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 ginas69
Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 1
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Why do pretty lesbians, or I like to call them non butch, or lipstick lesbians more accepted in society than two gay guys. Same with bi sexuals. I mean I'm not sure if I consider myself bi after a few affairs with women, I guess I might be, but most men just love the fact the I have eatin pusssy. They want details of what happened and so forth. Its like when you tell most guys you've been with a woman...their eyes light up and they give you the high five. LOL
 hot4teacher
Joined: 6/15/2005
Msg: 2
Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 11:07:22 AM
it's acceptable because it gets men all goofy. THey love watching women kissing..turns them on...helps them fantasize about having both of them in bed. I don't know many women who want two men in bed. And men are largely homophobic and the idea of two men together makes them mad.
 dud
Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 3
Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 11:10:14 AM
dont blame men for this. ok so we like women. we like women while they are being sexually excited. most of us dont care to see men who are. so to see two women gettin all riled up, with no****ndballs around.... just makes sense that we'd like it, no?

im not sure why women dont like to see two guys go at it. i know why i dont like it. because im not gay.
 Kind_Iago
Joined: 2/11/2006
Msg: 4
Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 11:12:53 AM
Men are meant to be masculine. Gay sex is not considered in modern society to be masculine. Few women want to watch a man be “feminine*” in sex.


* to put it politely
 dud
Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 5
Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 11:20:03 AM
i think it was elaine on seinfeld who said it best

"women's bodies are beautiful. men's bodies are practical."

but if you're a hetero guy, then they're not so practical. so they're just useless LOL
 bristle
Joined: 3/8/2006
Msg: 6
Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 1:33:30 PM
Men can be as soft as women. But while men tend to be homophobic, men have sexual fantasies about FMF and watching FF. Women go the other way and have fantasies about MFM and a few want to watch MM. Or is this just a California thing?
 lohki
Joined: 7/22/2005
Msg: 7
Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 1:49:09 PM
kind iago; [Men are meant to be masculine. Gay sex is not considered in modern society to be masculine. Few women want to watch a man be “feminine*” in sex.


* to put it politely ]

and YOU know this as fact .. because YOU are a WOMAN??
lol
ah,.. tell ya the truth.. inside my brain when I am thinking hot and not-so wholesome thoughts.. there are men touching other men.. dancing around without a homophobe in the room.
 lohki
Joined: 7/22/2005
Msg: 8
Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 1:51:06 PM
[Men can be as soft as women. But while men tend to be homophobic, men have sexual fantasies about FMF and watching FF. Women go the other way and have fantasies about MFM and a few want to watch MM. Or is this just a California thing? ]

.. moving to california!
nuh-uh, this is not just a cali thing.. it's an open minded bad-not so mainstream-practical-functional-hot-beautiful kinda thing.. and what floats your boat?...
ALL aboard!!
lol
 egare
Joined: 2/6/2005
Msg: 9
Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 1:55:08 PM
Is it wrong that I re-read the first post 5 times and it excited me to even read that a girl was with another girl...

I am going to go read it again!! WOOO HOO!!
 bristle
Joined: 3/8/2006
Msg: 10
Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 2:02:27 PM
lohki

I like the description




it's an open minded bad-not so mainstream-practical-functional-hot-beautiful kinda thing..


But it's true, not just a cali thing. I have been asked to play with couples and as FMF and those people were not in cali. I also know some CD (cross dressers) and two are in Canada. But per capita the North Bay Area and parts of Southern Cal have the freest attitudes about sex.

egare

It is a fairly common male fantasy. Fact is most males have no clue what they are suppose to do if they were in one, ie. FF or FMF.
 Nobatteries
Joined: 1/16/2005
Msg: 11
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Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 3:02:03 PM
well...
two women together is a beautiful thing...
two men...well, that's just nasty...
arrrrrrgh...the visuals....

(by the way, not homophobic either...)
 jim9660
Joined: 10/21/2005
Msg: 12
Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 3:24:20 PM
Women share more intimate things in life with each other than men do. Women share makeup, clothing, shoes, bathing suits etc. Can you see a man saying:"Hey Bill, that outfit you wore the other night was really cute, think I could borrow it next weekend?"
You see two women run up and hug and kiss each other in public, you don't bat an eye. See two guys do it, everyone runs the other way, women included.
 sizedontmatter
Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 13
Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 3:27:35 PM
Who wants to see two big homo's kissing. Two women is awesome especially when I'm in the middle.
 dita7503
Joined: 2/13/2006
Msg: 14
Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 4:25:10 PM
I am mostly straight... but even so, I would rather look at naked women than naked men, whether sex is involved or not...

