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Posted: 3/13/2006 4:03:22 PM | | Here's the simplified breakdown.. Saturday Igo pick my girl up from here house and we come back to my house, were watching TV together and she says " I don't want to be in a relationship anymore..." I looked at her and gasped "What???" ... So she held to this break up until i said to hell with ya, Then she was all wanting to make up but now I feel miserable about this whole exprerience and it really friggn hurt... This is the second time she has done somthing to hurt me like this... Is she sadistic or somthing.. am I ??? What the frig should I do... This ain't love is it???? | |
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Posted: 3/13/2006 4:13:38 PM | Hey, sorry for your hurt. No that isn't love and well I am not a person to give advice but comfort. I think that two times is the charm and waiting for a third opportunity to have your heart broken by the same person is aweful. I know you are hurting and it takes times to heal, but for your own sanity and for the opportunity for real love to come. Let her go. talk about it with your friends and don't get depressed, keep busy and know that there are more fishes in the sea. There are people out there who aren't hurtful and maybe there is a light at the end of the tunnel, maybe you missed the signs that this person is really not for you either. I wasn't there when it happened nor was I there when you guys were together. But, I know how it feels to be dumped unexpectly and feeling crummy. take some time and move on the rule of break up from my understanding is a week for every month you dated, then get back in the game.
sorry fella. I know there are some others who can give you links or books to read, just be cool you'll find love again.
ciao, here's a virtual hug hope it makes you feel kinda better. | |
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Posted: 3/13/2006 4:37:07 PM | | I don't want to wait..I am eager for love and if this girl doesn't love me i am open to the one who will love me.. I don't make bones about not eing loved anymore, it happens ya know.. I just wish this chick didn't go about things like this..I hate people that play mind games.. | |
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Posted: 3/13/2006 4:53:09 PM | well she is just playing you so let her go and find some one else that will treat you a lot better ok. good luck.
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Posted: 3/13/2006 8:53:31 PM | That's very sad. I definitely think it's time to move on from this girl and don't give her another chance. If she was really in love with you, she would never risk messing up the relationship by making some flippant comment about breaking up. :(
It hurts to lose someone when you're used to being around them, but there are other women out there who won't play these kinds of games with you. In the long run, I am sure you can find a woman who will make you much happier. Good luck. | |
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Posted: 3/13/2006 9:00:07 PM | maybe she was testing you. some chicks are weird like that...like me....hehehehe. i mean, maybe she expected you to *fight* for it than just say *fine then*, or whatever.
i'd have moments like that. yesh yesh...i'm horrible. well...mostly during *the time of the month*...haahahahhaa. those times i'd feel so depress and wish not to be around anyone. so usually, i'd tell him *iunno where this is going*. i think i tried to break things off like once every month. he did hurt every single time. yea...twas horrible of me. but iunno...it's just those moments. and all those time, he never let me go. he always said something reassuring and what not. he'll remind me of his love and that he'll never leave...though in the end, it's still my call. i don't know exactly how he did that.
but yea...she could be just testing to see how you'd react to it and all that. well...i think. | |
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Posted: 3/13/2006 9:15:20 PM | I'm sorry op. I know you must be going through a lot of pain right now. If she wanted to break up with you, that's her choice but she could have handled it better. And this is not the first time she has done this, she is playing with you my friend. She is probably really insecure and wants you to confirm that you love her and would miss her. Find someone else op. You can do much better.
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Posted: 3/13/2006 10:01:10 PM | pnayplayr...
That's sadistic.. A guy that hangs in there may be hanging for the wrong reason..I'm still not sure what I want to do but right now, I'm not happy with this situation and it's really bothering me... | |
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Posted: 3/13/2006 10:01:49 PM | pnayplayr...
That's sadistic.. A guy that hangs in there may be hanging for the wrong reason..I'm still not sure what I want to do but right now, I'm not happy with this situation and it's really bothering me... | |
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Posted: 3/13/2006 10:08:44 PM | well...not really *sadistic*. i wasn't getting pleasure out of it. i was just having those moments. shoot...if i was THAT horrible, he wouldn't have stayed around  | |
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Posted: 3/13/2006 11:42:19 PM | | I don't know man, I don't understand myself why a girl says stuff liek that just to see how u would react. Those girls r too insecure about themselves and crave for attention. If they question the relationship and something is bothering them than they should ask if u care for her, or whatever, or her letting u know how she feels if she doesn't feel quite secure, but just spitting out something like it's over for whatever reason besides exactly what it means is just plain stupid and GROW UP GIRL! | |
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Posted: 3/14/2006 12:08:48 AM | | She's an attention whore and a drama queen. People like that get off on seeing others need them and get hurt over them. Don't stick around - you'd not only be doing yourself a favor, but you'll be helping her too. If you don't indulge her bad habits, then she'll realize what she's doing wrong and hopefully get help and fix herself. | |
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Posted: 3/14/2006 12:16:18 AM | | Just keep snubbing her, she'll follow you like a little puppy. Well, personally I wouldn't, but... Obviously this relationship isn't long term material. What you do with that knowledge is up to you. | |
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Posted: 3/14/2006 8:53:50 AM | | That's exactly how I feel about it..and I am moving on.... | |
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Posted: 3/14/2006 2:40:19 PM | Me and you have alot in commin....my x did that to me too. We dated twice and dumped me both times, one was to get back at her babys father...and the other because I didnt make enof money.
My advice...dont hang with her no more...it will only drive you nutts...im still crazy about her even tho she used me twice, and its not love...I think its mabey just lust.
DONT SEE HER NO MORE. | |
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