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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/6/2006 9:27:14 AM | Ok, so we have heard a plethora of comments from the girls on how all the guys on this site only want one thing... sex! We have also heard a lot of comments about how the guys are sub-par, cheaters or otherwise.
Guys, I want to hear your stories about the girls you have met on this site, or other online sites. Are they all Mommies looking for daddies, are they sex-crazed Nymphomaniacs, or are they regular girls?
Girls, I look forward to hearing some positive stories about guys you have met on this site.
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Cybury
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Joined: 12/13/2005
Msg: 2 | |
| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/6/2006 9:39:21 AM | easy... they are all looking for sex
but only with Brad Pitt lookalikes
anything less just gets discarded as worthless trash to be Read/Deleted at the earliest chance
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/6/2006 9:42:08 AM | O.k....I'll bite.
Take it all with a grain of salt.
Each sex ( M/F).has it's fair share of others that may seem different to ourselves.
Some crave the relationship , some crave the party , some the sex 
I will say...it's always nice to find friends that are comfortable to be with....and turn into long term attractions. | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/6/2006 9:46:21 AM |
Guys, I want to hear your stories about the girls you have met on this site, or other online sites. Are they all Mommies looking for daddies, are they sex-crazed Nymphomaniacs, or are they regular girls?
"Regular girls"??? What's that? 
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/6/2006 9:49:26 AM |
Girls, I look forward to hearing some positive stories about guys you have met on this site
no complaints from me on any PEOPLE that i talk to on here....... | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/6/2006 9:53:54 AM | All the women that I've personally met though this site come with their own varied list of good and bad qualities , Yes some want a boy toy and some don't but in my experience the common denominator for me is that none so far want to commit to anything since the pond is so full it's very hard for two people out of so many to accept that they just may not need to keep looking ,
"Whoops there's another IM perhaps this one is better than the last" .
If something works it does not need to be replaced or fixed because the next one might break down completely and cost you what you had .
Sometimes we need to just take an honest chance with someone and leave it to that . Hell even the last woman I was seeing from here decided she needed something more and it was supposed to be a final thing . Some people just will never get it will they ? You throw away something good to find something better only to find out that you've made yet another mistake .
It is what it is it's all just a game of trading up for most .
So be it after all it is the internet and technology has taken us out of our living rooms and brought us out to the entire world , It was bound to complicate things . I guess we have to adapt to yet another new set of rules .
Peace, happy fishing and may your engine not burn out from trolling through too many weeds :o( | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/6/2006 9:56:39 AM | | Well if I were to generalize. I've found ladies that are, bitter (the ex was a jerk and I'm sure you are to), fearfull (we've only been chatting for two months, I don't know you well enough to meet you yet, you might break my heart), grumpy (I shouldn't have to meet guys on the internet, this sucks), shallow (hey, I only care about looks) massive ego's (I'm a very special lady, I expect only the best, I can have any man I want) friendly (you're not my normal type but you seem like a nice guy so lets talk and see what happens) horny (ok, lets meet, I'll take you to bed and see if you can keep up), low self worth (I don't know how any man could want me, *note, the ladies like this are always great ladies, nice, pretty, understanding that some jerk has conviced that they aren't all those things), rude ( disappears mid chat and blocks you for no reason that I can spot) to eager (IF we meet, and IF we like each other and IF we date and IF we get married, how soon are you willing to have kids?) playfull (don't know if we'll meet or not, doesn't really matter, lets just enjoy each other THEN if we meet we might get to REALLY enjoy each other) nice ( do you mind if we talk, learn about each other, I like to learn about people, what makes them tick) I could go on and on but thinking that's enough. | |
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Cybury
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Joined: 12/13/2005
Msg: 10 | |
| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/6/2006 10:07:04 AM |
Brainless beauties is what I get.
how about sharing?
and @stoneside, I think you covered all the types here although I'm waiting to find the "nice" one... haven't met up with any like that yet | |
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KolDad
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Joined: 1/17/2005
Msg: 11 | |
| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/6/2006 10:10:58 AM | Stone, you just listed all the types of women you would meet anywhere. I myself have met nice women and evil ones. I just recently had one that fell in love with me on the first date and loved our differences and the fact i didnt cater to her whims until i decided it wasnt going to work. Then turned into mean, begging, mean lady. yes that is how it went. you are a jerk, no i take that back i like you, no i take that back i hate you now that you wont talk to me actually i hate everyone on POF you are all depressed lonely souls hiding. This happened once before after meeting someone on a site like this, seems I attract the princess's that like it that I don't cower before their magnificance until they realize I will never do that then they just get mean.
Don't get me wrong I have met very nice also but the blond, over 30, "I love my image of being fabulous" seem to be attracted to me. | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/6/2006 10:13:46 AM | | Yeah, I've been here awhile. Why people keep reading advice from a guy that's been on a dating site for a year and a half, I have no idea. lmao | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/6/2006 11:38:00 AM |
Why people keep reading advice from a guy that's been on a dating site for a year and a half, I have no idea.
Know why stoneside? cuz you are not jumping into a relationship with the first girl who bats her eyelashes at you.....smart man. | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/6/2006 12:29:11 PM | ^^^
Posts 6 and 8 are so very true and accurate that we can
close the thread on them. What more needs to be said?
What kind of girls ARE there to meet on personals sites?
- The kind who realize that it's OK to completely botch things
up with a guy, because there will always be "plenty of other fish
in the sea".
- The kind who are on about 200 people's favorites lists,
and who don't have to worry about running out of "options".
(Before anyone comments on this, I've heard it all before.
