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 indiashomeeee

Joined: 7/21/2005
Msg: 1
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Posted: 4/5/2006 9:10:20 AM
I HAVE BEEN ON THIS SITE FOR ABOUT 5 MONTHS. I'M ABOUT READY TO DELETE MY PROFILE. I'VE MET QUITE A FEW GUYS FROM THIS SITE AND I CAN'T SEEM TO FIND ANYONE INTERESTED IN A MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP. I THINK THAT A LOT OF MEN ARE ONLY LOOKING FOR O.N.S. ARE THERE ANY OTHER PEOPLE OUT THERE THAT FEEL THE SAME WAY AS I DO?
 PA!GE®

Joined: 11/9/2005
Msg: 2
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Posted: 4/5/2006 9:16:39 AM
Actually it will be 9 months later this month
 stoneside

Joined: 9/3/2004
Msg: 3
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Posted: 4/5/2006 9:16:46 AM
Yep, women keep trying to bed me. Its' driving me nuts. hehe
Not all of us guys are like that. Chat longer before meeting a new guy, the ones that just want to get laid won't stick around that long and you'll be left with guys that are interested in YOU.
 stoneside

Joined: 9/3/2004
Msg: 4
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Posted: 4/5/2006 9:19:06 AM
Ummm, just looked at your profile. Long Term, only guys between 25 and 37? That MIGHT be part of the problem.
 61473TX

Joined: 3/17/2006
Msg: 5
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Posted: 4/5/2006 9:30:19 AM
Yeah, it sucks. I met this guy, I will call him "bob". Bob sent me a message, we talked for a week and decided to meet.He was a gentleman, opened doors, was really nice. We decided to go for coffee. Talked for another hour. We went in his car, no problem. On the way back to my car, he pulls behind a building and wants to make out!!!!! What a jerk-- he told me I was an 8 on his scale and he wants to get to know me..... give me a break!!! Since I would not make out with him, He took me back to my car.
Did not hear from him afterwards.
WTF??????????
 indiashomeeee

Joined: 7/21/2005
Msg: 6
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Posted: 4/5/2006 9:37:03 AM
LOOKING AT YOUR PROFILE STONESIDE. I THINK YOU'RE PART OF THE O.N.S. CROWD HUH.....
 winxs

Joined: 3/2/2006
Msg: 7
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Posted: 4/5/2006 9:55:45 AM
ummmm excuse me..can someone tell me what O.N.S. crowd is? please? thanks
 PourSugarOnMe

Joined: 6/2/2005
Msg: 8
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Posted: 4/5/2006 10:00:24 AM
Winxs~ O.N.S.= One Night Stand
 Gallivanting1

Joined: 1/28/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 4/5/2006 10:07:49 AM
One thing to remember is that you picked these guys. Try changing the questions you ask and perhaps update your profile and say that you will definitly not be sleeping with them on the first date. Second maybe - but never the first. Well, except for the really good looking ones. Or maybe even the guy that says he can lick his eyebrows. But other than that - no way!
 Al_Bear

Joined: 2/12/2006
Msg: 10
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Posted: 4/5/2006 10:09:47 AM
Indiashomeeee,
I looked at you profile and IMO you don't appear to be a fun person. Why would I want to contact a person who isn't fun. Lighten up a bit. Life is short enjoy it. Personally I chat and e-mail people that make me laugh or show a bit of wit in their profiles.
 stoneside

Joined: 9/3/2004
Msg: 11
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Posted: 4/5/2006 10:22:35 AM
Guess my true colors have finally come though. lmao
Was just offering an opinion on the thread you started, my mistake.
Here, this is what I really meant to say:
You're right, it's all of the guys on here. We all only want one thing. It's our fault for for not understanding the ladies aswell as we should. ALL of us men need to be more understanding, caring and honest. It really should be a one way street after all. I have to go hang my head in shame now, for all my misdeeds.
 in_cognito

Joined: 4/1/2006
Msg: 12
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Posted: 4/5/2006 10:28:03 AM
What ELSE should a 25 year old want to do with a 40 year old? Start a family?????
And what exactly should someone your age assume about you knowing that you'd actually date a 25 year old? I'll give you 3 things that I'd think right from the start, knowing that you'd consider dating 15 years your junior..
A) You're looking for sex.
B) You haven't matured enough to have a relationship with someone older than you.
C) You're hoping that your life experience can allow you to completely dominate someone younger.
D) You'd actually go to raves and party all night. (That's creepy).



