| | why is it that most gals dont respond back when u im them??Page 1 of 9 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9) | People i've been wondering about this for a long time..
i've experienced that most gas dont respond back when u im them!
why? whats wrong?
i believe very strongly is bc since this site is free,
wel guess what happpens??
chicks are very picky when it comes to talking to a guy!!
anyone agree w/me??
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Posted: 3/10/2006 1:46:35 PM | Because we have a choice if we want to respond or not.....I'm not wasting my time with guys that I'm not interested in.....I'm on here looking for a specific man....I went on this site.....to weed out all the ones that I have no interest in.....and for the forums.....Ilove the forums......until I get banned again.....then I'll be crying the blues....and incrediably bored.... | |
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Posted: 3/10/2006 11:09:42 PM | Jose,
I don't respond to encrypted email's on POF. If a man does not write full sentences, or have anything more to write then "hi" or "I like your profile" - the chances are I will not respond. Also it seems some men do not read my profile, they write to me after reading that I am not interested in a drinker, or someone who smokes. Shoot, some even lie about not smoking. You'll find someone - be patient.
LS
Posted By: uniqueguy_81 on 3/10/2006 1  07 PM Subject: why is it that most gals dont respond back when u im them?? Message: People i've been wondering about this for a long time.. i've experienced that most gas dont respond back when u im them! why? whats wrong? i believe very strongly is bc since this site is free, wel guess what happpens?? chicks are very picky when it comes to talking to a guy!! anyone agree w/me?? -Jose | |
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Posted: 3/14/2006 1:27:28 PM | hey LS!
hmm... i et ur point
but i was referring myself when u instant message someone
it just happens that most gals dont even say "hi" to a guy..
so i've been wondering why is it
and thanks for ur response
-Jose
girls are picky!!
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Posted: 3/18/2006 7:50:53 AM | I know that men sometimes lose their brain when IMing. Perhaps it would be better if you took the time to write a well thought out note. Tell what you like about her profile. Tell her why you think you may be a good match. And sweetie proof read a few times.
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Posted: 4/20/2006 5:36:34 PM | | I agree. Not to be harse but there are a lot of people that I would never in a million years consider dating. I simply have no interest. Girls know what they want, especially if they are coming on to a dating site. So guys if a girl doesn't respond back it is probably because she isn't interested and doesn't want to hurt your feelings or she simply just doesn't care. Either way move on and don't continue to send her message after message. That is sooooo annoying. | |
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Posted: 6/7/2006 7:29:43 PM | I think that CanukleChica is right,
There must be 10 guys to every woman on these dating services. So, its ladies choice. Thats life, I would recommend you move to an area like L.A. where there are more woman than men. But, if you want to reverse the table I would recommend Sweden, I have been there women pursue men, in a singularly flirtatious manner that it is very charming.
But on the otherside, I have met five women through Plenty of Fish, all of them very nice, just haven't found the right one yet.
So keep fishing, there has to be the right one out there for you..
Oh, as an afterthink, ignore women who quibble over your grammar, you would not want them anyway. These same women would probably be judgemental and argumentative, in any case. Who needs it, remember a relationship is only so good that it enhances your life. If you aren't getting that you don't need the relationship. | |
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Posted: 6/9/2006 10:52:44 AM | I don't know about the other ladies on here, but when I receive an IM from a man, it is usually enclosed with the words, "wanna have sex, or how big are your tits?" I admit not all IM's are the same, but it kind of leaves a bad taste in our mouths(if you know what I mean). I personally go for some civil conversation, and if it leads to the sex talk, then it leads it there, we take it as we go. Also, there are a lot of pushy men on here, that have the impression that all(or maybe most) women are just looking for a quick hookup. There are some women on here that are looking for a quick lay, and they do not know how to talk to a woman, so it turns us off for normal self respecting men. I am sorry, but this is just my opinion. Ladies feel free to challenge me if you like, or voice your opinion.
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Posted: 6/16/2006 1:08:27 PM | Okay.... here's the way it is...
It's just like watching TV... when women pick a program they watch IT. When guys get a channel changer, they start changing channels.
It's simple: she wants to see what's on. he wants to see what ELSE is on. This is a natural thing about men and women.
It means she's chatting with the guy who got there first.
Get there first... end of story.  | |
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Posted: 6/16/2006 1:45:32 PM | It seems to me that it's most successful to say something that reflects you in a positive light (meaning no pics of your naughty bits) in a message (just think about it: their profiles always say "msg me"!). These are the most useful things I have done, and I will go on the record saying I do it naturally, without help from a horny loser service site or anything like that! :P
1) The subject line must be something that catches their interest. Most importantly, make sure it is something that is pertinent to what you intend to say! If you say in your subject "I'm a sweet guy" and your message is a pic of your privates, followed by the words, "wanna taste?", not only will your subject be overlooked because it's bland, but if it isn't overlooked, then whoever is unfortunate enough to see the contents will spread your smutty nature to other friends as a warning!
2) Don't think of IMs or messages as a chance to say a pickup line. Instead, just try to say something heartfelt and soulful, and remember that you will probably not get a perfect-bodied, intelligent, deep, funny, otherwise-godly woman your first try. It's just not gonna happen. Like it's been said, it's ladie's choice, so be one of the top picks for any right-minded woman, and not an escape from sexual desperation that even a mother would have difficulty loving.
3) Be a good person. If you're not a good person, you haven't found who you really are yet, and should do so. It will make a difference in how you treat and are treated by others. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2006 3:46:24 PM | | its b-cus these women have there own ugly taste,for instance" yuo email me or IM me and i see your profile ,but hey either your to old to fat or just plain ugly,so women want men that look like if they we`re perfect. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2006 10:28:10 PM | | i believe that most of its because she may not be attracted to the person that wants to chat or maybe she just dosent feel like it so its always good just to write a message fisrt check out the situation first then attack the prey | |
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Posted: 6/16/2006 11:14:27 PM | | Spelling grammar and punctuation matter a great deal for starters, second don't waste time on IM, send a nice email instead, at least about 100 words describing yourself and what interests you in the recipient. That will make your truly unique among your peers. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2006 11:15:09 PM | | it's because most of them are retarded and are here for no other reason than to see how many guys they can get to message/IM them. It's the same on almost every dating site. At least, that is what I have concluded...I could be wrong. | |
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Posted: 6/17/2006 12:40:25 AM | WELL THE REASON WHY SOME GIRLS DONT' RESPONG BACK IS BECAUSE THEY MIGHT NOT BE INTRESTED N YOU OR MAYBE THEY R JUST BEING LIKE ****ES AND NOT WANTING TO TALK TO ANYONE. WHICH I DONT' REALLY GET IF THEY R ON THIS WEBSITE FOR A REASON...RIGHT? RIGHT. | |
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