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 cst27

Joined: 1/28/2005
Msg: 1
inner beauty of the person or the outside beauty of person prefer
Posted: 2/7/2005 6:24:09 PM
I say inside comes 1st , it makes person who they are , and outside well they look descent than thats bonuse for that person. Inner beauty is forever ,b ut the body is not, so if you going Love or like a person it has be from the inside.
 devreser

Joined: 11/11/2004
Msg: 2
inner beauty of the person or the outside beauty of person prefer
Posted: 2/7/2005 6:30:14 PM
Inner beauty, looks fade with time.
 ashley1861

Joined: 11/6/2004
Msg: 3
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inner beauty of the person or the outside beauty of person prefer
Posted: 2/7/2005 6:31:18 PM
Innies beat Outies
A good kisser is a plus too
 nsalne

Joined: 1/23/2005
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Posted: 2/7/2005 6:32:28 PM
devreser You are gorgeous.

I think that outer beauty is crucial in any relationship. We can't lie and pretend we are going to be attracted to an ugly person with a heart of gold... We wont' even want to see their heart if we don't enjoy their looks. Honesty is the best policy. -E
 ladydi8

Joined: 1/31/2005
Msg: 5
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Posted: 2/7/2005 6:33:35 PM
when someone is beautiful inside, the outside magically transforms to match......................
 cst27

Joined: 1/28/2005
Msg: 6
inner beauty of the person or the outside beauty of person prefer
Posted: 2/7/2005 6:35:49 PM
I agree on about the looks but outside don't count has big thing for me , i dated a rich beautiful girl once but she wasn't nice at all very rude to everyone and very tempered towards people she didn't like. Inside still counts has big thing for me , so people who doesn't make there self look good , and don't act good inside should stay by there self or find some one who are like them.
 cst27

Joined: 1/28/2005
Msg: 7
inner beauty of the person or the outside beauty of person prefer
Posted: 2/7/2005 6:37:00 PM
I agree with lady and other ladie up top dev.
 devreser

Joined: 11/11/2004
Msg: 8
inner beauty of the person or the outside beauty of person prefer
Posted: 2/7/2005 6:41:12 PM
aww thanx, nsalne
 nsalne

Joined: 1/23/2005
Msg: 9
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inner beauty of the person or the outside beauty of person prefer
Posted: 2/7/2005 6:46:45 PM
No ma'am. Thank you.
 devreser

Joined: 11/11/2004
Msg: 10
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Posted: 2/7/2005 6:55:49 PM
lol no no, THANK YOU. And your pretty dayum g'looking ya'self
 cst27

Joined: 1/28/2005
Msg: 11
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Posted: 2/7/2005 6:56:34 PM
HEH WE LOST THE SUBJECT
 Kobold

Joined: 2/15/2004
Msg: 12
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Posted: 2/7/2005 7:12:32 PM
Inner beauty should come 1st. It is the most important. But I have yet to see anyone in all my years, actually live by that standard. We want inner and outer both-I'm just as guilty. And usuaully if we have to let one slide, we opt for the outer. We fool oursleves/convince ourselves thats it isn't the case. But only a fool doesn't recognize, that they too, are a little shallow.
 nsalne

Joined: 1/23/2005
Msg: 13
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Posted: 2/7/2005 7:49:36 PM

lol no no, THANK YOU. And your pretty dayum g'looking ya'self


stop it. you're making me blush.
 shannon

Joined: 11/30/2004
Msg: 14
inner beauty of the person or the outside beauty of person prefer
Posted: 2/7/2005 8:24:42 PM
Looks can only take you so far, the person on the inside is what carries you the rest of the way. I have totally fallen in love with someone for what they have on the inside, because the outside is not important to me. It's what we have in common, life goals, dreams, wants and needs that have attracted me to him and not the way he looks.
 cst27

Joined: 1/28/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 2/7/2005 8:50:13 PM
Bingo I think shannon is a winner
 Missy

