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 kingofkrunk21
Joined: 1/13/2005
Msg: 1
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Question to the ladies on the site.
Answer this because I tihnk it's an
interesting follow up to the woman...?
 ladydi8
Joined: 1/31/2005
Msg: 2
Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/7/2005 11:26:53 AM
yes, i have, he was over 300 lbls..........but guess what, i didnt date him because he was big outside, i dated him because he was big inside...................................and i met him and went out with him after his daughter showed me a up to date picture of him........the first thing to impress me about this man was the way his daughter spoke of him...............
 iceman894
Joined: 1/25/2005
Msg: 3
Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/7/2005 9:10:49 PM
i have the same prob man.. u and i seem alot alike in some ways to bad your not closer help each other pick up girls lol
 Lady Sherlock
Joined: 12/29/2004
Msg: 4
Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/7/2005 9:24:26 PM
I like ‘big’ guys, they see more of what is inside a woman, than just ‘being’ inside. Maybe it’s because they are looking for someone to see what a wonderful person they are on the inside, I don’t know.

Then of course there is the “Teddy Bear” thing, I love big men as much as I love my teddy bear, I feel safe with a big man, and when your in their arms, you know it. (Skinny Men make Skinny Lovers)

Sherlock
 sweetcndgirl
Joined: 1/31/2005
Msg: 5
Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/7/2005 9:30:07 PM
To me, its not what the outside is like, becuase it what is inside that counts most, and all in all.. Its the inside that shines through.
 Paisley2
Joined: 12/24/2004
Msg: 6
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Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/7/2005 9:39:15 PM
If a guy has self confidence and a great personality and a loving heart and is involved with life...he is very attractive.
There is a guy at work who is gigantic...I mean HUGE and I adore him. If he weren't GAY I'd be after him in a shot.
When you are large, and many women are not interested in you, it's ok because the ones who don't are not wasting your time. You don't have to wait perhaps years to find out they are shallow. It's the ones who are worthwhile that are rare nomatter who you are.
 KittyKins
Joined: 6/10/2004
Msg: 7
Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/8/2005 12:15:41 AM
My ex wasn't exactly skinny... and I loved him anyways, well I still love him...
 catchmeifucan
Joined: 2/8/2005
Msg: 8
Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/8/2005 12:32:08 AM
Big guys turn out to have a very beautiful inside, and hey, why wouldn't i date a fat person, it's just a state of being. I mean why should i go for skinny and live miserably?
 KeepingStep
Joined: 7/6/2004
Msg: 9
Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/8/2005 5:28:53 AM
Yes.

I am interested in what a man thinks and feels. Is he intelligent? Considerate? Does he have that "spark" in life? Do we think alike? Can I hold a conversation with him that goes on forever?

Not one part of any of that criteria have any thing to do with his weight.
 dae
Joined: 12/6/2004
Msg: 10
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Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/8/2005 5:42:30 AM
Yes, most definitely
 judyptudy
Joined: 10/30/2004
Msg: 11
Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/8/2005 5:54:41 AM
i hate the word fat.. for men or women.. i like to refer to men as teddy bear built
call me shallow but a perfect built man starts at 250 pounds.. im jsut physically attracted to heavy set tall men.......... they are usually teddy bears inside and happy and loving........
they arent into conceit and arent self centered...
its wahts on th inside that counts ... gentle and loving is where its all at and lotssssssssssss of women feel that way , thin or heavy we women love with our hearts not our eyes as much.. so dont be shy about approaching thin women either guys... and good luck
 kingofkrunk21
Joined: 1/13/2005
Msg: 12
Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/8/2005 12:38:08 PM
Any girls in their 20s have any opinion?
 blue_sky83
Joined: 4/22/2004
Msg: 13
Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/8/2005 6:47:39 PM
i'm 21 and I definately would and have

as some of the above posters have said, it comes down to confidence and being genuine. In fact I prefer a guy to be average/chubby/skinny instead of extremely athletic body builder types (this just doesn't do anything for me...yeah i guess its a generalization).

So dont give up guys, just be yourselves
 shadowwolf483
Joined: 3/25/2004
Msg: 14
Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/8/2005 6:53:27 PM
I would.. I tend to look inside of a person first rather than outside.. I have dated heavy guys who knows how to treat a lady. I find bigger guys has a big heart. so defenetly I would without hesitation.l
 hapcamp
Joined: 2/8/2005
Msg: 15
Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/8/2005 8:34:04 PM
I've noticed in many threads about appearance that the vast majority of people say that it's what's on the inside that counts, and, coincidentally, they count themselves among the worthwhile people who are worth waiting for. A very few say straight up looks matter, get over it. I wonder why, with most people being unconcerned with the physical appearance of others, there are so many single people feeling unwanted for how they look?
 blue_sky83
Joined: 4/22/2004
Msg: 16
Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/8/2005 8:41:39 PM
Of course looks matter, I can only speak for myself but I was simply saying that I am very attracted to some bigger guys.
 angeleyes41
Joined: 12/23/2004
Msg: 17
Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/8/2005 8:49:47 PM
Yes for sure,
the last guy i dated had a nice tum tum to play with,
his beer belly so to speak, hehe
i dont have a problem with it.

 Fid Copya
Joined: 1/13/2005
Msg: 18
Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/8/2005 9:12:42 PM
(Skinny Men make Skinny Lovers)

Huh?


a perfect built man starts at 250 pounds.

Yoicks! That's less than (me x 2), but not by much. Like a whole other person.


Methinks I'm in the wrong thread. ciao!
 limoshark
Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 19
Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/9/2005 5:49:36 AM
I had a major crush on a fat man for about 2 and a half years. I wanted nothing more than to be his girlfriend but he just didn't want me :O(
 Evil~Princess~Tera
Joined: 1/21/2005
Msg: 20
Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/9/2005 5:54:14 AM
The guy I'm dating has been dubbed by me "my fat little bald buddha"
 Rollie
Joined: 9/25/2004
Msg: 21
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Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/9/2005 6:11:38 AM
I think love or a good relationship is the key to losing weight, I'm still looking for someone. so i'm with you guys
 kingofkrunk21
Joined: 1/13/2005
Msg: 22
Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/9/2005 8:28:37 AM
So dont give up guys, just be yourselves....

I have been successful bluesky earlier in my life
doing that. I am a Big guy who's been large boned all my
life....I've lifted weights in the past and I leg
press 300 and leg curl 50 pounds and wrist curl 20.
Because I haven't been on the upkeep I've been bouncing up
and down with weight and I believed that weight doesn't
matter and I still have my muscle but my upper body don't
look really bad but I feel that Big Men like me are assumed to be
fat because we're very shy and/or Consistently rejected...
I'm the first.

Top give a self response.....
 pnkflyd639723
Joined: 11/16/2003
Msg: 23
Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/9/2005 11:29:29 AM
I would definitely date a "bigger man".... that attracts me way more than skinny guys. Tall big guys are what do it for me! lol
 rainlyj
Joined: 1/3/2005
Msg: 24
Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/9/2005 1:45:40 PM
So I have been thinking that all these ladies I sent mail to just deleted my messages because they weren't interested in "big" guys...

If that's not the reason, I guess I must be doing something else wrong to get so few responses...

*sigh*

RJ
 pnkflyd639723
Joined: 11/16/2003
Msg: 25
Would any of you Ladies date fat guys?
Posted: 2/9/2005 2:29:57 PM
What do you usually say in these emails? Just a lil curious is all...
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