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Posted: 3/8/2006 6:58:28 AM | Hey everyone!
I was watching a show on TV the other day about people that join sites for rich men/women who are just looking for a certain type of person that they can spoil and give an allowence to. Essentially, they are looking for a sugar daddy or sugar momma. I was just wondering if this practice is acceptable to most people now a days. I mean are there really rich people out there that want to go out and spoil their "gf"?
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Posted: 3/8/2006 7:00:12 AM | To be honest, I was offered by a few men to take care of me and spoil me. I'm not that kind of person so I said no! but there are lots of men and women out there that would do that to be with someone they think they can't get on their own.
That's my personnal opinion! | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 7:05:19 AM | Please tell me where I can find a sugar momma to send my ex to so he will leave me alone that's what he was looking for.
I know some people are like that and maybe there should be a site where they can go so the honest people can get together and quit running into them on the other dating sites. | |
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Cyrix
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Posted: 3/8/2006 8:04:18 AM | Hmm sounds like they're buying the other person's love with materialistic objects. If there's no magic feelin', there's no use reeling  | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 8:06:40 AM | If you have respect for yourself, you will not indulge yourself into that practice even if it is very tempting to receive nice stuff.
people who are "sugars" are trying either to buy you off or to compensate for an emotional "carence" (can't translate that one)...so it is not YOU they indulge..it's themself. | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 8:20:35 AM | | No, never I have far to much pride for that..I take care of myself..I have a problem when my bf wants to pay for my meal for goodness sakes..I'd never be able to do that ever.. | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 8:20:42 AM | | Lately I have been telling everyone I meet that I need a sugar daddy. I think that I may be halfway serious. I mean if all I have to do is look nice and possibly put out every once in a while, what is the big deal? It will get me the nice things that I can't afford myself. It also doesn't seem much different than the relationships I'm in right now, with the exception of the extravagent gifts. I say if you can, do. I'm not involved, so why the hell not? | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 8:29:53 AM | mmmhh i will repeat the joke I said yesterday:
"A man is approching a woman and ask her "will you give me a BJ for 1 000 000$?"...the woman say "of course". The man asked " how about for 10 000$?". "for sure" replied the woman. "how about for 1000$?" asked the man. " yeah sure" said the woman. And the man asked "how about for 10$?". Offended, the woman replied "What!? do you think am a prostitute?" and then the man says: " Yes, we already estabished that, am just haggling the price".
If you know that your in a relation only to obtain material gain (money or gift)..it is a form of prostitution and you have no self respect. | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 8:36:50 AM | | So what if I am in a relationship only to obtain an orgasm? Is that putting my self-respect in jeopardy? I think that it all depends on your mind set or the way you frame things. I would still take a sugar daddy any day. It would not affect, one iota, how much I respect myself. It may affect how much others respect me though. It is all the means to an end. | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 8:37:37 AM | | Just to get an orgasm? is not a material gain and it is not a true relation either, it's a fucK-friend. a-ha! | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 8:44:52 AM | Anyone that I interact regularly with, I consider myself to have a relationship with. That maybe a friendship, a lover, my doctor...
Anyway, I think that people are in realtionships for all kinds of reasons. If someone wants love and repsect, then they should find it. If someone wants spa days and jewlery, then they should find that. I'm out to make my life comfortable in every way. Maybe a sugar daddy would do that.
I always wanted to be a prostitute.  | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 8:47:14 AM | | With what you just added: Am sorry to tell you, but You already are a prostitute, in a way.....and I will not bother to add anything else in this pointless thread. | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 8:49:15 AM | wouldnt it be easier to spend your time and energy going
to college than trying to please a man into buying you trinkets
and things that only depriciate?
I wouldnt mess with any of that.... | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 9:03:03 AM | Yep, I guess that this will be my last post too. I have a college education. I have a home. I have a car. I get bored. I do think it would be fun to get presents just for being me. I may have romanticised the whole sugar daddy thing. Who knows? Be well. | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 9:08:57 AM | I have spent my whole adult life providing for others so hell yes, it be nice to be spoiled and pampered by someone else for a change...bring on those Sugar Mama's. I would even change my name to Duece Bigalow if that would help  | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 9:16:42 AM | | I took care of my ex for 6 years, cause it was way too easy for him not to work when I paid for everything; never again; on my own now, paying my own way, and if you can't contribute, I don't want to play.... | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 9:38:07 AM | I so agree.
A horrid idea, and the reason behind why Pretty Woman flopped so horribly in the theaters. | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 9:58:28 AM | Why not? If two consenting adults agree and are aware of the situation, then it's like a business arrangement. OK its a bit like prostitution, but it's an arrangement with just that man, both parties are getting exactly what they want, it's easy for both, it makes them both happy, and they're not hurting anyone else (providing children don't come into it). Where's the harm.
Wish I could find someone like Summerbuns, then I might have a chance of happiness! ;) | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 10:04:02 AM | I think it can be more insidious than anyone has mentioned. What if the person is a manipulative control freak that wants to "own" you? After you become enslaved, you may not find things as plush and comfortable as you may have presumed.
If you have a backbone and any self respect or sense of identity, being someone's kept object would not be a comfortable situation. | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 10:08:56 AM | If I had it to pamper a woman, I probably would.
If she wanted me to allow her to pamper me, I probably could.
But, sharing all of ourselves 50/50 is what would be good.
You pamper me this way and I'll treat you just as I should. | |
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Posted: 3/8/2006 10:17:52 AM | Ok, is he still a sugar daddy if you don't sleep with him?
I have a friend who buys me things because he's in love with me, and refuses to take them back when I don't want them. I've made my lack of interest painfully clear...but he still continues to buy me gifts.
All we do is talk on the phone, occasionally. And we've hung out a few times. I love him as a friend - and he says that he can settle for that. But he continues to buy me lavish gifts (not houses...or cars, lol) but things like IPOD's and phones. And it makes me uncomfortable.
Does that make me a prostitute? At times I feel like I'm using him, but giving back the gifts always depresses him. And telling him to quit it depresses him as well. | |
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