|Ideas anyone?Page 1 of 5 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5)|
I need help. I want to give my partner a nice romantic night to help bring the flames back into our sex life. Well I guess our relationship. I feel like we are just not appreciating each other as much as we should. So I want to create a romantic night for him. I am just not that creative and in desperate need for some ideas to make this night fun and truley unforgetable for him. Your ideas and help would be very much appreciated. Thanks!
Posted: 3/3/2006 7:57:21 AM
|just be naked laying on the couch when he walks in|
Posted: 3/3/2006 7:58:49 AM
|and have a beer ready for him|
Posted: 3/3/2006 7:59:27 AM
|and one of you friends that he finds HOT|
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:00:57 AM
|7, she asked for creativity... |
Send him a note to his workplace giving the address and a hotel key (just like that, in the middle of the day)... then wait at a hotel for him... not necessarily naked
take some strawberries & shampagne.. or whatever will make the fooling around hotter...
It's nothing new I know, but it will work..
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:02:06 AM
|a romantic night for you or for him? Like 7times said just be naked and ready to do it all when he comes home. Guys don't care about romance.|
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:03:33 AM
|It's not about romance but doing sth different this time, guys: READ (between the lines)!|
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:03:45 AM
whip cream body sundae?
men are not very romantic you know....
least not till after sex.. LOL
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:04:05 AM
|Greet him at the door in some lacy lingerie and a bottle of wine/champagne, have candles lit, some scented, of course. Lead him to the couch and tell him that you thought tonight could be special. He'll catch on to the meaning and that should be enough.|
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:04:15 AM
|hey,, he can be creative after walking in the door and seeing her naked|
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:07:15 AM
|Be already lubed up and ready to go when he gets home !|
Nothing says I love you, like a whole bottle of baby oil !!
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:25:25 AM
|A romantic evening would be have some total stranger that I thought was sexy give me a flower and ask me to some private cabin in the mountains and we mate like animals and leave and never see each other again. Romance is all in the attraction and not the daily grind of life.|
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:28:28 AM
Does he have any fantasys that you could make come true for him?
Maybe get dressed up to the nines, take him to a resturant, play footies with him, take him home, do a strip tease for him and then have you way with him.
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:35:40 AM
|He does'nt have any fantasies. I have already asked. He is a pretty sipmle and basic guy.|
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:36:53 AM
Everybody has fantasies!
He just aint telling Diane!
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:38:11 AM
I wanted to do this for my ex once and here is what I came up with. I cut out about 100 hearts from different colored construction paper, punched small holes in them and tied them all with varying lenghts of ribbon. The proceeded to hang them all over our bedroom ceiling. I put a hook into the ceiling directly over the bed and draped see through mesh from it to enclose the bed. Close the bedromm door. When he got home from work I told him I had a surprise for him. I blindfolded him, led him out of the house to the car and drove him around for about 15 min, back to the house. Led him into the bedroom and took off the blindfold. We had a great night and he really appreciated the thought I had put into everything.
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:39:00 AM
|wow,, no fantasies???|
if you have some maybe act them out and let him come along for the ride
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:40:57 AM
|create a fantasy for him then.|
dress up like sexy roman goddess and have a toga on the bed for him....
do a sexy roman strip dance....
take him for a walk..... in the woods and play farm girl
meets farm boy.
Tree limbs make nice handles for sex positions
take it from there.....
this is what guys like.
maybe you just need to wake him up?
and bring out his fantasies ????
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:41:05 AM
|See that would be great. That the kind of thing I want to do.|
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:43:21 AM
|What are his fantasies??? If you can tap into that it would be quite easy. |
If you haven't a clue what he likes, then use that........get some cute little pieces of paper, something to write with and have that on the table at dinner. Then tell him this is going to be something new but that you'd like to use regularly.
Each write 5 things (on seperate pieces of paper, maybe use 2 different colors one for him,one for you so you can take turns pulling them out) and put them in a box (good idea, get some cute, pretty, sexy box or container -- maybe metal tin like a heart or something that is different from usual household stuff you have) 5 sexual acts, fantasies etc that each of you would like to try.
If you are afraid neither of you will come up with any, go get the Cosmopolitan (Feb) issue and cut out the ones you think are interesting from the list in there or get any other book and do the same.
He's going to love that you cooked a nice meal, be inticed that you are dressing sexy and flirty and fun and be blown away that you would initiate a forum for his wildest fantasies to come true for the 2 of you ----ONE CATCH--- you have to be willing, enthusiastic and able to do what he asks. Set the ground rules --- nothing painful.
Then you can add to the box as you read about, think of or start to envision new things. You'll be surprised how much you can think of when you open yourself up to it.
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:43:36 AM
|Do you think feeding him chocolate covered strawberries and such blindfolded would be alright?|
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:44:44 AM
|I think we should call this guy 7...I don't know about you but I have so many fantasies I need to get rid of some before my brain explodes!|
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:45:30 AM
|Thanks Bigsmile. Thats a great idea. That would be fun and ineresting.|
Posted: 3/3/2006 8:45:32 AM
|That's a big yes. To the strawberries.|
Posted: 3/3/2006 9:02:29 AM
|Guys what would you like if someone was going to romance you?|