| | Men Are Jerks!Page 1 of 13 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13) | MEN!  Cant live with them and cant live without them! lol im serious people some guys are sweet,kind and nice.But the jerks,cheaters and the chickens need to go!Why will a guy talk to a chick and be all nice and shit and then when its time to meet her and then BAM! he chickens out,no phonecall,no nothing shes just got stood up and it makes her look bad to her parents!Why does guys do that sh*t? What is the girl doing wrong? Come on guys comment and answer that for all the girls who wants to that simple questions!Seriously if ur just going to stand a chick up why waste time talking to her and messing with her feelings thats just wrong and stupid and if u get off on that then ur just a flat out A**HOLE!
Im serious guys will drive you to drink,some guys will make you go lesbo cause you hate them so much by the way they treat you!Guys will make you want to ring them by the necks for treating woman like pigs and trash when they can take out whenever they please.....WRONG! Woman shouldnt be treated like that.Just like woman dont ask to be raped,if you want sex....bang a trash can there is no since of force a girl cause that is no way to go about it.Its not love its not nice and it sure the hell aint right so dont do it! So wake up guys and stop treating woman like dirt or u will be dirt the rest of your life.if you have something u want to add to this or u got something to say leave a comment dont be shy!
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Posted: 3/26/2006 10:29:11 AM | | What? Your parents were invited on the date? No wonder he didn't show up! I'm just kidding but where do your parents come into this scenerio? | |
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Posted: 3/26/2006 10:34:41 AM | | it wasnt a date or anything it was more like meet the parents and the get to know each other type of thing | |
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Posted: 3/26/2006 10:38:02 AM | | Did you get it all out of your system now, SouthernC? | |
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Posted: 3/26/2006 10:40:41 AM | Hmmm.. the OP complains about men being rude, yet how lady like is she?
tsk tsk...
Learn how to be a lady and have manners - you shall likely attract the right type of guys then. | |
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Posted: 3/26/2006 10:41:13 AM | ahh..men...the eternal frustration..
I was chatting with this guy for months and we finally decided okay, lets hook up. He wanted it to be on a weekend that I was going to a very small informal dinner party so I invited him. Everyone was excited because I am the only single one left of all my friends and guess what...he never showed...
Asked him about it , he said someone had stolen his truck and he was dealing with that..yadda yadda yadda , so I giving him the benefit of the doubt set up anohter date..this time to go skydiving with a bunch of us..he was totally stoked and guess what..he never showed again..
grrrr
I have a few such stories...so my dear you are not alone in this. | |
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Posted: 3/26/2006 10:46:08 AM | | Are you saying that the first time you met this guy your parents were to be there? If this is the case I would have run the hills as well. The first think I would have thought is way to close to Mommy and Daddy. The second thing is thsi women is looking for a husband real quick. | |
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Posted: 3/26/2006 10:58:37 AM | | My thoughts exactly Al. It's no wonder the guy didn't show. | |
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Posted: 3/26/2006 11:03:10 AM | | well i live with my parents still untill i start college in the summer and i had to ask them if it was okay for the guy to come over cause its there house i couldnt just bring him over without there say.thats disrespectful and no i wasnt rushing anything it was just a harmless get together and then we were going to hang out.the only deal with the parents was say hey name and boom we were going to be out the door and gone and hanging out but the guy was like yea ill meet ur parents and get on there good side and have there trust and that he like me and blah blah blah then when the day comes bam hes not answer his cell,not returning emails,not talking and i just wanted to simply know what change his mind? if it was something i did? | |
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Golda
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Posted: 3/26/2006 11:13:25 AM | | Funny really, I find women are the back stabbing jerks, I still would trust a man over a women anyday!! | |
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Posted: 3/26/2006 11:16:17 AM |
Posted By: GOLDA on 3/26/2006 2  25 PM Subject: Men Are Jerks! Message: Funny really, I find women are the back stabbing jerks, I still would trust a man over a women anyday!!
Why do you say that woman are the back stabbing jerks?You Dont think men does anything wrong ? | |
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Posted: 3/26/2006 11:26:16 AM | Southerncheery,
First and foremost if this is the first time that you have met this guy in person you do not want to have him come to your home. The reason is simple there are a lot of nut bars on the internet. The last thing you want is a stalker.
