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 Mom2anamazingson

Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 1
do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 8:55:04 AM
You know I am starting to find that if I dont havedeep feelings with someone, the sex just isnt great.

casual encounters are not my thing and neither is boring sex.

When I have deep feelings for someone, I find that I am much better in bed since I am a passionate person.

Who else thinks or feels the same way as i do on this topic?
 Avow

Joined: 1/3/2006
Msg: 2
do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 9:02:26 AM
casual encounters are not my thing and neither is boring sex.

I second that emotion.....
I'm often guided by emotions rather than reason and have excessive pride and
I'm terrified of admitting vulnerability or showing weakness.
So yea I need to know and have feelings for who I'm sexing.
 7times

Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 3
do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 9:04:37 AM
wow,,, it took me until I was in my 30's to feel that way..

But all in all I have to agree, sex seems to be a lot better when the feelings are there yet have had a few mind blowing 1 nighters also
 ~beachbaby~

Joined: 2/28/2006
Msg: 4
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do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 9:09:36 AM
I totally agree! I thinks its all a part of growing up!

~beach
 Riff-raff

Joined: 9/10/2005
Msg: 5
do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 9:23:59 AM
I dunno, I'm gonna be 34 in may an I still love meaningless sex almost as much as I like sex with someone I love. I guess its all how ya do it.
 Gallivanting1

Joined: 1/28/2005
Msg: 6
do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 9:30:55 AM
As far as I'm concerned, it's all good. If not, I get dressed and go home.
 Bandito

Joined: 11/9/2005
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do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 9:36:24 AM
I agree that casual sex isn't very enjoyable. Perhaps it once was, but it just doesn't fit me or my lifestyle at this point.

Casual masturbation, on the other hand (literally), is still enjoyable My doctor told me if I would file off my golf calluses off my hands I would feel like I was 16 again....wow! was he right
 Mom2anamazingson

Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 8
do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 9:45:08 AM
LOL!!!! bandito LOL!!!!

I dont know what it is but lately, I havent had a want or need for sex. I would rather masterbate and know that when I am done, I can be happy LOL!!
 Riff-raff

Joined: 9/10/2005
Msg: 9
do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 10:12:40 AM
Mom, isn't there a thing with women though (as I have heard other women talk.. I have no scientific proof that this is true) that the longer you go without, the less you wanti t.. but if you hop on the horse and its a good ride, then you wanna go bareback again an again till its been a while again. the more ya do it, the more ya want, the less ya do it the less ya want??
 Mom2anamazingson

Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 10
do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 11:35:57 AM
well, I would rather go without it than to be with a partner who sucks in bed and that I have no feelings for.

I managed to live without sex for 9 months and had the occasional masterbation wants...

I feel by masterbating, I please myself the way I want to be pleased. I dont sit there and hope they will do this to me, I just do it myself...
 ~Muffy~

Joined: 2/8/2006
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do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 11:42:28 AM
jessus h christ, the OP's only 24. awwww she's so cute. *ahem* sorry, what was the question? well, i'm in total agreement with the "lust is stupid cause it means mediocre sex"...but, still, sex is sex and if you haven't had any for a loooooong time even a one night stand is a woooo hooo thing even with the lack of deep feelings.
 Mom2anamazingson

Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 12
do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 11:47:12 AM
hey what does that mean ??? AWW SHES SO CUTE... comment

 ~Muffy~

Joined: 2/8/2006
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do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 12:47:15 PM
Well, you're 24 and created a topic about growing old. I can hardly wait till your 25th birthday. Quarter Century, baby!
 snaketree

Joined: 10/17/2005
Msg: 14
do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 12:47:45 PM
er no .no probs i just think u are gettin old
 Foxxphyre

Joined: 3/1/2006
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do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 12:51:13 PM
If you have feelings for a person, the sex is about a billion times better. One night stands are boring and awkward, but having amazing sex with someone you love and being able to wake up to them the next moring (and go at it again ) is the best ever.

Foxx
 Mom2anamazingson

Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 16
do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 12:55:42 PM
when I was a teen, I never cared for emotions but now, well thats different.

the older u get the more you appreciate wine
 Riff-raff

Joined: 9/10/2005
Msg: 17
do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 12:59:33 PM
Mom, you say if theres no feeling and he sux in bed.. but what if theres no feelings and he rocks yer socks??
I disagree with the wine comment.. i hate wine, I'm allergic to alcohol.. (giggle)
 Bandito

Joined: 11/9/2005
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do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 3:33:13 PM
^^^No...its the older you get the more you whine....ya, thats the ticket
 ~Muffy~

Joined: 2/8/2006
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do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 3:43:08 PM
^^^ what? fat chance, bucko! lol. "awwww mom/dad can't i have/play/skip some candy/games/homework"? i'm sure your parents will completely agree that you're more whiny then than now.

BTW, OP, that's an interesting comment about not caring about emotions.
 PrincessNaughty

Joined: 11/4/2005
Msg: 20
do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 3:44:54 PM
I dunno.
I go back and forth on this issue. Sometimes I need to feel loved, others I just want to cum and could careless about love.
When I was younger I needed/had to be loved.
 Bandito

Joined: 11/9/2005
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do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 3:47:09 PM
@~muffy~ what you don't read the post from whiners here? - awwww men/women why can't you reply/date/show pics/be nice/don't lie/sex...and no sex/call/pay...etc
 Halfevl333

Joined: 3/26/2006
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do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 3:48:24 PM
"Casual masturbation, on the other hand (literally), is still enjoyable My doctor told me if I would file off my golf calluses off my hands I would feel like I was 16 again....wow! was he right"

Well most of the time, playing solo is fine but just not as satisfying as playing a double if you know what I mean. Sometimes it is nice to be able to touch someone else and have someone touch you.

 goodguy4uladies

Joined: 1/23/2006
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do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 4:29:32 PM
Sex never meant that much to me without some level of caring. I can do it, but I prefer that I have something more involved with my partner than just sex. Hell, if I want to just get off, I don't need a woman for that. I need a woman only when I want to feel some level of true human interaction on a social/romantic level. When there is the correct social/romantic involvement, it's more than just sex. That's what's known as making love, which is much cooler.
 captaingiggles

Joined: 3/19/2006
Msg: 24
do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/27/2006 5:02:03 PM
As an older guy I can tell ya that the sex is more appreciated more than ever. When you're young as a guy, you're still learnin, and the woman's body isn't simple. Her mind and heart are part of the whole package. You treat every part of her like gold and the sky is the limit.
Sure there's different styles for different strokes. but if you really get close to her and take the time to know her every inch, every fantasy, the right touch, the right words, your sex life will flow like a river.
 Mom2anamazingson

Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 25
do u find the older u get, when u are not in love, sex isnt as great?
Posted: 3/28/2006 5:19:49 AM
boring sex to me is when there is no kissing, no touching of my body, no foreplay, no sensuality, no passionate moments, just in and out... and many more.

good sex is when you can sense how the person feels, when there is passion, when they dont just look at the pillow but do look into your eyes.

For me, I am a passionate woman and expect the man I am with to be as well.
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