| | Whats a GOOD Guy and whats a BAD guyPage 1 of 1 | What defines who you are?
How you Treat people in general?
Do you hold the door for the person behind you?
Do you help the Old lady Cross the street?
I have seen Numerous Posts abuot this Good guy and Bad Guy Image that is portrayed, but dont yet understand what catifory I fall into. Im feel I am a nice guy for the most part, but when someone does something to piss me off, boy I can sure be a jerk, and I mean a JERK..lol(specialy in traffic) My gf says stay outa my way after you cut me off in rush hour. But then I ALWAYS hold the door for, anyone be it male/female, elderly or young punk. So, where is that line drawn in the sand between good and bad? | |
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| Whats a GOOD Guy and whats a BAD guy
Posted: 3/14/2006 7:59:39 AM | Every man has a**hole tendencies, just like every woman has psycho-b*tch tendencies.
If you're generally a kind, caring person who treats people the way you want to be treated, you're probably a good guy.
If you're generally a manipulative, angry, ass who treats everyone around you like subhuman pond scum you're probably a bad guy.
I think it's fairly simple, really. | |
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| Whats a GOOD Guy and whats a BAD guy
Posted: 3/14/2006 8:25:50 AM | | So I guess it's totally narcisistic to treat some people well, and those you deem "pond scum", treat them like the blubbering idiots they r? | |
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| Whats a GOOD Guy and whats a BAD guy
Posted: 3/14/2006 9:33:18 AM | It's hard to say where exactly the line is. I guess I'd have to know exactly what kind of situations push you over the edge. Personally, I consider it a red flag if a guy gets angry too easily over things I consider trivial. I don't like being around people who have a short fuse.
I don't get angry very easily (even had a coworker comment on how calm I am when faced with difficult clients), so I don't want to be around someone around who goes crazy with rage over things that I don't consider important. I ONCE made the mistake of associating with a guy who was very moody and would snap at me over minor things. His behavior was rather disrespectful and arguably bordered on being emotional abuse. Looking back, I do think that makes him a "bad guy" even though he was quite sweet and charming when he was in a good mood. I learned my lesson and don't ever want to be in that sort of situation again. | |
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| Whats a GOOD Guy and whats a BAD guy
Posted: 3/14/2006 9:38:42 AM | Thats just it, what you consider minor, I may think is huge.. Theres a Whole parking lot at the Grocery store top park in, but still someone thinks they are more important than everyone else, so they put thier flashers on park at the entrance (not in a stall) and just "run in" meanwhile you lug your a$$ from the parking lot, with 2 screaming kids and almost get plowed over by someone who couldnt see you cause of the 'parked' vehicle..
Get angry or not? Specially when that person ends up in front of you in the 15items or LESS line with 27 items..lol.. Get angry or not? | |
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