What you should have done is meet this guy in a very public place. If you want to feel secure have either a friend or even you parents in the establishment sitting at another table until you feel everything is on the up and up. Then give them a signal to beat it. | |
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Posted: 3/26/2006 11:40:06 AM | Grow some balls against your parents, the only way you are goin to get anybody is if u seperate yourself from your parents shit I wouldnt of showed up like really come on...  | |
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daisie
| | Joined: 9/22/2004
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Posted: 3/26/2006 11:40:32 AM | I agree with everything AL BEAR said. In addition, maybe you are in too big a hurry and expect too much.
Was this an internet guy? Come on, you really can't EXPECT much here. Sure, yes, I know some great relationships can start here, but they are few and far between. There are A LOT of toads to kiss in this pond if you're on a search for a Prince. So he's a toad...big deal. Big surprise. That's the NORM. You should expect the norm, then when the norm happens (which it NORMally does)...you just move on without a second thought.
By the way I'm just here in this pond to watch all the dumbass toads for kicks! Ah...well...ok....now and then I come across a nice one to have a few croaks with! | |
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Posted: 3/26/2006 11:47:43 AM | You win some and lose some.
Life goes on :)
I say have a piece of cheesecake and all your worries will drift away. :) | |
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Posted: 3/26/2006 11:53:48 AM | Yeah some of them are ...but you have to ask yourself .. why do i keep hookinf up with the jerks ? Every woman one time in there life goes out with the "bad boy" And why ... because he breaks all the rules .. he's charming , he, handsome , he's built , he got that charm and the personality of a snake oil salesman..he's the type that will take off your coat and pick your pocket at the same time. He's empty cold and callious and will break your heart everytime..the minute he gets what he plotted on in the 1st place
Find a man who has character .. he may not be a as cute ..but there is something cute about him. He's the guy that wants to get know ..He asks questions about you.... not lists his accomplishments..he calls, he is concerned and he makes an effort to provide a good time for the both of you...Like i said he may not be the best looking boy on the block, or the one with the rippling muscles ...But he would be the most honest one to go out with | |
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Posted: 3/26/2006 11:58:28 AM | | I don't know what they do in the south.... But i would think that you go on a date..coffee that type of thing, meet, talk..see if you will see eachother again...Then maybe ..now just maybe you let them know where you live, and then after a few dates say...maaaa, paaaa i like you to meet...so and so. thats JMO This jerk thing goes both ways honey | |
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Posted: 3/26/2006 11:59:58 AM | | twilight...maybe he is seeing the her mom on the side | |
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Posted: 3/26/2006 12:05:14 PM | Could be 4loorplay!
Welcome to POF VRB | |
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Posted: 3/26/2006 12:11:34 PM | Very good point Al Bear!
As far as men go, maybe benefit of the doubt the first time, if there is a second time he is a liar, a player or both.
SouthernCherry:
In all honesty how many times have you done it to a man and not given it a second thought? I would guess the feelings of a man are far more likely to be discounted in the same situation. | |
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Posted: 3/26/2006 12:22:30 PM | The title of this thread should be "People Are Jerks!"
It's not a man/woman thing....it's a "human" thing. | |
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Posted: 3/26/2006 12:26:41 PM | | I like the part THEY DRIVE ME TO DRINKING OR TURN LESBO.........That is so funny!!!!Sorry to tell you life is choices...You choose that life.......And it is not a age thing...I here majority of women in their 30s and 40s that say men have driven me to have mental problems...That is soooooooooooooo funny to hear....Sorry to tell you you choose to be with MR.ROUGH and TOUGH!!!!!!!You sleep with dogs and you get up with flees......Personaly after i here or see a woman that sleeps with trash,Then they scare me.I could careless about a basket case!!!!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 3/26/2006 12:27:15 PM | WOMEN !!! Can't live with 'em, can't kill 'em !! (just practicing to be a jerk...lol)
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Posted: 3/26/2006 12:29:56 PM | | It's not men. It's men around a not so hot woman that is the problem. Stop whining and start going to the gym. | |
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Posted: 3/26/2006 12:30:24 PM | | Lose the "few extra pounds" and they'll show up. | |
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