| TRYIN TO FIND YOUR SOUL-MATE IS HARD
Posted: 3/23/2006 6:06:45 PM | I HAVE been single for almost a year and a half because i feel like everyone who trys to talk to me are going to be like the past men i have dated i could be wrong for doign that but its hard for me because i have a son and i dont want him to get attached to someone and we might not work out. | |
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| TRYIN TO FIND YOUR SOUL-MATE IS HARD
Posted: 3/23/2006 10:14:48 PM | Yes, being a single parent is VERY difficult. I'm one myself.
If you're having those kinds of issues, frankly that means you're probably not ready, you still need to heal from previous relationships. There's nothing written in the stars that says you HAVE to be with someone. Date, have fun, if you're feeling lonely go out with some girlfriends. Give yourself the opportunity to heal and truly figure out what is right for you, then narrow down your choices. We get in these ruts feeling like we need someone in our lives and then make bad decisions. I've been there way too many times. Good luck to ya!  | |
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| TRYIN TO FIND YOUR SOUL-MATE IS HARD
Posted: 3/24/2006 1:56:08 PM | | i think im just scared of dating someone and getting feelings for them and something goes wrong.if i could find that right man who can sit down and talk about our problems thins would be a ehole lot better | |
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| TRYIN TO FIND YOUR SOUL-MATE IS HARD
Posted: 3/24/2006 2:09:31 PM | | its gonna sound silly but you cant find one they have to find you ,dont ask me how ,cause Im still looking ,but getting out and meeting ppl and finding out what your not looking for will help things seem more infocus ,good luck and get out and have some fun girl ... | |
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| TRYIN TO FIND YOUR SOUL-MATE IS HARD
Posted: 4/24/2006 5:23:38 AM | | I guess finding your soulmate is hard but look at it this way. You have the whole world to choose from which you did not have 10 yrs ago.yess the internet is a wonderful thing . | |
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| TRYIN TO FIND YOUR SOUL-MATE IS HARD
Posted: 4/26/2006 8:38:15 PM | ...depends..u know people who not looking to get hooked up ..get hooked up..but people who looks...still searches...I find that ture sorta everyday..the moral of my post is..dont fine love to quick let if flow and find you. later-LeShawn | |
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| TRYIN TO FIND YOUR SOUL-MATE IS HARD
Posted: 10/8/2007 5:09:23 PM | | Don't introduce your dates to your son.....you can be honest with him but keep it quiet till you think it has a real good chance of working out. | |
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| TRYIN TO FIND YOUR SOUL-MATE IS HARD
Posted: 10/9/2007 3:50:24 AM | I spent a year and a half on-line, meeting men, on other sites. I went out on alot of first dates, remained friends with a handful of the guys, and then joined POF.
The first week I joined I received an E-mail, inviting me to a party from the Hostess. One of the other ladys wrote to me as well and by the time the party happened a week later I knew 4-5 people attending the party, by talking to them on-line and then phone.
I had given up on "Falling in Love", and decided having a group of friends to hang-out with would be just a good as all those awkward one-on-one first dates. At partys you can meet 30-50-75 people, and trade E-mail addresses with those you'd like to see again. It's alot less pressure, and alot more fun!!
RE: Your Son, Make the commitment to not get him involved with a possible boyfriend, until you know they are the right person for you. It's important to talk about your Son to someone you are getting closer to, and find out if they want a child in there life, yet kids get attatched to a new person faster than us adults can figute out what we want.
Good luck, I've met my Soul Mate, and He and I both have a wonderful group of friends here on POF. We host partys, and plan activities, and are thankful to still be a part of the POF Family. ON-LINE DATING DOES WORK, Our wedding will be in November!
Kimmie | |
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