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 metaphysicalgypsy

Joined: 2/27/2006
Msg: 1
Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/6/2006 11:42:47 PM
Looking for opinions here...

Do you feel a kiss has significance or are they something that you just give away freely?

 *crescent*

Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 2
Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 12:10:13 AM
I don't give them away very freely......on the cheek maybe but not a nice, long, lingering one on the lips.....those are for the good ones
 Ihavahart2

Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 3
Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 12:40:50 AM
I think that a kiss has some significance on a first date especially if you were on the date for, say 3 or 4 hours and you knew the date went good, especially if u are interested in going on another with this person. A kiss does not mean that you are ready to do the sex thing.
 alaska2004

Joined: 1/16/2006
Msg: 4
Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 1:22:06 AM
Not to talk of the kiss on a first date that leads to to the nearest isolated area... I have learned of two different types of kisses for the most part. Those really interested and wanted me back gave me a nice hug and one or more soft lip kisses. Those not impressed for what ever reason I was lucky to get a cheek kiss while they might of gave a quick hug and couldn't wait to get in their habitat.
 carrie bradshaw

Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 5
Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 2:38:48 AM
A kiss sure does have significance. I know of hookers who won't kiss their john's. I won't kiss on a fist date.
 SweetieGuy_81

Joined: 12/25/2005
Msg: 6
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Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 3:22:42 AM
Well, i personally wouldn't expect anything on the first date, it would be up to the girl i am with.

If she wanted to give me a hug and a kiss to the cheek for a nice night, then cool.

If she wanted to give me a really good cuddle and a deep, passionate kiss......real cool.

But if she offered the sex thing on the first date, i would decline, I am the type of guy that needs to feel something special for the girl i have sex with, so until it feels special, i can settle with nice cuddle ups and kisses. :)
 carrie bradshaw

Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 7
Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 3:36:46 AM
SweetieGuy;
That's the first I have heard of a man declining sex on the first date. Bravo to you!!!
 LMAO

Joined: 2/20/2006
Msg: 8
Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 6:32:47 AM
YES,,,

Some tend to try and suck your face off,,,omg,,,let me breath!!!!!!!!!
And try not to swallow my head, because I am going to need it to figure out if I want a second date OR NOT!!!
 OnTheBus

Joined: 9/12/2004
Msg: 9
Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 7:11:30 AM
I dont give one, I take one if I want one. It's a guy thing I guess
 Felanie

Joined: 1/23/2006
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Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 7:44:19 AM
Kisses on the first date is a must... If the guy is too shy to take what he wants... I don't want him.. He has to be a good kisser too... no stinky breath... or tongue down the throat.
 tesaje

Joined: 1/13/2006
Msg: 11
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Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 7:55:52 AM
I don't kiss on a first meet and I don't like guys who try to get too familiar upon a first meet. Have some respect and get to know me a bit before trying to get physical!
 buzzingbee

Joined: 3/25/2005
Msg: 12
Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 11:26:23 AM

I dont give one, I take one if I want one

Actions are here "Watch this space Ladies & Gentlemen"!

buzz
 4loorplay

Joined: 2/19/2006
Msg: 13
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Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 11:29:35 AM
Is it on the cheek or on the lips? Is it with passion or is it a peck? Question is vauge.
 ~Juggernaut~

Joined: 2/6/2006
Msg: 14
Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 11:29:35 AM
a kiss is more significant when it leads to hot sweaty monkey sex.
Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 11:30:09 AM
To me a kiss on a first date isn't necessary because you don't even know what he/she wants so i would say wait until the second or third date.
 buzzingbee

Joined: 3/25/2005
Msg: 16
Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 11:31:12 AM

a kiss is more significant when it leads to hot sweaty monkey sex.


Ohhhh, in that case ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^heat is on...heat is on...

buzz
 verysweet

Joined: 1/31/2006
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Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 11:34:22 AM
If we can feel a connection then cool as long as he doesn't feel the need to double check that my tonsils were properly removed. A sweet, i like you kinda kiss is ok by me.
 OnTheBus

Joined: 9/12/2004
Msg: 18
Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 11:49:51 AM
Ultimate, it isnt a matter of what she wants, it is what you want, and if you can sense that she is receptive to one. Then YES, by all mean KISS her, damn it, and make it a GOOD one too. she has spent all her life reading about moments like a first kiss, wishing for an awesome one, so give her that gift.
 metaphysicalgypsy

Joined: 2/27/2006
Msg: 19
Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 11:56:33 AM
To elaborate on this...
When you are on a first date do you think a passionate good night kiss should mean something, or do you just give kisses away whether or not you plan on seeing that person again? It's just a kiss.
 verysweet

Joined: 1/31/2006
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Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 11:59:43 AM
I have to feel a conection, i don't want just any old tounge in my mouth ....lol. I can't bring myself to kiss someone i have no connection with.
 k.kong

Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 21
Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 12:00:10 PM
Kong agrees with the hot monkey sex idea...Kong thinks this...you can talk, you can dance, you can make eye contact, but nothing is more electric, more erotic, more anticipatory than that first kiss on the first date...will she feel the fire? Will the kiss elicit a small moan for more? will her eyes have a hardd time opening because your kiss transported her to another time and place? will she not quite want to let you go, not quite want the moment to end? Lads, you kiss a lady like this on the first date....see my first line
 buzzingbee

Joined: 3/25/2005
Msg: 22
Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 12:09:01 PM

Will the kiss elicit a small moan for more?

If JACKPOT!

buzz
 verysweet

Joined: 1/31/2006
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Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 12:13:47 PM
^^^ We have a winner ^^^ wow what a kiss like that does to the legs..jello
 k.kong

Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 24
Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 12:22:07 PM
and jello is a wonderful thing...the legs wobble, and without the kiss stopping, he scoops you in his arms so you lose all sense of contact except for his lips
 Bikeman_

Joined: 10/8/2005
Msg: 25
Does a kiss have significance on a first date?
Posted: 3/7/2006 12:42:59 PM
If someone doesn't want to kiss on the first date, fine, I don't HAVE to kiss on the first date, but a kiss does tell you much about your fellow kissee.

The only time first date kiss was strange for me was when the date went on for about an hour and a half, we were leaving the pub. She drove a unique car, I'm interested in cars, so I asked if I could sit down in her car to look at it. I think she took that as a sign that I had EXTREME interest in her. All throughout the date we were basically chatting, not much over flirting but we were brushing into each other occasionally as we rotated our bar stools. Right before I left she gave me THE KISS LOOK. Ok so I kiss her. Strange first kiss, her tongue was roaming all throughout my mouth like an earthworm. I left the date thinking "wow I must have been throwing out mixed signals, she REALLY wanted to bed me, or she just doesn't know first kiss subtlety".

Getting back to the OP's question, I don't think a first date kiss has much significance unless there is something real extreme about it. Bad breath, bad kissing technique, the kiss coming out of the left field bullpen, whatever.
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