get some" but it's a matter of when. :) | |
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Posted: 7/21/2005 10:59:19 AM | | I'm a 47-year-old male virgin, but it's not a matter of religion or morality in my case, it's lack of interest in having sex; the idea of having sex with another person, female or male, just doesn't appeal to me. I've dated before, and I'm looking for women to date on this site and others, but it's always platonic, and I don't have any desire to change that. And it's not 'waiting for marriage'; if I ever got married, that would have to be platonic as well. | |
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| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 7/21/2005 12:43:17 PM | | There have been many times where i've been in the club, and have had the opportunity to dispose of my virginity. But why should I? Being a virgin is unique, it is an experience in and of itself. Sure, I don't share it with others (not referring to my virginity), but it is something that I carry with me everywhere I go. I do not care about other people's opinions, I am no more no less of a person because of my lack of sexual exploits. | |
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Millan
| | Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 20 | |
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Posted: 7/21/2005 12:49:29 PM | Ted,
Are you by any chance on antidepressants? I know that prolonged use of antidepressants is like a thorn in your side when in comes to sexual drive. | |
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Millan
| | Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 22 | |
| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 7/21/2005 12:54:27 PM | avraham,
my advise..get sum and lose the glasses..
btw
Who could tell the difference if a guy claimed to be a virgin but isn't..it's just a matter of being able to lie well..and not being too good the 'first time'.. et voila , you got yourself a virgin... | |
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Posted: 7/21/2005 1:01:34 PM | | I will come to you a happy man when I have bedded a virgin, who also happens to be my future wife. I do not think that losing my virginity to average Jane will leave me a better person, it will leave me with nothing but regret. I'm a traditionalist, although I believe the movement of traditionalists is slowly fading into obscurity. First, why marry to have sex? Suddenly that not having to marry to have sex becomes more and more a case of nymphomania and a lack of self control. Maintaining your virginity is at the apex of self control, trust me. | |
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Millan
| | Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 24 | |
| Male Virgins? Do they exist?
Posted: 7/21/2005 1:04:36 PM |
Maintaining your virginity is at the apex of self control, trust me
..not masturbating is that apex you're talking about. do you..? | |
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Posted: 7/21/2005 1:08:45 PM | | I do not masturbate, but naturally I have nocturnal emissions (sp?). Put before a sexy vixin and your own hand, which would you choose? So, no, I do not mean masturbation is the apex of self control. Masturbation is easily stifled with a flick of the wrist in the other direction. | |
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