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| Are there any younger women in Oregon that like older men
Posted: 3/13/2006 11:39:11 PM | Replied to this in my other post to you. And, I agree on all counts. Of course, it's only a distance attraction. I have yet to meet someone younger whose maturity level is worth spending time on. I'd love to meet someone who's in great shape, positive, not lugging around their baggage and likes older guys; believing in settling down, enjoying what life offers and building a good, strong relationship. But, on the flip side, somebody our age who can be the same way is even better! It's nice to hold onto someone who cares enough about themselves to stay healthy (regardless of body type - back to health!), is creative, fancy and fun. Heck, I know a gal only a year younger than me, a little bit heavier - and if she wasn't already taken - I wouldn't think twice about hooking up with her. Why? A kick butt attitude, great health, TONS of energy and some to spare!
Just not easy to find though, is it? LOL | |
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| Are there any younger women in Oregon that like older men
Posted: 3/15/2006 5:30:37 PM | I had the same question a while back and got quite a shock when only young ones started responding to my profiles. Most of them were looking for fun for a date or two, but not for the long haul. A few were actually looking for a more mature guy to settle down with and build a family and a life together.
In other words, I quess there are some younger women out there that do like older men. | |
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| Are there any younger women in Oregon that like older men
Posted: 4/15/2006 10:44:23 PM | intresting Gumbi.. I actually can care less about actual age, I'm just wanting a fit, active and fun lady = a younger lady most the time.. which is a shame because I also like a mature personality which eliminates most younger ladies...
Oh well just my opinion..Most gals I get responces from are uh large and older and so little on common because I'm a real active guy...
I guess I'll stop looking for a gal and just stay a monk! | |
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| Are there any younger women in Oregon that like older men
Posted: 7/23/2006 9:24:37 PM | | Philly...you are so funny & soooo right! I just want to know how you managed to "retire" at 46, and I had to wait til I was 60...so unfair. What is the deal with these guys always wanting younger women "with less baggage"...oh, please. My guess is they don't want to have to bother carrying on an extended intelligent conversation with someone who might actually want to know what their plans are for the rest of their life. Fine by me, I want a grown up man anyway. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2006 6:25:33 PM | Why older men chase after younger women?
Mid-life Crisis. Confusion. Not wanting to grow up 100%. Some older men prefer younger women to feel younger. Some prefer younger women because some younger women are more naive than most. Younger women tend to not have much life experience and some older men know that perhaps they may also impress them with material items to win them over.
I know of some younger women that took the bait and shortly started to use the older men for money and material possessions while sleeping with a younger guy who could keep up and who didn't have performance issues. Not saying this is true in every situation but it is a lot more common than most would think.
There are lots of other factors and the true motivation to pursue younger women will differ from person to person. Personally, I tend to prefer older women up to 5-8 years older. They know what they want, they have life experience, they don't play games, they are more stable and mature. In my experiences younger women have only really been good for sexual relations because after awhile I start to get extremely irritated with how they act. I am not all that old, so that is an indication that I should have stayed the hell away from the 18 and 19 year olds. 21 is also stretching it but at least you can take them out for a drink. | |
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Posted: 9/26/2006 6:42:33 PM | | You're funny, tehnick, and right on. I'm probably Wayyyyyy to mature for you...(55) but I do agree with what you had to say. I was with a guy who was 48 and I was 24. I may not look like a trophy these days...but back in the day I looked hot on his bike. It broke my heart when I realized that was all I was. I would have married him. We used to talk about when he would retire and buy a little store near his home town in Illinois. I still remember him. Yes, I bit... | |
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| Are there any younger women in Oregon that like older men
Posted: 1/25/2007 3:06:04 PM | I'm a young guy just posting his opinion. If your answer to your relationship problem is a healthy, active woman with no baggage, then consider this: the USA as a whole has shifted from being an active, adventuring culture to a stay-at-home, work-at-office, no-time-for-exercise culture. You can't go out to dinner without straining to look for the average-weight class. Go to the mall and count the obesity. It's not just in after-40's folks...look at our kids.
The answer is in the person. If they want to be healthy, active, and carry no baggage, then they will be just exactly that. If younger women tend to not be attracted to you, then try the international market. Foreign women are 80% more likely to be in better shape and they're active as well. At least the ones I've seen.
Go to a mall in Buenos Aires and look around. The obesity is vice-versa.
That's my two-cents. | |
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| Are there any younger women in Oregon that like older men
Posted: 1/28/2007 6:06:13 PM |
I find myself liking younger women alot of the time because of several factors..
