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Posted: 3/4/2006 6:28:32 AM | | ok i got a question for all. what would you do if the girl of your dreams is at only your best friend. if you didn;t screw that up. would you want to stay friends or nothing at all. and i am talking about the girl that you see yourself only being with. what the f.... should i do. i am so sick of not knowing need help please. and telling her how i feel not sure if it will help. so question really is anything i can do to win her? or what the hell should i do? | |
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Posted: 3/4/2006 6:31:56 AM | If she's your best friends girl then leave it alone. If for the simple fact that you'll never be trusted again by any of your friends that know about this. This is being a backdoor man and it's not a respectable place to be! If that's not a good enough answer then talk to your best friend and tell him how you feel. Maybe he doesn't feel like she's the one and maybe he'll be understanding and let her go. Now, I seriously doubt that's gonna work but what the hell, right?
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Posted: 3/4/2006 6:41:45 AM | Luna, can't make much sense of the OP's post, but I don't think it's his best friends girl, lol. I think maybe it's the OP's best friend that IS the girl...or something like that! | |
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Posted: 3/4/2006 6:52:14 AM | | lol Luna, I do have to agree with you! I had to do a whole lot of reading between the lines and connecting the dots to come to what may or may not have been an improper deduction! | |
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Posted: 3/4/2006 6:56:59 AM | I couldn't get the dots to connect and reading between the lines was rough. Not enough coffee yet! I'm going back to bed!
Luna
I think a forum on spelling and grammar would be helpful in here sometimes! Oh, and sentence structure! LOL | |
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Posted: 3/4/2006 7:34:41 AM | | Why agonize? If you wait till she finds someone else, you'll kick yourself in the --- forever. What's the worst that can happen if you do tell her? She might say she isn't interested in pursuing a romantic relationship. At least you'll know. If she's a truly good friend, she won't drop you like a hot potato just because you tell her you have feelings for her. | |
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Posted: 3/4/2006 8:13:10 AM | | Life is too short! Tell and see, what have you to lose? | |
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Posted: 3/4/2006 8:58:53 AM | | is it your best friends girl you like,or your girls best friend,or is it ? | |
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Posted: 3/4/2006 10:31:18 AM | | I think he meant she was his best friend? | |
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Posted: 3/4/2006 11:30:56 AM | | I would try telling her how you feel the saying goes you never know unless you try or you can try giving hints like being more flirtatious or what not but if you want a solid answer go for it tell her how you feel if it's meant to be more than just a friendship than it will at least if you tell her how you feel you'll know where you stand. hope everything works out for you | |
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Posted: 3/4/2006 11:45:16 AM | If you are on her "friends" list, you will always be on the friends list. The cross-over to the "lovers" list is rare and usually ends in her putting you back on the "friends" list. Follow the advice of the others and tell her how you feel, but it's a given that she'll tell you she doesn't think of you "like that"....
... better to go find someone else who doesn't think of you as a friend before everything else.
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Posted: 3/4/2006 11:53:31 AM | TELL HER.
i always given the same advice...JUST SAY IT! =P if she treasures your friendship, she won't let such a thing ruin your friendship [if she didn't feel the same]. things will surely change though. but who knows...maybe she's feeling the same way. atleast you wouldn't be thinking of *what ifs* right.
trust me on this. TELL HER! i'm currently in that situation. we've known each other since gr.10 i think. we were the closest buddies in college. we were always chillin just the two of us...that practically every1 thought we were actually a couple. now, it kinna sucks to be in the receiving end...esp. when you don't feel the same way for the guy. it sucks cuz one of the reason i was really close to him was cuz i know we'll never hook up.. i tell him practically everything...life, the guyz i deal with, love, life...and the guyz..mostly the guyz...lolz. i always just vented to him about one particular guy...how i'm so gaga over this one dude and this and that. now i can't even do that anymore. i feel like i have to watch what i say so i don't "lead him on", or rub into his face that i'm into some1 else. but then i don't wanna hold back too much that it'll push him away. it REALLY SUCKS! but i care for him and want to keep our bond. sure, it'll never be the same...but who knows. maybe when he finds another girl...we'll be even stronger as best friends =). then i can make fun of him, "remember when ...."...hehehehehhe.
so yea...TELL HER =D | |
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Posted: 3/4/2006 12:00:37 PM |
trust me on this. TELL HER! i'm currently in that situation. we've known each other since gr.10 i think. we were the closest buddies in college. we were always chillin just the two of us...that practically every1 thought we were actually a couple. now, it kinna sucks to be in the receiving end...esp. when you don't feel the same way for the guy. it sucks cuz
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ My point, exactly..... | |
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