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 Author Thread: To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
 pjbrown

Joined: 7/2/2005
Msg: 1
To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/22/2006 2:33:52 PM
this is an open letter to every married man,player and idiots on Plenty of Fish looking for a side fling.Do you have any idea of the ballbreaking experience that a single man like me goes through when i try and talk,say hello or even strike up a conversation with a woman who has just dealt with,gotten screwed over or experienced a "man" like you???Its not pleasant because now you and your games have made it hard for the rest of us who are not married,a player and are just simply looking for a nice girl.Its a guy like me who deals with the bitter-jaded angry women and the mess you left because now she is assuming that Im the same guy that she just dealt with and lumps me in that category.The majority of women on POF that i have talked to have dealt with these idiots like you and assume that,,when they look at my profile and pic,,that im the same way and im only looking for one thing.Its very frustrating,because I know that I have nothing to hide on POF,i live in the city,I am a single,never-married soon to be 36 year old physically fit man with no children.I have a work schedule makes it somewhat impossible for me to meet new people.Heres a clue,,when a womans profile says no MARRIED men or players,then dont contact her!!It is in plain,clear,concise english!!!Heres some straight forward basic advice for the married "men",,either work on your marriage or get a divorce,,and while youre at it,,why not post a pic of yourself so we can all see who you really are!Players,,,well there will always be players.Ill admit,,i was once like that once,,but it was simply a phase that i grew out of a long time ago and now im just looking for something more.There,,thats my rant!
 jumpypants

Joined: 2/20/2006
Msg: 2
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To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/22/2006 2:36:37 PM
I have a god given right to trick girls into sex.



PS:

I like to tell them how nice I am and trustworthy to boot.

BOO YAH!
 carrie bradshaw

Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 3
To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/22/2006 5:07:27 PM
Jumpy is right, just last week he tricked me into sex. I was played.
Carrie
 stnicksnaughtyreindeer

Joined: 12/17/2005
Msg: 4
To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/22/2006 5:20:43 PM
this brings to mind an old proverb that i have plagairised in a fashion

"you can lead a fish to water but you cant make them drink"

lighten up but im sure its a good ploy and you will be deluged with emails and if it wasnt intentional on your part. the more jaded and cynical women out here might even look upon your whole post as yet another player ploy

heh
 candy_apples

Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 5
To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/22/2006 5:28:17 PM
I had a guy message me a few times and I kept saying I wasn't going to get involved with a marry man. He kept tellling me how clean he was. I don't care lmao.
 Carnivorous

Joined: 3/11/2006
Msg: 6
To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/22/2006 5:33:42 PM
why worry about it pj?....plenty of women around ...if your getting knockbacks from some women just keep moving on to the next until she falls for your supposed charms..

i looked at your pix...you look like a player.....a poker player that is
 WordWizard

Joined: 10/21/2005
Msg: 7
To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/22/2006 5:40:16 PM
I'm 100% single and still getting no replies. I'd probably do better if I PRETENDED to be married
 stoneside

Joined: 9/3/2004
Msg: 8
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Posted: 3/22/2006 5:47:50 PM
We all have to deal with the same thing.
 1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005
Msg: 9
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To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/22/2006 5:57:15 PM
Yes the swines you mention make life difficult for everyone. I think we should ban them to a private island where there are no women.
 fulltilt219

Joined: 2/9/2006
Msg: 10
To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/22/2006 6:08:08 PM
if a girl is giving it up that easy then they deserved to be played, a good woman will take the time to get to know a person before they sleep with them. a player isnt going to put time into a relationship, they are there for the quick score.
 justshrimpie

Joined: 10/26/2005
Msg: 11
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To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/22/2006 6:08:10 PM
I won't even respond to someone that is married or someone looking just to have a good time. I won't get intimate with someone until I've dated him fro awhile.. sounds old.. but i don't have time for the players.
 letscit

Joined: 2/16/2005
Msg: 12
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Posted: 3/22/2006 6:09:40 PM
yeah---your all right woman never cheat men are the only dirty scum.byb gotta go wash.
 PatricksDay

Joined: 11/27/2005
Msg: 13
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Posted: 3/22/2006 9:38:59 PM
Maybe that's why I state right up front that I am married -- and because of that am ONLY interested in meeting a woman whom is ALSO married. Not the most moral thing, but no games.
 jumpypants

Joined: 2/20/2006
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Posted: 3/22/2006 9:48:17 PM
1inamillion,

Then all the women would move to that island, to escape the reign of boredom and nice guy mania!

 1inamillion7

Joined: 11/23/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 3/22/2006 10:00:37 PM
the only women that would like you are either mentally ill or desperate.
 Veedub447

Joined: 8/6/2005
Msg: 16
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Posted: 3/22/2006 10:13:55 PM
I understand what your saying.

But you can't blame other men, either married or not, for the fact that you can't get laid.
 stand by

Joined: 3/21/2006
Msg: 17
To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/22/2006 10:24:09 PM
If married people didn't cheat, they would never have sex.
 jumpypants

Joined: 2/20/2006
Msg: 18
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To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/22/2006 10:39:59 PM
1inamillion,

I go for psycho lesbian witches mostly. This place has literally covens of them!

 ][KAOS][

Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 19
To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/22/2006 10:58:44 PM

If married people didn't cheat, they would never have sex.

Sobering thought.
 TheGlimmerMan

Joined: 12/22/2005
Msg: 20
To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/22/2006 11:12:03 PM
let the fun begin TheGlimmerMan is here....did someone say Player???????????????????


sorry guys I gotta go..the wife wants the computer....
 ][KAOS][

Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 21
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Posted: 3/22/2006 11:15:50 PM
^^^^ ouch. ..........................................
 TheGlimmerMan

Joined: 12/22/2005
Msg: 22
To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/22/2006 11:21:26 PM

^^^^ ouch.


I think the OP needs a tissue for His issue........Yes there are players and cheaters abound out there OP,,but it's not only Men.......Don't blame your lack of skill on not being able to find a Woman,on the fact that there are other Men out there looking also....
 ][KAOS][

Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 23
To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/22/2006 11:23:00 PM
I certainly need a tissue. Pass the Kleenex with lotion plz.
 illrocyuh

Joined: 3/14/2006
Msg: 24
To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/22/2006 11:41:08 PM
I'm 25 before I got married to my wife we ****ed all day all night since she became my spouse I became with out so just cuase your married don't mean anything but a relationship on paper cheating is cheating married or not married stop being closed minded people we all get horny and some women prefer married men and those who don't will miss out on a hard frustrated penis waiting to break some walls down so ladies keep an open mind if your here for sex then that's all it should be so enjoy that married penis or single****we all are only getting older I want to use mine as many times as I can before I have to pop viagra can I get an amen
 jumpypants

Joined: 2/20/2006
Msg: 25
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To Every Married Man or Player Seeking A Side Fling on POF
Posted: 3/22/2006 11:42:41 PM
Ill,

Never admit to being married until *after* the sex.

Sheesh!!!

jumpypants,
NOT married.
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