Not to say looking at a naked man or men, can't be hot... but women are just... softer looking.

I think it depends on how it's done... I have no problems with it.... and have you seen the movie Threesome??? God the sex scene at the end where they all finally get it on makes me sweat...
 ginas69
Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 15
Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 4:33:19 PM
HEY EGAR..do you want me to give you details of the first time I was with a woman. LOL
Hey good idea for and posting.
 iamtheone39
Joined: 2/11/2006
Msg: 16
Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 4:51:31 PM
Gina, you could make a thread about smelly socks sound sexy! Most women do NOT think that it is sexy for 2 men to be together. In fact, I've only known one that thought it was sexy. Something about all the hairy butts rubbing up against each other..uugh! Now 2 FEMININE women rubbing against each other, there's a turn-on. I think that it's just the way it is and we can't change it!
 egare
Joined: 2/6/2005
Msg: 17
Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 5:08:01 PM
I guarentee if you gave out the details in a new post that it would be the most popular thread for a long time..
 pepper2
Joined: 8/18/2005
Msg: 18
Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 5:12:10 PM
women in everyday life are giving nurturing, always touching,giving
it is just a natural projecting for men to view two women together as a beautiful thing
Besides we get more practice thats why we always go to the toilet in twos
 Carnivorous
Joined: 3/11/2006
Msg: 19
Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 5:23:35 PM
its all media hype...most guys watch porno's ....most porno's always have a lesbian scene with 2 or more stunning girls.

so it becomes the norm...men don't necessarily view these women as real lesbians..just hot chicks getting it on.

im sure if the porno's featured 2 average butch looking lesbians ...men would be as repulsed watching them as they would be watching 2 men together.

and i always thought women wanted to watch 2 men ..purely out of curiosity.
 pepper2
Joined: 8/18/2005
Msg: 20
Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 5:30:19 PM
Two people in love is always a beautiful thing
 Tigger101
Joined: 2/28/2006
Msg: 21
Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 5:35:45 PM
I think that there are more women out there that would watch or would even like to watch two men , as long as they weren't all hairy or have tool shed's. I also have known many women that think about haveing two men , or even have had two men . It doesn't mean the mne have to touch ,but watch out for the ladies , they might try to sneak that in too. LOL.
And Gina you do seem to be a sexual fire starter , keep it UP....
 Droleci
Joined: 4/21/2004
Msg: 22
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Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 5:37:15 PM
Straight men are interested and attracted to women.
Straight men are NOT interested and attracted to men.

Thus why is it odd that straight men would be more interested in two women being together (as they are interested in women) and not two men (as they are not interested in men)
 BooFA1010
Joined: 3/9/2006
Msg: 23
Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 6:44:25 PM
Women are more touchy feely with anyone. they always want hugs and what not. so it seems to be ok for a lot of people. plus 2 girls together is sexy
 webwanderer
Joined: 7/9/2004
Msg: 24
Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 8:14:40 PM
I have nown lots of gay men and I have absolutely no problem with their lifestyle, I'm totally not homophobic. That said hearing about two men together doesn't excite me because I have no intrest in the male body, personally I think we are goofy looking when we are naked. Womens bodies I like, a lot and as a guy with a huge oral fetish I have always been turned on by women who like oral sex and what better way is there to have my cake and eat it too than to picture two women having oral sex with each other. I don't know why I like it so much, it has been a part of my sexuality since the very first times I began jerking off. I don't questions why I just like it. For me its not that its somehow more or less socially acceptable its just a fetish/obsession and I would have it no matter what because I had these thoughts at an age where I was way to embarrassed to discuss them with other people. I will be the first to admit that this is actually causing me some problems when it comes to dating/meeting women too since I'm not sure if a straight woman could handle a guy who is always hoping she is going to go down on another woman, but I can't afford therapy so for now I will just live with it. Damn this post of mine is way too long! Too serious too. time for me to lighten up and talk about clown sex!
 stuntriderau
Joined: 3/8/2006
Msg: 25
Why is it more acceptable for 2 women to have sex and not 2 guys
Posted: 3/12/2006 8:18:00 PM
when two females have sex (from what iv seen) its a very Sensual act.

i havnt seen two guys go at it, sry i wouldnt want to either
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