All I can say is that you're probably missing out on a really hot, emotionally stable 40 year old who might be looking for the same thing you are because you'd rather date a child...
If you chose to keep your restrictions as they are.......>Good luck with that.
 heltster

Joined: 2/5/2005
Msg: 13
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Posted: 4/5/2006 10:43:49 AM
I can roll my eyebrows! I am not sure what that actually would have to do with sex, but I can roll hem like they are a wave.
 Gallivanting1

Joined: 1/28/2005
Msg: 14
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Posted: 4/5/2006 10:51:26 AM
Al Bear: I'm fun!! When are you going to move?

Stoneside: Bad Stoneside - Bad (smacks on nose with a rolled up newspaper). So are we still on for later?

Helster: Nope, gotta be able to lick them although rolling them sounds kind of neat too.

So Indiasomeeee, are you still thinking of leaving? Perhaps you could take some of these comments in a constructive way and update your profile - or perhaps not. The choice is yours.
 counsellorTroi

Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 15
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Posted: 4/5/2006 11:09:38 AM
LMAO! Yeh, ability to lick your eyebrows is a tongue thing, we're not interested in your facial muscles!

There's a term for older women looking for younger men - COUGAR!

And did ya know that all caps is yelling? I'd be yelling too, not keeping any young studmuffins around... I'll stick to my own age group, thanks.
 PourSugarOnMe

Joined: 6/2/2005
Msg: 16
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Posted: 4/5/2006 11:15:02 AM
I think you get what you project.



~Pour
 PA!GE®

Joined: 11/9/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 4/5/2006 11:21:23 AM
Why would a 39 yr old woman have these restrictrions- Age between 25 and 37???
 EB1

Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 18
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Posted: 4/5/2006 11:48:42 AM
No one is looking for O.N.S. with me they just want to test my Maths skills.

Damn
 Sara Goldfarb

Joined: 10/4/2005
Msg: 19
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Posted: 4/5/2006 11:51:00 AM
Maybe if you stopped YELLING at folks...and another thing, don't come here & ask for help then be ****y to the folks that offer; sheesh people like you piss me off worse than the people that start a brazillion redundant threads without doing a search; so to you too...you be nice to my fellow fishies or go away.....(BTW, that brazillion thing, thatsa inside joke, so don't try to take me apart for that, anything else, bring it on)
 carrie bradshaw

Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 20
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Posted: 4/5/2006 12:06:29 PM
Not all men are like that. It is not right to try to paint them all with the same brush.
A thread search might help as well. This topic has been done many times and you will find a lot of answers and opinions that way.
Best of luck to you.
Carrie
 Spazoid

Joined: 3/25/2006
Msg: 21
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Posted: 4/5/2006 12:30:14 PM
indiashomeeee:

The fact that your profile is weak could have something to do with it. It lacks any depth and has multiple cliches.

The fact that you are looking for men as young as 25 might also be a factor. How many 25 year old men do you really think are looking for a serious relationship with someone who is nearly 40?
 indiashomeeee

Joined: 7/21/2005
Msg: 22
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Posted: 4/5/2006 12:30:46 PM
THANK YOU CARRIE.....FINALLY SOMEONE WITH SOME GOOD ADVICE TO SHOUT OUT. GUYS LIKE THE ONE THAT COMMENTED ABOUT THE BRAZILIAN THING ARE JUST THE TYPE'S I WANT TO AVOID........


 indiashomeeee

Joined: 7/21/2005
Msg: 23
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Posted: 4/5/2006 12:32:29 PM
ALSO TO ALL THE HATERS THAT RESPONDED TO MY SIMPLE QUESTION. I FINALLY DID MEET A NICE GUY ON HERE FROM A CITY CALLED WHITTIER. THANK GOD HE ISN'T ANYTHING LIKE THE GUYS THAT ARE RESPONDING TO ME..... (YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE)...
 PA!GE®

Joined: 11/9/2005
Msg: 24
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Posted: 4/5/2006 12:36:40 PM
haters???? huh
 PourSugarOnMe

Joined: 6/2/2005
Msg: 25
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Posted: 4/5/2006 12:38:00 PM
I don't know why it is but something about this thread makes me think of the school teacher that was dating a 15 year old.



~Pour
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