| The end of this 'nice guy' epic
Posted: 3/18/2006 3:23:37 AM | Why is this the most widely repeated thread on internet relationship forums? What is the answer according to women? What is the final answer according to those who would call themselves nice guys ? What's the say from the non 'nice guys'? Who's keepin score?-- baby I am, and hopefully this can be the last time we ever have to address this question...
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| The end of this 'nice guy' epic
Posted: 3/18/2006 3:28:27 AM | | Yeah, I am starting to think if its even a good idea for a "Nice guy" to put that hes' a "Nice guy' in his profile....and women will ignore it based soley on that fact she'll say "Yeah right" and hit the delete key. lol | |
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| The end of this 'nice guy' epic
Posted: 3/18/2006 5:34:24 AM | | Also is there some idiosyncratic pattern here because this topic comes up a lot less in the circles I hang out with in normal life than on here in the internet... hmmm ? | |
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| The end of this 'nice guy' epic
Posted: 3/18/2006 8:04:26 AM | | Its because most of the so called nice guys are also shy and don't have much of a backbone as far as women go. They have a lack of confidence and use the whoos me approach. Come on nice guys, grow a set and don't be such a kiss azz. Nice guys with confidence are what women look for. | |
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| The end of this 'nice guy' epic
Posted: 3/18/2006 8:06:13 AM | Even talking about how boring this "boring" thread is.....is boring......
This horse has been beaten into dust.....just forget it. The answer is 'infinity.' | |
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| The end of this 'nice guy' epic
Posted: 3/18/2006 11:47:21 AM | i agree that
This horse has been beaten into dust.....
but i think that learning what someone feels about a topic is interesting
i think neither 'nice guys' nor 'bad boys' finish last. i think that if you find someone that you care about who cares about you, that you have finished first. | |
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| The end of this 'nice guy' epic
Posted: 3/19/2006 11:13:40 PM | It's considered a misnomer now that was claimed by loser's a long time ago...the
reason why it's such an annoying topic is that loser's claimed that women enjoy
being in the company of nasty and violent men - which is such a crock! You can
look like a tough guy, carry yourself with absolute confidence & be funny yet the losers
will see a BAD GUY. That's all there is to that story.
A nice guy can be literally anybody....why are people so confused by this? | |
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| Hey..What's The diff??
Posted: 3/19/2006 11:26:03 PM | "Nice Guy" Bad Boy" "Loser"....on and on ad naseum...who gives a flyin frick?
Be who the h*** you are and if she doesn't like you, find another...DONT let yourself be "labeled" by ANYBODY....I'm ME...and I LIKE Me....try that for a motto and see what happens...just be yourself   | |
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| The end of this 'nice guy' epic
Posted: 3/19/2006 11:46:05 PM | I was raised in the belief that being a nice guy meant being respectful, responsible, sensitive and so on. Where and when I grew up (Ohio in the late 80s and 90s), being a nice guy was VERY out of the ordinary, especially at a grade-school age. That was the time I learned what it meant to be a nice guy. To me, it means being honest, respectful, sensitive, understanding, and responsible. From my perspective, it has roots in the Code of Bushido, consisting of the following:
Honesty: truthfulness
Courage: sticking up for what you believe in
Empathy: helping those in need
Politeness: being respectful
Loyalty: sticking by your friends/family/etc
Sincerity: keeping your word
Honor: doing what's right just because it's right
Here's a classic scenario: If a girl hits you, the nice guy won't hit her back, no matter how much he wants to. The nice guy won't hit back for one reason: violence is never a good answer to any problem. Anyone can start a fight, but it takes a better man to not fight back. | |
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| The end of this 'nice guy' epic
Posted: 3/19/2006 11:53:13 PM | You just described every guy here; well, until he makes a mistake!
The nice guy will claim: "I'm a nice guy, I'm not like the others.....I PROMISE!!"
Every man has the capacity to make a mistake...it's human nature. How do women
distinquish the bad guys from the good?!? That's why we date and then only
after we marry.
:gritting teeth:
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| The end of this 'nice guy' epic
Posted: 3/20/2006 12:00:08 AM | Nice guy threads are sad, sad, sad.....always overdone and well, they make my teeth hurt! I say, don't complain...take a class on confidence and move on to the next fishie; she might LIKE nice guys and might not even mind that you started a thread about it!  I say that with all the sweetness within me....
I have found a nice guy....with all the qualities and then some.
Good luck out there!  | |
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| The end of this 'nice guy' epic
Posted: 3/20/2006 12:21:37 AM |
I love the nice guy threads and the BBW threads.
Constant entertainment.
Jumpy-
Your the entertainment around here...not the nice guy threads.....
I'm getting so sick of seeing these things..... | |
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| The end of this 'nice guy' epic
Posted: 3/20/2006 12:44:56 AM | Could someone start another short guy thread? Or another nice big guy thread? Or another "does he love me" thread?
I just want to say "the answer is 42" as many times as possible. | |
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| The end of this 'nice guy' epic
Posted: 3/20/2006 2:22:50 AM | | I see nice guys gettin the girls around here all the time. Where im at, everytime u turn around you see a good lookin female with a lame, clown type lookin dude So i'm assuming they must be 'nice guys' otherwise I really dont see what the females are doin | |
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| The end of this 'nice guy' epic
Posted: 3/20/2006 2:26:20 AM | | ^^ Sometimes there no explaining the choices girls make. But there is definitely more to it than just how they look *shrug* Just keep tryin em out. | |
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