| ex returns to haunt
Posted: 3/10/2006 2:02:06 PM | | My ex and i broke up two years ago. A few weeks back i decided togive him a call, I really only expected some chit chat. He told me he was very happy i called. we talked a few more times on the phone. He told me he missed me and my hugs. he also told me he thought about calling me several times. Do u think he still has feelings for me or is he playing with my head. He broke up with me. | |
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| ex returns to haunt
Posted: 3/10/2006 2:03:48 PM | | Just sounds like he was horney, and thought you would give him some again. | |
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| ex returns to haunt
Posted: 3/10/2006 2:04:30 PM | | dreamcatcher39, since you knew him well before .. has he ever returned to an ex before? .. | |
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| ex returns to haunt
Posted: 3/10/2006 2:05:17 PM | There's no way in the world that any of us strangers on the internet )who are unfortunately unable to read his mind or heart) can do more than guess about whether he's got feelings for you or is playing games. Only time will tell?
So why did he break up with you way back then?
How did your conversation end? Did he suggest getting together/meeting? | |
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| ex returns to haunt
Posted: 3/10/2006 2:06:05 PM | | I dont think he has ever returned to an ex before | |
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| ex returns to haunt
Posted: 3/10/2006 2:06:43 PM | | He's having a dry spell so he's going to go to who he thinks is a sure thing. | |
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| ex returns to haunt
Posted: 3/10/2006 2:08:25 PM | | he told me when he broke up with me that he didnt love me anymore. Yes, he did suggest us getting together for a coffee | |
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| ex returns to haunt
Posted: 3/10/2006 2:09:08 PM | | Geezus guys, I don't know how you can all draw this conclusion - based on the very very limited information we've been provided with. Is it so hard to believe that an ex will think of their ex from time to time and wonder how they are in life and think of calling them to see how life is treating them? There's nothing in what she's posted to indicate he's just looking to get laid - perhaps this is merely you projecting because this is how you treat exes? | |
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| ex returns to haunt
Posted: 3/10/2006 2:11:42 PM | So what made you call him up to begin with? Missing him? Curious about how he's doing in life? There has to be a reason you called up an ex who dumped you because he claimed not to love you anymore. ??
What do you want here - do you want to see about getting back with him?
Did you agree to coffee? | |
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| ex returns to haunt
Posted: 3/10/2006 2:13:15 PM | | dreamcatcher39, if he's never done this before .. and he is not an obvious player .. then maybe? .. he would probably need to work very hard to regain your trust, if it is even available to be had .. or some torture .. maybe PoF can arrange a paddy whack party for him .. | |
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| ex returns to haunt
Posted: 3/10/2006 2:19:52 PM | | The reason i called him was because we had lived together and his insurance company phoned looking for him. I left him a message to tell him that..He called a few weeks later to say he had given them his own number..When he called i had company and couldnt talk. I just had the feeling he wanted to talk. Also, i was missing him a bit. | |
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| ex returns to haunt
Posted: 3/10/2006 2:25:42 PM | | I my opinion you should be friends for awhile to make sure those feeling are true and not a quick fix to lonlyness... So, be friends and if it becomes more and if not aleast you have gained another friend... | |
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| ex returns to haunt
Posted: 3/10/2006 2:25:53 PM | Maybe the title should be named, "I returned to haunt my ex" since he was the one who broke up with you.
I'm not being mean. Just accurate! | |
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Posted: 3/10/2006 2:41:48 PM | | Maybe u r right..Thanx for that it made me laugh,never thought of it that way | |
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Posted: 3/10/2006 2:47:27 PM | | Hey, you didn't answer the question? - did you agree to meet for coffee? if so, did he set a date/time or did he just leave it up in the air? Could be that he suggested coffee to be polite, or he genuinely means it. Which was it? How were things left? | |
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| ex returns to haunt
Posted: 3/10/2006 2:48:26 PM | ^^^^^You're an avid soap opera watcher, aren't you? | |
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| ex returns to haunt
Posted: 3/10/2006 2:52:58 PM | | My thought on X's. . .they are X's for a reason. If I have been in a relationship with someone and something so bad happened that it could not in any way shape or form be worked out. Why in the heck would I want them back in my life? If it was a real relationship, whatever caused the split should have been able to be fixed before they became an X. Unless they were a cheater then to hell with them, done deal. My point is. . .if it doesn't work the first time chances of it workin the second time are slim. | |
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Posted: 3/10/2006 2:56:27 PM | You're an avid soap opera watcher, aren't you?
hahaha..actually, no - I would rather watch paint dry - or Holmes on Homes ;-) | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 5:20:40 PM | They are an ex for a reason.
If the reason was good enough to break up over, it's still a great one.
My ex has tried contacting me multiple times since I told her I wanted to be free of her for the rest of my life. She even sent a message to me on my Facebook account recently - which was deleted on sight , and I then blocked her from forever doing it again.
Total time taken ? Gone in sixty seconds.
Forgiven, and forgotten. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 5:22:11 PM | | I'm hoping for your sake that maybe he is genuinely sorry, there are few and far between out there who really are. I wish I was in your shoes, but alas, I'm not. Maybe one day. If you feel this is the right thing to pursue, then by all means, I say go for it!!! | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 6:00:18 PM | Thanks everyone for your replies. as this is an old thread scruffy decided to dig up, i will give you an update. We did meet for that coffee. We started seeing each other again. It lasted for a year until he decided to pull the old Houdini again.
Montreal guy, i especially want to thank you. I did read a similiar post of yours,as soon as i read your words, i knew thats what i had to do also.
He has tried to call me a few times over this past year. Once was a call in the middle of the night, as my daughter was out past curfew, i picked up the phone without checking the caller id. I told him he had lost his credibility with me, and i just didnt think we had anything left to say to each other, i then hung up. He left me a message a few weeks back, but i wont let him sucker me in again. I have now changed my number.
As a testament to the luck i have, I was driving down the road a few days ago, when i heard someone beep. I looked over and guess who was waving at me? It is like destiny wants to torture me with this forever.lol | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 6:20:00 PM |
sounds to me like you were curious as much as he was as to see if there was anything left .
you are probably right scruffy, what i figured out was he had let me go long before he broke up with me. All he was doing was stringing me along, i think he thrives on getting a reaction out of me. I wont give that to him anymore. i think i finally learned to let him go. | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 6:53:09 PM | | i think its possible he has feelings still for you. you still have to be careful not to rush into things and you still have to have your guard up to avoid what other people are saying on here quite bluntly. i think you should meet and if you feel ok then take it slow. be sure to keep that guard up though initially | |
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Posted: 7/16/2008 7:07:18 PM | OP~ You know this man is pure poison, straight word.
If he is an *ex*, let him remain as such for your own self-preservation. He is incapable of being a "friend" and therefore let him be. Life is too short for re-runs of a bad movie. This is a good thing that you've resisted his bait.
He is playing games with you. In the words of Stevie Nicks: "players only love you when they're playin'"
Good luck to you.
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