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Posted: 4/1/2006 12:57:35 AM | Hi all
I was just wondering if any other man got this, my girlfriend only has to put her arm around me and I get and erection??? Is this normal??, I feel that I cant do all the touchy feely stuff becuase I get an erection and if she notices I will feel embarrased and not sure how she would react. | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 1:28:55 AM | | OK wow I don't know about that. Is this the first girl you have been with and does this happen with EVERY girl or just her. You might have a problem with premature ejaculation! | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 1:37:23 AM | | Why feel embarrased she is your gf I am like I'd rather my man got excited when I touched him than had erection problems in the sense of not being able to get it up and yes I am talking from experience hahaha. I think it only seems a problem cos u are conscious of it u could actually use this to turn the heat up between u to another level :) I think that after time this will calm down tc xjx | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 1:38:36 AM | | I tend to get erections very easily which is a good thing most of the time, but when it happens when I dont want it to thats when it is a problem | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 1:43:46 AM | I know the feeling dude.
The only thing I can suggest is an electric shock collar for a dog. | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 1:48:23 AM | | Be glad you don't have to use pills, pumps, and creams just to get it up.. | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 1:50:50 AM | | Yeh man there isn't much you can do about that. Hormones bro some people get erections very easily and others well its harder. There isn't anything really you can do about that. If your comfertable with your partner then I don't see a problem really, if anything it should help make things more exciting for you both. Instead of looking at it as a problem look at it as an opportunity to make your sex life very active. Alot of men would kill to be able to get erections as easily as you do, I know because I'm one of them. | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 2:31:28 AM | | You'd have better luck asking you doctor.........and don't follow the instructions up there about the electric dog collar....OOOOOOOUUUUUUCHHHHHHH | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 2:38:54 AM | yes has happened to me b4 but only with 1 woman and i found thatit was cause of how much i felt for her and thought about her and how great she looks and everythin she just has to be near me to get me excited lol but with time ya can aontrol it but i will say that if this happens with every woman you come inot contact with then u have a problem with your vavle and should seek a docters help   | |
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| Have I got a problem
Posted: 4/1/2006 2:47:24 AM | Yeh man agreed if you really feel its THAT bad and infact it is get in to see a doctor and see what they can give you, if anything or advice they can give you  | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 3:18:13 AM | OP,
sounds like the two of you may have great chemistry. Your talking "she" turns you on, not just some gal walking down the street. I'd think she would be full-on flattered.
Doesn't sound as though you have a problem at all (just keep your shirt untucked in public!). | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 3:23:33 AM | | If I were a guy; I would be damn proud of every erection I had!! | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 3:24:40 AM | | Just explain to your gf that she has a very powerful physical effect on you, and that it might be a better if she doesn't touch you out in public because it could get embarassing. Believe me, if my bf said "Honey, please don't be touching me while we're out cuz I'm so turned on by you that I get wood...." I'd be dragging him home by the arm PDQ to show him how much I appreciate the compliment he's showing me. | |
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| Have I got a problem
Posted: 4/1/2006 3:38:19 AM | | Haha yeh listen to Pam. Wait a minute Pam I'll lend you mine | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 5:39:23 AM | | I understand how this can be a problem especially when you are with other people - it would not be appropriate to walk around a party with her while erect. I have a male friend that says he always gets a hard on when he sees me - he says it's only with certain women when this happens. He say it's difficult not to get hard even if he tries not to. There really is nothing you can do for this except perhaps masterbate before you see her or agree to meet her before you go out with others and get her to take care of you. | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 7:25:55 AM | | That Is a blessing,not a problem.When I was a teen My mom made me take saltpeater. | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 7:33:07 AM | What is that ^^^^^ saltpeater???
I know it might be a silly question but I've never heard of it | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 8:06:29 AM | OP
I've had experiences with both type of men. Those who pop wood if I smile at them coyly and others who get so damned nervous that they have serious erection problems. In my opinion I would rather my man get easily excited and erect then have a serious softy issue.
In a weird way it's flattering when a guy get's an erection with little stimulation. Plus, it's a turn on. (and it makes us feel powerful)
HOwever, if this happens when you're out on the town or at her parents or some such place then that would be a problem. Just think of your grandparents naked. | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 8:08:57 AM | I don't think it's a problem at all!!!
I dated someone once who got an errection everytime I saw him. I felt or saw him hard everytime I was near him..... I LOVED IT........
It always ended up leading to something else.... some kind of fun one way or another....... Need I say more? 
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Posted: 4/1/2006 8:11:49 AM | nuns and dead puppies...nuns and dead puppies...nuns and dead puppies...
nuns and dead puppies...nuns and dead puppies...nuns and dead puppies...
unless you like that sort of thing... | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 8:17:07 AM | I can acheive an erection from just cuddling, dancing slowly, anything physical with a woman I find sexually appealing. I don't think it's uncommon. I just explain to my gf's that "he" has a mind of "his" own and that it's only because I feel so comfortable with them that this is happening. An erection, for some guys, is the man's equivalent of a dog wagging his tail. If I'm happy and being cared for and being shown affection, I'm wagging my tail. lol. I don't know how many men would admit to that, but, I know we two are not the only ones. I know a few of my male friends have professed that this goes on with them, as well. One says "I don't dance with a woman until after the first time we f*ck." So, if you're worried that you're not normal, stop worrying. You're not the first to say it and probably won't be the last to feel it, either.
Early reaction time to gaining erections does not equate with premature ejaculations, either. I don't where that dude got that idea from. LOL. | |
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Posted: 4/1/2006 8:17:12 AM | Thats not a problem...
I have been with several girlfriends, and if your mood is right it doesn't take more than a smile. We are the lucky ones....imagine the opposite ED
Like I said though depends on mood, and the girl. If you keep getting erections thats one way to tell she might be a keeper!
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Posted: 4/1/2006 8:29:20 AM | Exactly. Problem? What problem. Learn to outfit yourself in tighter underwear, baggier pants, a long sweater -- whatever it takes to disguise the "problem". Failing that, you could always initiate a comedy routine a la Steve Martin's scene on the sidewalk in "All of Me", where he's carreening spasmodically with Edwina's mind at the controls. That'll draw attention away from your hot spot. Be more accepting of your blessed physiology; get over it -- if someone notices, just shoot 'em an exasperated "what can I do?" look and silently chuckle. Just going through that little routine may cause your bloodflow to ebb for a while. Could be worse problems my friend, at least when you're in such a sexually charged state, you're less likely
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Posted: 4/1/2006 8:32:55 AM | | Are you guys having sex? I had a boyfriend with the same problem. We tried to "cure" it by having sex whenever it happened. | |
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