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 2Soxx

Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 1
Condoms on a first date? [CLOSED FOR REVIEW]
Posted: 2/24/2006 9:35:09 AM
Anybody go on first dates carrying a condom on their personage or in their handbag (purse)?
 kez1010

Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 2
Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/24/2006 9:36:20 AM
well i would if i could get a date
 Checklist

Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 3
Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/24/2006 9:36:24 AM
I learnt a valuable lesson a few years ago

Alway have one in your wallet or to hand, becuase you never no


Al'right treacle
 Missy~H

Joined: 8/31/2005
Msg: 4
Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/24/2006 9:37:28 AM
I've got loads in my bag all the time. But i run a c-card service at work, so i want to make sure everyone is safe.
But just like a guy normally has one in his wallet, i do keep one in my purse, because you never know what's gonna happen. But it's best to be prepared, as if there's no condom, there's no sex for me...
 2Soxx

Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 5
Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/24/2006 9:37:36 AM
I am so naive, it appears
Or perhaps, not that presumptive
 wannabeloved33

Joined: 6/19/2005
Msg: 6
Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/24/2006 9:38:51 AM
YES YES YES!!! Always!!!

Its Called Responsibility!!!
 2Soxx

Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 7
Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/24/2006 9:39:27 AM
Can't you just say "no"?

Edit.......
I should clarify, I don't carry any on a first date, but I would not engage in any activity that would require one on a first date. K. Ryste! Am I a prude?
 Captain Fantastic

Joined: 2/9/2005
Msg: 8
Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/24/2006 9:39:48 AM
yep always best to be prepared

ps a little secret - always carry at least 2, cos if your mate pulls with her mate but hasnt got one, your deal can go down the pan too!! (a dishertening experience from way way way back lol)
 Missy~H

Joined: 8/31/2005
Msg: 9
Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/24/2006 9:41:45 AM
I've said no for the last 118 days, but i still carry condoms. You never know what's gonna happen.
 2Soxx

Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 10
Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/24/2006 9:42:34 AM
Ooer and counting too
 Checklist

Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 11
Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/24/2006 9:45:06 AM
I dub thee,
Mistress H,
a nun
 Missy~H

Joined: 8/31/2005
Msg: 12
Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/24/2006 9:45:18 AM
Yeah i'm counting
Sister mary Mistress lol
 Piere39

Joined: 2/7/2005
Msg: 13
Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/24/2006 10:11:09 AM
No glove, no love, that means no chance.

I always have a pack in my backpack. I prefer the 3-pack but you have to be careful that the girl doesn’t see that she is getting the last one. That can lead to embarrassing questions.

A missed piece is a piece lost for ever. (quote from a friend)
 Clarkey005

Joined: 10/6/2005
Msg: 14
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Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/24/2006 10:38:15 AM
Always got one in my wallet, again learning from experience that when you ain't got 'em, thats when you need them.......

Though when I get to use, I'd best check the expiry date as it's been a while.......
 Catch A Star

Joined: 10/17/2005
Msg: 15
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Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/24/2006 11:28:54 AM
I've never carried one around...ever...nor have I ever needed one on a first date and have never knowingly dated anyone who had them on a first date either, (but maybe they just never showed me). Actually, I think I'd better check the date on the box I do have, I think they have expiry dates??!?!?

You know in thinking about it, I always tend to think that's the man's job, to have condoms, but mine are held for emergencies, as in, we just used his last 3
 Draken_2k5

Joined: 7/17/2005
Msg: 16
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Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/24/2006 11:33:34 AM
I normally keep one on me at all times. I don't plan on getting so lucky that I need them, but in my mind an ounce of precaution is better better then a pound of cure. Mostly though I end up giving them to mates when they have run short. Bloody buggers have been getting free condoms of me for years now!
 Missy~H

Joined: 8/31/2005
Msg: 17
Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/24/2006 11:58:11 AM
Good job this thread got brought up, the expiry date on the one in my purse is June 2005, not that'll i need any anyway
 2Soxx

Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 18
Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/24/2006 12:04:44 PM
Wanna go back in time MH?
 Missy~H

Joined: 8/31/2005
Msg: 19
Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/24/2006 12:13:19 PM
I've got the last time machine, and awe it's broken
 2Soxx

Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 20
Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/24/2006 12:14:45 PM
Dammit!!!!!!

Where's Michael J Foxx when ya need him?
 Morinn

Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 21
Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/24/2006 10:30:28 PM
Its better to have one and don't need one, than to need one and don't have one.
 Gangrel_in_london

Joined: 9/24/2004
Msg: 22
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Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/24/2006 10:48:33 PM
Answer that with a few questions:

1.) They're made to prevent disease. Want one?

2.) They're somewhat effective in preventing sperm from reaching an egg. Want one?

3.) Physical love should be an answer to emotional love, not vice versa. Can you answer "no" to one and "yes" to two?

Having said all of that, I have to be honest and say yes, I have condoms. After all, I'm a male, and women know just as well as I do what men want in the short term. Being human, we screw it up. Sue us.

There was a movie I can't remember the name of that put it best:

"I like to think of guns and condoms in the same way: It's better to have one and not need it than to not have one when I need it."

~W.S.
 georgiegirl1967

Joined: 2/16/2006
Msg: 23
Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/25/2006 12:36:52 AM
I usually have one in my handbag - but I have a friend who is in a long term relationship, but despite being 12 years younger than me is like my mum. She always has a supply to dole out to her friends should they be in the situation where they need them.

Many men I know don't carry them, and rely on the woman to supply them.
 wannabeloved33

Joined: 6/19/2005
Msg: 24
Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/25/2006 1:04:23 AM
Can someone please Clarify something with me....

Not giving out names (i'll be banned) BUT just had a email from a MALE on here (well not the forums!!) say if women carry around condoms they are Slags!!!! I AM OFFENDED!!

Surely its best to be safe n sorry... 90% of the time i dont have sex on a first Date however you cant ever predict what may or may not happen!! So C'mon GUYS... do you class us Gals as slags if WE carry them in our handbags???
 Missy~H

Joined: 8/31/2005
Msg: 25
Condoms on a first date?
Posted: 2/25/2006 1:19:59 AM
OMG what century is he living in? In the past i've known very few guys to carry condoms, as usual and like a lot of things, it's left down to the woman.
I carry condom's but am NO SLAG because i do.
I feel that sometimes things can happen when you least expect it. I would rather carry condoms and be safe, than not have any.
How dare anyone make that assumption that women are slags because of carrying condoms
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