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| Can you have sex with a man and not be together, but still be friends?
Posted: 3/6/2006 2:07:05 PM | I'm not saying free sex or giving myself up to every man I meet. I am just saying if you meet a man, end up, in the heat of the moment, having sex with that man, and both of decide that because, for whatever reasons, you would be better off as friends, do yu men really respect us the next day? | |
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| Can you have sex with a man and not be together, but still be friends?
Posted: 3/6/2006 2:13:25 PM | Yes you can do it. I am not afraid to admit it, after I split with my ex of 6 years, I spent 3 months having "benifits" with a very good friend of mine. We just stopped one day, and moved on with our lives. He has a g/f and I have my man, and are still very good friends...
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| Can you have sex with a man and not be together, but still be friends?
Posted: 3/6/2006 2:27:40 PM | I agree with you. Sex is sex. The operative word is "if" both parties know what is involved. Too often one or the other thinks it is something it is not. A lot of double-talk-huh?......Depends on whether they decide on what the experience is going to be... a pleasurable "loving experience" or a "sexual experience"........?I have male friends I would never consider having sex with  . | |
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| Can you have sex with a man and not be together, but still be friends?
Posted: 3/6/2006 2:47:27 PM | | Its possible but it depends on the mind set of the two people involved. If the sex was good, sooner or later one will possibly attempt for it again when the mood may be "in the air" .. so it depends on how strong the friendship is if it will continue on afterwards! | |
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| Can you have sex with a man and not be together, but still be friends?
Posted: 3/6/2006 2:57:12 PM | | well...are you just havin sex with him and him with you? b/c if he's sleeping with other women, then you run the risk of catching something. i've had a fvck buddy before. and it doesn't work. someones feelings always get involved. but if you wanna try it more power to ya. | |
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| Can you have sex with a man and not be together, but still be friends?
Posted: 3/6/2006 3:37:37 PM | | Anything is possible...it's really depends on the person. It's possible if you and the other person set boundries, and follow through with them. On the other hand, the down fall is; eventually, one person is more consumed in the relationship then the other and there with be alot of jealously and possessiveness if the other leaves or see other people. | |
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| Can you have sex with a man and not be together, but still be friends?
Posted: 3/6/2006 3:41:24 PM | I had a relationship in my past that included "benefits" that lasted years. She and I would suspend the "benefit" part of our friendship if either of us started dating anyone, and if the dating relationship ended, then we'd start up the "benefits" again when neither of us was seeing anyone.
I suspect that a part of the reason that we were able to do it successfully is that neither of us viewed the other as an appropriate choice as a romantic partner - We were only good friends. | |
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| Can you have sex with a man and not be together, but still be friends?
Posted: 3/6/2006 3:57:59 PM | Of course you can, as long as you both know that no real relationship is going to come of it.
I made that mistake once; falling for someone who doesnt want you like that hurts - until you break it off, wait a couple months, then start it back up (this time with your feelings strictly in check) with you calling the shots.
Maria XOXO | |
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| Can you have sex with a man and not be together, but still be friends?
Posted: 3/6/2006 7:45:14 PM | I personally think that its wrong. I'm sure many people do it, but there is lack of respect from both sides.
Its the kind of mentality that is blocking you from loving anyone ever, or being loved back.
2 people using each other's bodies just for the pleasure, avoiding a complete and loving relationship with all the responsibility, respect, and maturity this requires for the long run, is just against our true nature.
I'm realy sorry some people find it cool. Cause they have lost all respect for the other sex and only care about themselves. Thats what i think. | |
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