Less baggage, still active and in better shape lot of the time.. I wanna know what your opinion is...
I find myself liking younger men alot of the time because of several factors...less baggage, still active and in better shape lot of the time... 
now doesent that sound ridiculous... | |
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| Are there any younger women in Oregon that like older men
Posted: 2/1/2007 9:59:36 PM | | I think age is just a number to some people, although to myself, I prefer My age, or near my age, say, like a couple years younger iz okay , but not anything younger, I went out with a person 10 years younger than Me,and felt like I waz having to teach everything we did together, sometimes even common sense,not to mention if I left the room, she would be asking everyone, every second ,minute "wheres My boyfreind" , I couldn't hardly get away to even use the restroom, without being "clung onto". So yeah. for Me, Younger age does make a difference. Oh ,and lets not forget the "jealousy thing" She freaked when I even said hello to another Female, even if I waz paying My car Insurance to the Gal behind the Insurance desk! Then again like I say, some people can get along with age diferences younger and older! | |
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| Are there any younger women in Oregon that like older men
Posted: 3/26/2007 1:58:34 PM | I agree,
Younger ladies tend to be too flighty and unfocused, not to mention sexualy they are inexperienced and conversation without "like" every other word is almost impossible. I do enjoy the youthful energy level but this gets old fast. When the physical fun is all done, what do you have?
Younger people tend to become attached to older people on another or different level as well. There is a higher respect or mentoring that can surface that can be an ego boost for the man or woman.
Mid-life crisis...lol...A Mid-day crisis can make a man crave a younger woman. heh
I would say it isa taste of youth and vitality the older individual is attempting to reclaim. I prefer older women but a younger age (not to young) is a nice switchup at times as well. If both are concenting...go for it.
There are younger women in Eugene that like older men...where???...college parties or in class. lol
Good luck,
Larry
PS: This is my first post so....hi all | |
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| Are there any younger women in Oregon that like older men
Posted: 4/7/2007 11:20:36 AM | I find myself liking younger men alot of the time because of several factors...less baggage, still active and in better shape lot of the time...
now doesent that sound ridiculous...
SugarBandit(Great name btw),
No it does not.
Great answer.
Try not to ruin any of em ok? There are girls their age that need em too... An older woman, as I learned at the tender age of 23 (or was it 22?),is...the BOMB.
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Joined: 3/12/2007
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| Are there any younger women in Oregon that like older men
Posted: 5/18/2007 11:44:07 PM | | Yes! I prefer an older man to one around my age because they are so much more grounded, interesting and they know what the want... they also tend to not have anything to prove to anyone. They have been around and know what they are talking about. For me, it's also a definate physical attraction. Even at my age, 30, guys just aren't men yet. It sucks to be 30 for me. I feel like I should already be 40, but everyone looks at me like I am still 20... Are there any older guys interested in younger women that aren't college educated, but still good hearted and talkative? I gain interest in most things I come across, big ole tom boy. I think somehow, it's not attractive tho and men view me the wrong way, as a pal instead of someone to go the distance- the long haul... | |
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| Are there any younger women in Oregon that like older men
Posted: 6/23/2007 11:24:33 PM | 'Young women are clueless in bed & can't hold a decent conversation to save their life. Good luck with that.'
I could resent that generalised statement, being a young woman myself. I am very good at what I choose to do sexually. I know what I like, what I am open to exploring and how to please my partner whether female of male. As for decent conversation, I can hold my own if it is a topic of interest....but I see no reason to stress over being intellectually perfect. I also understand that most/all opinons given are based on personal experiences/perceptions/misconceptions...but they still remain generalised assumptions, nonetheless.
I can understand that a good amount of younger people are emotionally immature...which is why I have a problem when dating men younger than twenty-one (21). They have a spastic amount of energy which can be entertaining. They can be very sweet because women haven't abused/used them yet, so the emotional baggage is less for the most part. They are also a bit more adventuristic in the bedroom because they haven't tried it yet..everything is new and intense. They also have a sad tendency to be a bit wham-bam due to the excitement...often balanced out by a quick recovery. Intellectually, some have an annoying habit of being a know-it-all.
An older man can be delicious as well. They know the value of foreplay and, in my case, a bigger figure. They tend to have more sexual patience and realise the benefits of pleasing a woman thoroughly and repeatedly. Although, their energy and recovery rate is not always up to par with a younger man. There is also the barrier of emotional unavailability/trauma that past relationships have shaped. And unless they have led a sheltered life, the sexual aspects are no longer new and exciting...more routine...less spontaneity. Intellectually, some have an equally nasty habit of being condescending.
