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Posted: 3/5/2006 8:51:02 AM | | what can be some reasons it hurts woman during intercourse? | |
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Posted: 3/5/2006 9:04:18 AM | | I can't tell if you're serious. If so, lack of lubrication. She's not being aroused, for whatever reason. There's always k-y jelly, but it would be good if you'd try to figure out why she's not being aroused, if so. | |
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Posted: 3/5/2006 9:09:15 AM | she could need reconstructive surgery..some women are not formed correctly inside..had a friend that had to be reworked...
Could be you are too big for her....
Could be lack of lube....
Could be a number of things..she needs to see her doctor. | |
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Posted: 3/5/2006 9:22:02 AM | | Open sore where one shouldn't be? | |
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Posted: 3/5/2006 9:32:22 AM | | I'd try more lube first and if that doesn't help, look at other causes. | |
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Posted: 3/5/2006 9:46:27 AM | | Either you are TOO BIG, or she is TOO SMALL. I sympathize, b/c I have had experiences when I couldnt make love to someone I loved because it wouldnt fit. It sucks | |
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Posted: 3/5/2006 12:18:03 PM | | There could be many reasons.. | |
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Posted: 3/5/2006 12:27:13 PM | many many reasons,
PCOS (poly cystic ovarian syndrome), endometriosis, PMS cramping, UTI, STD's, not being wet enough, a tear in the tissue, you're too big, bent, wrong position, too wide...
Lack of lubrication
Hang-ups and failure to relax. Unskilled 'foreplay' by the man is a common cause - especially when the foreplay doesn't go on long enough. (Many women would like half an hour - but don't get it!)
Menopausal or post-menopausal dryness This is usually due to a fall in female sex hormones. Treatment with HRT pills or (more directly) hormone cream will usually put matters right. And ordinary sex lubricants will help too.
Vaginal infections
These are very common. The one that huge numbers of women get is thrush. But there are numerous others, such as trichomonas.
Injury
Sadly, injury to the vulva or vagina can occur during rape or sexual assault - and later cause dyspareunia. Much more commonly, injury is caused by a childbirth tear - or the cut (episiotomy) that is so often made during labour. (Badly healed stitching can often cause pain.)
Genital warts
These are awfully common in these days of fairly promiscuous sex. Sometimes the warts can cause pain.
Vulvitis
This means inflammation of the vulva (the opening to the vagina). It can be due to all sorts of causes, including chemicals in bubble-baths or soaps.
Haematoma of the clitoris
It's a bruise (or collection of blood) in the clitoris, caused by excessive friction.
Urethral caruncle
This is a tender patch that develops at the urinary opening.
Foreign body in the vagina
The usual culprit is a forgotten tampon. It may cause pain, especially if the tampon causes an infection.
Cancer
A rare cause of intercourse pain. But it must be borne in mind in a woman who develops this kind of pain for the first time after the age of 40. | |
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Posted: 3/5/2006 12:32:47 PM | | e) all of the above ^^^^^ | |
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Posted: 3/5/2006 12:34:24 PM | how about more fore play and sweet talk.Get her wet the old fashion way.  Or see a Dr. | |
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Posted: 3/5/2006 12:35:46 PM | PCOS (poly cystic ovarian syndrome), endometriosis, PMS cramping, UTI, STD's, not being wet enough, a tear in the tissue, you're too big, bent, wrong position, too wide...
Lack of lubrication
Hang-ups and failure to relax. Unskilled 'foreplay' by the man is a common cause - especially when the foreplay doesn't go on long enough. (Many women would like half an hour - but don't get it!)
Menopausal or post-menopausal dryness This is usually due to a fall in female sex hormones. Treatment with HRT pills or (more directly) hormone cream will usually put matters right. And ordinary sex lubricants will help too.
Vaginal infections
These are very common. The one that huge numbers of women get is thrush. But there are numerous others, such as trichomonas.
Injury
Sadly, injury to the vulva or vagina can occur during rape or sexual assault - and later cause dyspareunia. Much more commonly, injury is caused by a childbirth tear - or the cut (episiotomy) that is so often made during labour. (Badly healed stitching can often cause pain.)
Genital warts
These are awfully common in these days of fairly promiscuous sex. Sometimes the warts can cause pain.
Vulvitis
This means inflammation of the vulva (the opening to the vagina). It can be due to all sorts of causes, including chemicals in bubble-baths or soaps.
Haematoma of the clitoris
It's a bruise (or collection of blood) in the clitoris, caused by excessive friction.
Urethral caruncle
This is a tender patch that develops at the urinary opening.
Foreign body in the vagina
The usual culprit is a forgotten tampon. It may cause pain, especially if the tampon causes an infection.
Cancer
A rare cause of intercourse pain. But it must be borne in mind in a woman who develops this kind of pain for the first time after the age of 40.
EWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!! LOL | |
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Posted: 3/5/2006 12:47:06 PM | yep... The pains of being a woman sometime...
So men.. be nice to us 
On a personal note, I found out I had large cyst (2.5 cm across and about 4 cm thick) from having painful sex, I was in soooo much pain I keeled over in pain. Went to the hospital and had an emergency ultrasound and that's where they located the cyst, on my left ovary. When they rupture that's the worst feeling in the world, I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
When it hurts, your body is trying to tell you something. Get it looked after right away. Otherwise you could end up in far worse pain down the road | |
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Posted: 12/28/2006 5:30:13 PM | | You put the nipple clamps on to hard. You tied her up for too long. You paddled her a$$ too much. Gee, figure it out yourself. It aint rocket science. | |
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Posted: 12/28/2006 5:32:17 PM | | Orrrrrr, she may not like ya. | |
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Posted: 12/28/2006 5:37:33 PM | I Love hockey....lmao
Were ya bored...go hunting through the old posts...lol
Much dust over there?
Nice one! hehehehe | |
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Posted: 12/28/2006 5:43:50 PM | | That's her belly-button. Try searching again. Sigh. Sorry - just had to say it... | |
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Posted: 12/28/2006 5:49:08 PM | | Maybe she is a post-op transexual and the vaginal construction was not done correctly.......... | |
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Posted: 12/28/2006 5:54:48 PM | | Certain types of birth control like coils can cause that too. Or simply a lack of experience. | |
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Posted: 12/28/2006 6:16:50 PM | OP, didn't you read the warning label?
Toaster not intended for insertion into body cavity. | |
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Posted: 12/28/2006 6:23:12 PM | | If she is feeling pain in her toes...... take off the pantyhose..... | |
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Posted: 12/28/2006 7:07:56 PM | | You need to talk to her and ask her.....such as what positions are you using that it hurts? I have read several threads where women say they get pain from the position that is used. Could be your drying her out. Drilling for oil.... LOL Lots of reasons....you havent posted enough info so anyone can determine that but you and the lady your with. | |
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Posted: 12/28/2006 7:28:03 PM | I think cute-lil-momma has a point it could be a size thing But...
Tell your lady to go get an exam and talk to a gynecologist about it...
intercourse should not be painful unless it's her first time | |
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Posted: 12/28/2006 10:10:15 PM | | i find that most women are hurt when having intercourse with me. my theory is that because of the lack of stature my dooper has, it causes a vacuum in the woman's "area" that leads to an uncomfortable suction. plus i use a sandpaper condom. | |
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Posted: 12/29/2006 8:59:53 PM | | "i use a sandpaper condom " .... too funny | |
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