| Like me or not? Posted: 2/4/2005 2:20:40 AM | | Why is it, that when you are friends with a person and you would never suspect it to go anywhere and therefore you never try to get anywhere with that person further than just friendship, but once you move then they call you up or write you saying that they have had the biggest crush on you forever. why is that? does anyone know? | |
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| Like me or not? Posted: 2/4/2005 11:17:28 AM | | im guessing basically its like the game of cat and mouse. when your around they now they get to see u but when u move away then they never know the next time that will be and they cant have u and its the game of chase JMO | |
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| Like me or not? Posted: 2/4/2005 4:21:11 PM | second thoughts perhaps, for not tellin ya sooner,,,
Call them on it if you wished they had told you earlier. Ask them what they want to do about it now, cause your interested too. See what happens. Bet that will go a long way in answering your question.
If you don't want it to go further, file it under "useless information" subcategory, "who cares"
BEG | |
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| Like me or not? Posted: 2/8/2005 8:47:21 AM | | yeah but what can I do about it now, she lives back home, come on ! | |
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| Like me or not? Posted: 2/8/2005 11:21:06 AM | | Well if you talk it out and you find that things could work you could like move back home to? | |
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| Like me or not? Posted: 2/8/2005 11:34:09 AM | Just recall this little saying ....
WHEN YOU LOVE SUMTHIN SET IT FREE IF IT COMES BACK IT WAS YOURS
IF IT DOESNT IT WAS NEVER MENT TO BE !!!! | |
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| Like me or not? Posted: 2/8/2005 11:38:15 AM | | yes okay, but how about this one, I just recieved a call from her, she moved, she moved to spokane, which is where I moved to. Is this because she wants to be close to me or nearly coicidence. huh? who knows, I want to hear you responce. | |
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| Like me or not? Posted: 2/8/2005 11:53:36 AM | | Coincidence or otherwise, WTF you wating for? She called you, now call her back!! Assuming that you reciprocate the feelings. Heck even if you don't, it'd still be nice to go out somewhere and talk about home, just make sure she knows in advance that you don't reciprocate. | |
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| Like me or not? Posted: 2/10/2005 8:35:44 AM | | d*mn dude, thanks you have been the most helpful, yeah you're right at the very least I could be closer to home through here and we have a fun and drama free life, thanks bro. | |
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| Like me or not? Posted: 2/28/2005 4:57:58 PM | Communication, Communication, Communication, Communication, Communication, Communication, | |
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| Like me or not? Posted: 3/5/2005 6:46:58 PM | | Maybe its because of the the situation- if they told the other person and it did not pan out as more than friendship, would there be slight uncomfortable pauses when they saw each other? Maybe its because they have never had the courage to let their friend know how they felt face to face, and therefore felt it easier to convey their feelings within a letter or otherwise. But who really knows the answer to that question for sure?? | |
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| Like me or not? Posted: 3/5/2005 7:23:13 PM | Absence makes the heart grow fonder? Or how about - you never know what you got till its gone. Or "if you won't go away how can I miss you?"
Sounds like she likes you if she's chasing you around....go for it! | |
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| Like me or not? Posted: 3/5/2005 7:39:59 PM | Heh, I remember when I finished sophomore year, the same afternoon I was flying back to Spain. I had given out my yearbook for all my friends to sign and stuff, and when I was on the plane, I took it out and read it... Turns out that this girl (who I really liked but never said anything to) wrote a whole page sayin that she was really sad because now that she had found someone who she really liked, I was moving away and so and so.
I was like... godd*mnit, if only I had known sooner :P
I've gotten some pretty interesting revelations written on my yearbooks, hahah | |
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| Like me or not? Posted: 3/5/2005 7:41:26 PM | | Who knows, if I ever go back to states I'll call her up, catch up on old times :P | |
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