Joined: 1/29/2005
Msg: 16
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Posted: 2/7/2005 9:03:14 PM
a wise woman once told me that its nice to be beautiful, but its far more beautiful to be nice
 HazleAngelEyez

Joined: 2/2/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 2/8/2005 3:55:23 AM
Subject: inner beauty of the person or the outside beauty of person prefer


AMAN MISSY... I am a BBW and you know what , I am very cute and I have a great personality and humor as well . But guys dont see that they see a larger woman and shy away . In my own thoughts (THERE LOSSSSSS)
 Browneyegirl49

Joined: 1/5/2005
Msg: 18
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Posted: 2/8/2005 4:08:45 AM
Beauty comes from the "core". If your core is open, and uncovered, its easy to look at anothers. Doesn't come easy though, cause you have to clean out your before you can hope to see anothers. The hardest thing to do is be honest with yourself, and clean out the garbage. Past history builds up and ends up definiing who we are. Gotta start digging, and removing the crap, brick by brick. Being "attractive" involves the whole. If people can't see beyond the surface, who's problem is it? Don't make it yours.
 notsosure

Joined: 1/24/2005
Msg: 19
inner beauty of the person or the outside beauty of person prefer
Posted: 2/8/2005 4:09:50 AM
Inner beauty is where it's at. I believe that the world would be a much better place if we would drop our exterior judgements and based our opinions on what we find on the inside. True beauty lies on the inside, not the outside.
 notsosure

Joined: 1/24/2005
Msg: 20
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Posted: 2/8/2005 4:11:14 AM
Good call browneyedgirl
 rainy_daze

Joined: 2/7/2005
Msg: 21
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Posted: 2/8/2005 7:35:29 AM
In a perfect world everyone would be blind. Then how many people would be single in this life? Let's face the reality.. everyone starts with the exterior as it's what draws you to someone. If they're beautiful out and nasty in, most people wouldn't settle. But I believe, if someone actually took the chance to get to know someone they were only mildly attracted to, and the inside was what they were looking for, they would find the outside would become much more appealing to them.

I know this works. I had been single for some time, and a fellow sent me a message. I did what most shallow people do and asked for a pic. Well, he really didn't look like my type, but he wasn't not "ugly".... just not that attractive. But I put his email aside just incase. Well, he sent me another email and because he was persistent, we started to chat. I found the more we talked, the more I liked. The more I liked, the better looking he became to me.

I know this sounds really bad, but it taught me a valuable lesson. I try to get to know someone before making and rash decisions.
 gamerdork

Joined: 2/1/2005
Msg: 22
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Posted: 2/8/2005 8:21:38 AM
I require both before i will get into a relationship with someone.

A person who has outer beauty but not inner beauty, I still want to **** them.

A person who has inner but not outer, that's what "just friends" is for.
 gurlznotgrey39

Joined: 12/12/2004
Msg: 23
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Posted: 2/8/2005 8:25:09 AM
I am not sure how to answer this one...I have to say the inside but I know this is going to sound shallow, and I am sorry but there has to be a little something on the outside to peak my interest, but I always give ppl a chance so I guess I am not too shallow, but I think to a certain degree we are all like this whether we want to admit it or not!! (If I am wrong then I apologize to anyone I may offend!!).
 iceman894

Joined: 1/25/2005
Msg: 24
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Posted: 2/8/2005 1:50:46 PM
u know sooner or l8ter you gonna get old and have wrinkles maybe even be ugly so if u only like somebody for what they look like they prolly only like u the same and they are gonna leave u first chance something better walks by..

so inner.. duh treat me nice and make me feel even a little special all i ask.
 Tastemeow

Joined: 1/25/2005
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Posted: 2/8/2005 2:05:13 PM
well i like to ad that as far as my looks i have always thought i was average but what made me beautiful was what i had inside.....my inner beauty illuminates and enhances my outer to me ....get ta know me and i will be beautiful....not average.....at all...And let me further say that ...that is what i see in others....your true beauty is what the heart is saying to me....
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