| scent of a woman Posted: 3/31/2006 4:11:19 PM | | why is it when you are in a steady relationship and you go out to a bar or club woman seem come on to you or you could pick up a woman in the blink of an eye,but when you are single and you go out they dont seem to want to know you and its a lot harder to pick them up...is it just me or does anyone else feel the same....its like woman can smell or sense you are attached so they tempt and tease you.what the hell is with that!! | |
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| scent of a woman Posted: 3/31/2006 4:13:51 PM | | It has been known that women have an intuitive gift of spotting the "taken" man. I've experienced it. I even did the George Costanza routine with the ring on the wedding finger. Works. | |
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| scent of a woman Posted: 3/31/2006 4:18:49 PM | No, it has something to do with pheromones. I think when we are in a relationship (and sexually active, enjoyably), our bodies produce more active pheromones, and they drive the opposite sex crazy.
I have noticed this continually throughout my life.
Don't let it go to your head. | |
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| scent of a woman Posted: 3/31/2006 4:20:56 PM | | I was just talking about this, i dont know why but yes if I have a g/f it seems like every eye is on me some times but if i am single cant get time of day some nights. | |
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| scent of a woman Posted: 3/31/2006 4:24:33 PM | | thats on eof the hardest things about dating, being on the prowl without looking like it! | |
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| scent of a woman Posted: 3/31/2006 4:26:06 PM | It's all about confidence. When men are in a relationship they tend to put out a more confident aura. You can smile at a girl not caring whether she likes you or not. If your looking at a pretty girl and she catches you you just keep looking...if guys are single they tend to look away and pretend they weren't looking.
When you have nothing to lose by flirting your going to be more relaxed. If a guy is activly pursuing a girl their flirting abilities tend to be diminished.
It'a all about the level of confidence the women see in your actions, looks, and words. | |
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| scent of a woman Posted: 3/31/2006 4:26:17 PM | | I think it has to do with the fact that when your single they can notice you looking at them or you just have a diferent way about you but when your taken and in the bar your more reserved and to yourself so you come off as you don't want them and they want to be wanted so intern they find themselves more attracted to your presence. | |
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| scent of a woman Posted: 3/31/2006 4:33:50 PM | Oh We smell something alright...It's called Despair. But it's more like another sense, Beyond smell, really.
It is apparent in the way one carries one's self with more confidence or poise, without an air of desperation, because needs are being Met for that person when they are IN a relationship. If one is the type that believes they NEED someone in their life, it really shows-even unconsciously, to a potential suitor when that person is Single or Looking. They have their "Radar" on, in a sense and that hyper-sensitivity the person is displaying is picked up by others-Reminds Me a line from that old Queen song-"...pleading with Your eyes, gonna make You some Peace some day..."
We pick up on things like body language, expressions and actions on an unconscious level, where it is all processed in our subconscious to give us a "Feeling" about what We are discerning, wherein a Thousand words might be transposed as a reflection of what has been surmised thus becoming a "Feeling"... | |
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Hezron
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| scent of a woman Posted: 3/31/2006 4:45:42 PM | | Diggydiggy....you are bang on. All about the pheremones...powerful little critters. Quagmire knows all about these...all right...gigity diggity.... | |
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| scent of a woman Posted: 3/31/2006 4:58:09 PM | Anybody know where I can buy a bottle of Pheremones?
I need them as a temporary solution to a permanent problem............the problem......being single | |
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| scent of a woman Posted: 3/31/2006 4:59:17 PM |
when you are single and you go out they dont seem to want to know you and its a lot harder to pick them up
we can smell desperation from a mile away.  | |
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| scent of a woman Posted: 3/31/2006 5:03:54 PM | | Add a bottle of desperation to my list too......... | |
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| scent of a woman Posted: 3/31/2006 5:05:33 PM | can u smell something weaker than desperation-sounds like a strong word | |
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Hezron
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| scent of a woman Posted: 3/31/2006 5:16:58 PM | | hey...all right...I'm only depserate for you baby...all right gigity digity | |
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| scent of a woman Posted: 3/31/2006 9:09:35 PM | it was also a great movie.
i love the smell of some women, wish i knew what perfume it was. | |
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| scent of a woman Posted: 3/31/2006 9:13:20 PM | Hehe; I dunno, I have a friend who wants to sniff me all the time. He keeps telling me that he loves my face cream. Duh, wth?? Hey; it really really really helps if you like to sniff someone, I guess... Problem is; that they should like to sniff you too, or else - no match. | |
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| scent of a woman Posted: 3/31/2006 9:36:45 PM |
I think it has to do with the fact that when your single they can notice you looking at them or you just have a diferent way about you but when your taken and in the bar your more reserved and to yourself so you come off as you don't want them and they want to be wanted so intern they find themselves more attracted to your presence.
I think Tr3vor has it nailed. Not that I really have this problem, but I know that ladies always want the attention and if they get it from you staring at them like a single guy would, you just fulfilled their desire and they move on. If you don't give that to them then they know they have to work for it and some will try a little harder to get your attention. Sometimes its all about the cha$e. | |
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| scent of a woman Posted: 4/1/2006 5:15:19 AM | | its easier to get women when you have women. for a bunch of reasons that I am simply too lazy to name. | |
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| scent of a woman Posted: 4/1/2006 6:26:03 AM | | too funny.........i was just talking about this a couple weeks ago. most women can pick up instantly, on a subconscious level, by smell, if a man's involved with another woman. now as to why it would make a woman go after a man, well thats beyond me. personally i don't want to share. | |
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| scent of a woman Posted: 4/1/2006 6:42:25 AM | If he's single there must be a reason.. If he's taken he must be worth having..
ppl are funny *rollin eyes* | |
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| scent of a woman Posted: 4/1/2006 6:53:32 AM | I'm single cause I dont like to share........I want myself all to me.  | |
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| scent of a woman Posted: 4/1/2006 7:24:30 AM | | Interesting...... I just got out of a long relationship and when guys think you are not available they hit on you. It will be interesting how the table turn now that I am no longer attached. I think when you are in a relationship men sense something about you that say I could care less. | |
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| scent of a woman Posted: 4/1/2006 7:46:42 AM | | Alwayssmiling...have you looked in a mirror lately....your Gorgeous. Guys are going to hit on you in ANY situation. | |
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| scent of a woman Posted: 4/1/2006 4:43:39 PM |
No, it has something to do with pheromones. I think when we are in a relationship (and sexually active, enjoyably), our bodies produce more active pheromones, and they drive the opposite sex crazy.
HHHmmm Now coming to mind is a great reason to have a fcukbuddy/humpbuddy/FWB. So you have your friend who you get your needs met with, so youre putting off the above mentioned pheromones and your popular, and you then meet the woman or man of your dreams, fall in love and well your FWB is happy for you cause you found love. also the nice thing about a FB is that you dont have to get involved with someone who you mihgt no really get involved with other than your really horny. So you can concetrate on a quality relationship. | |
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| scent of a woman Posted: 4/1/2006 5:27:15 PM | Damn panty sniffers.
Smell is just one of the five senses. I like a girl that has high marks on all scores with the senses. | |
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