Rarely have I found a man who has the recovery/all-night stamina of youth coupled with the patient passion of an older man. Emotionally balanced and open with intelligence is even more rare...but they are out there, though. In general the ages around 26-36 are, again in my opinion, the ages in which I am most comptible....but sometimes a young man has led a hard life and has emotinally matured early...and an older man will show the excitement of youth for new things, sexually or otherwise.
Same can apply to women...But I shall not be so silly as to state that this is the way of all women. Exceptions to the 'rule' should be expected and looked forward to.
Whatever personal preference you might have, I hope you all find what you are looking for. | |
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| Are there any younger women in Oregon that like older men
Posted: 6/29/2007 10:08:30 PM | Funny...I had more baggage when I was younger...it took years and experience to learn how/where and when to drop it off and walk away.
I like me so much more now than I did in my 20s...looking forward to moving on and getting better and better. | |
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nmwjmw
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| Are there any younger women in Oregon that like older men
Posted: 7/31/2007 12:43:37 AM | Less baggage? Most of the women my age and older have life experience and know what they want. Maybe I do not know what "baggage" is but a few of us at 40 have worked through lots of behavior issues, that a 25 year old will not see as a problem until she is 38. Issues such as insecurity, jealousy, substance abuse and all around freakiness is something that we grow out of.... some of us... We get to a place where life is not to be controlled but lived.... So guys like you can have the younger ones... We dont like your type anymore. | |
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| Are there any younger women in Oregon that like older men
Posted: 8/1/2007 6:51:06 PM | maybe but i have been chatting with a very  nice lady who is younger, but only one year
i and at least for me i think were really might be on the same page as they say
so guys really dont forget ladys more your age
remember they know more in bed too ( blunty )
sorry ladys you read that!  | |
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| Are there any younger women in Oregon that like older men
Posted: 9/7/2007 6:56:01 PM | | Well I can understand where you guys are coming from about younger girls being to flighty or not being able to hold up a good conversation, but I also am 24 and very smart and talented for my age.. I am at the point where im looking for a serious relationship, and someone to settly down with, I dont know about other females my age but I am sure tired of all the games that most guys my age play, and all the cheating and liying.. I know it comes with all ages but I do notice it more with guys my age.. I for one I have pretty much dated older guys although I have to keep in mind I have only been in 5 relationships and I for one have never dated older then 12 years above my age.. I do enjoy the meaningfull talks and the relaxationa decent conversation can bring, which usually comes with the older guys... but basically my point is yes I understand what you guys are saying about most females but there are a few of us females that are actually not intellectually challenged.. | |
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| Are there any younger women in Oregon that like older men
Posted: 9/21/2007 11:53:04 AM | Let's just start with "older" is a relative term.
I'm almost completely repulsed at this point by men my age. I've always heard that men mature slower than women, and pardon me, but from my experience I've found that to be true. I know very few men my age (28) that are capable of paying bills on time, and meeting their responsibilities. Sure I want to have fun (and lots), but I'm a grown up now, and most men my age really don't seem to be.
Here's the issue with older men. I want someone who keeps up with me!!!! With older men sometimes this is the case, sometimes this is the case for a few weeks, and sometimes it's a pipe dream. The other issue I've had is that I've found that sometimes because they are older they will try to raise or refine me rather than date me.
Here's the thing....I am looking for perfection and if it happens to come in a 60 year old package I would take it. Do I think it will? Prolly not. I'm pretty open, and prefer men about 10-15 years older, but more than that usually isn't on my list. | |
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| Are there any younger women in Oregon that like older men
Posted: 9/30/2007 5:48:04 PM | Hey nmwjmw
What if YOU are the younger woman? would you feel flattered if an older guy (54) was attracted to your maturity and intelligence or would you think he should stay within his own age group, however that is defined? | |
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| Are there any younger women in Oregon that like older men
Posted: 10/1/2007 3:24:03 PM | I'm always flattered when someone is interested, it strokes my ego. Flattery and interest aren't the same though.
I am only interested in older men who are attracted to my maturity/intelligence though. I've found that those who have other attractions to younger ladies (not ALL, but yes, this is a generalization), sometimes want to be the daddy type, or expect to be the older, wiser, dominant, in charge person. I don't want a parent, I want a peer. When someone wants to date me, it ought to be for my maturity, intelligence, etc. not because my youth makes me easier to manipulate. | |
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