"Just because they have us on their list, it doesn't mean
they contact us, wah wah wah." Well guess what;
if they have you on their list, chances are that they'll at
least respond to you. It's a matter of simply writing out
to THEM. Why women INSIST on men making the
first move is juvenile and archaic.) I'm not being bitter at
all, and have had women contact me first (it shows they
got guts), as well, have had a majority reply ratio to emails
I send out (surprisingly, even the ones that are
undeserving of one), so no problems here, but I'm not blind
to the actions of those outside my personal experiences.
These forums are testimonies of that.
The mentality that sites like these (not that I'm complaining)
project is so flawed that it's detrimental to its members.
"Learn from your mistakes." ?
"There's always next time." ?
"Don't worry, be happy." ?
These tidbits of "wisdom" are fine and dandy when pertaining
to everyday trivialities, but they SHOULDN'T be carried over
to the dating world, and interpersonal relationships.
Because THAT is psychotic and disrespectful.
- While many never ever "learn from their mistakes",
how about trying to actually FIX them?
Oh, because women are never the "handyMAN",
and it's always easier to run away to the next waiting fool,
than repairing the damage YOU'VE done.
I'm safe in saying that most of the time, it's men who stick
around trying to patch things up, while women frantically
scatter about, not wanting anything further to do with a
man THEY see as having done them wrong (even if
it was the other way around). They cease contact out
of personaly insecurity, and fear.
- "There's always next time", translating to "there's always
another man in line you can throw your mess at, to see if he'll
pick it up and sort it out" is... is... there is no word to explain
that. Selfish? Careless? Uncaring? Tactless? Take your pick
or mix and match.
Are men so disposable, that we are seen in this manner?
- Don't worry, be happy?
No, DO worry, because you've hurt another human being's feelings,
and now HE's not happy. That's just not cool, and you better be ready
to own up to it, and rectify your actions. We let women we care for get away
with far too much. Taking advantage of that is just... mean and spiteful!
(You gals are lucky I'm in a good mood today, or that could have gotten ugly...)
Stone side wrote quite an impressive list, and I'll add to it as there are
so many other "types" he left out (after all, everyone should be "different"
right?).
One of my personal favorites : The one that floats.
(AKA "Floaters" "Coasters")
They are above everyone else (in an egotistic sense), and having 500+
fans adds to this already over-inflated superiority complex. They've been
on the site for ages, and just sit there basking in the flattering attempts
men make to woo or court them, one after the other, coasting endlessly.
You would think that with all these "favorable" conditions and admirers,
extrapolated over the course of 2 YEARS (or more), it would give them
the opportunity to meet at least ONE special person they would want to
devote themselves to, but no, they never take ANY man seriously, nor give
many a chance, because it doesn't matter. They see no "danger" nor any
reason the game-playing should ever stop, when they have so many eggshells
(they see as stepping stones) to walk all over. Chances are that they pick
which email(s) they'll open on any particular day with a suction-dart (cause
regular darts just don't work on computer screens), since they honestly
WOULDN'T be able to keep up with the emails they get. Funny part is that
they probably already have a boyfriend/partner/"lover" they don't mention.
The ones that float, I simply let float. They can fly all around the globe,
or well past the thermosphere for all I care.
Then there are the "unavailable", and I'm not talking about the
ones who are "spoken" for, or otherwise "seeing someone", but I'll get
into that another time; I'm tired of enlightening the masses for now...
If YOU think I'm being bitter, then here, I'll add to YOUR skewed perception  :
F*ck you, I don't want to hear it.  I'm just being realistic of the big picture. 
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Cybury
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Joined: 12/13/2005
Msg: 16 | |
| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/6/2006 1:18:08 PM |
The one that floats.
hmmm, there are other things that float... I wonder if there are any similarity's?
oh and add your post to the three best ones on this thread
Don't worry, be happy... but only if your well hung | |
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KolDad
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Joined: 1/17/2005
Msg: 17 | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/7/2006 10:09:44 AM | [but the blond, over 30, "I love my image of being fabulous" seem to be attracted to me.]
Fluffers...how do you manage all these babes?... | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/7/2006 10:33:12 AM | A couple more:
Fakes (these can be men or women, bored people playing on the internet) Shoppers (they think that there is always a better guy out there so won't meet anybody *note, they seem to get bitter and leave the site within a couple months) Confused (they have no idea what they want) I didn't inc. these types at first cus they they only manifest themselves on the internet. | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/7/2006 10:42:17 AM | always though that it was a bit odd that the guy who sang that song hung himself ?
WHAT??? Bobby Mcfarren HUNG himself??? Holy Crap!!! Are you SURE?
OT: I think we need to remember that online dating sites are simply a reflection of the real world. The only difference is that because we're somewhat anonymous it's a little easier to put ourselves out there and take a chance. Hence, we meet more people. There are all "types" of people in society and if you were to meet as many people in real life as you do online it would be more obvious.
It's just a matter of wading through the crap to find the gem. | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/7/2006 11:33:47 AM |
Brainless beauties is what I get.
I'm betting because that's exactly the type of girl you went after. Beauty fades, dumb is forever. | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/7/2006 11:48:50 AM | At least if a girls on here she has 2 things going for her.
She can operate a computer.
She's not so dumb as to join a pay site.
That gives her something to recommend over millions of others. | |
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| Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted: 4/7/2006 11:50:40 AM | not sure what the women on here are looking for, in my opinion they are very similar to the men on here. some looking for sex, some looking for ltr's some looking for friends and some just here for the forums
just my two cents | |
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Cybury
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Joined: 12/13/2005
Msg: 25 | |
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