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Posted: 3/17/2006 8:17:11 PM | I used to have a general profile that included all the regular, blah, blah, blah...
Then, I got tired of talking and meeting with people who were just a waste of time- both our imtes....
so, changed it to as you see it now...
A small background-
I spent 12.5 yrs w/ someone that was horrible... as I've said in other forums, it was the lonliest 12.5 yrs of my life so far...
He was manipulative, controlling, undermineing, condescending, arrogant, always "right", complainer, anti-social, loved insults, liked to try and bring others down to his level, ... just a complete pathetic loser ! (I obviously had a few issues also b/c I stayed in that situation for 12.5 yrs !!)
Anyhow, as I've said before, being in a lonely relationship is 100 times lonlier than being alone.
So, even though I am lonely and want to find that right person to be my life partner 50/50 partner in all aspects, to share, support, love, be companion, all the great things...I am not willing to settle... we have to right for each other or we'll end up lonlelier in the end !
Hence, my current profile. | |
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Posted: 3/17/2006 9:15:08 PM | I think its good. Honest and straight to the point. I guess the only thing I can say is.. dang girl that list is so long I dont think anyone meets that criteria. LOL I know I fail atleast 5 or 6 of them.. LOL this aint about me. Everyone has faults and if you try to eliminate every fault in a person you will grow old and lonely.... and know one wants that. Good luck..
cheers
J-B
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Posted: 3/18/2006 7:39:11 AM | I am going to be blunt and honest....I didn't like your profile
I think you are very pretty and from the sounds of your post, frustrated and disappointed in the men you have met so far and you are trying to eliminate wasting of time by coming up with a profile of which men wishing to meet you need to comply too....
Well, things don't work that way so easily. This is a date catalog shopping site, the trick of the profile is really to attract attention od suitable suitors. If you are not careful, it is easy to turn them off even before you have them atttracted, as you did in your profile. First thing you need to do is sell yoursell...get the hook in their mouth. Then if you feel a need to describe what you are looking for...do so in a simple and easy way.
Your list is too long and too negative. I lost interest after the 3rd or 4th item...not because I fell into one of the categories...it just repulsed me the way it was positioned...demanding, negative...even hostile....definately qualities I am not looking for in a relationship.
I also don't like Prefer Not To Say, specially on smoking. Tells me that your hiding the fact that you do smoke.
I also didn't like when you admitted you felt overweight...I didn't think that was appropriate in your profile either.
Profiles are better off fun, positive, affectionate, sexy and sell strong images of romance, excitement, comfort.
Best of luck to you!
Bana-dito | |
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Posted: 4/11/2007 2:04:38 PM | I posted this profile review request quite some time ago
and I have updated since that time....
Please, provide your feedback.
Thax! | |
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Posted: 4/11/2007 2:51:44 PM | Too long...too negative...you sound a bit uptight if I am honest.....you spend more time telling us what YOU DON'T DO.........forget that and go for your strengths....................
BLOODY GOOD PHOTO MIND.......tops..... | |
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Posted: 4/11/2007 3:07:34 PM | negative negative negative. more than half of the profile consists of negative statements! why not tell us what you LIKE and not what you HATE? you can still target your profile to the same people, just in a positive way that won't annoy most of the people who read it...
hope this helps. | |
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Posted: 4/11/2007 4:11:19 PM | | Profile Way too long, too uncategorised...and much much much too negative. Makes me think..gawd..why even bother. | |
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