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 ~-~GEM~-~

Joined: 11/16/2005
Msg: 1
Okay, is turning 45 the worst or what?
Posted: 4/7/2006 11:12:58 AM
I am creeping up on 45, and am totally bummed about it. I really don't know exactly why ..Turning 40 was nothing but sheesh,, I'll be 44 this year and I just find this all so aboslutely unnerving.
 Catch A Star

Joined: 10/17/2005
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Okay, is turning 45 the worst or what?
Posted: 4/7/2006 11:21:52 AM
Ya wait till your 49!!! Sucky Baby!!! Gettin old ain't for babies!!! LOL
 shellinmo

Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 3
Okay, is turning 45 the worst or what?
Posted: 4/7/2006 11:26:46 AM
I just turned 45 this year....to me it's no big deal. I decided a long time ago not to let my age bother me. In my opinion there's no reason to...there's nothing I can do to stop it so I just as well enjoy life no matter what age I am!
 prolibertate

Joined: 9/11/2005
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Okay, is turning 45 the worst or what?
Posted: 4/7/2006 11:34:22 AM
Nope, turning 29 was the worst...the start of my 30th year...Now, it's only a number, and luckily having good genetics helps ;) Besides, life is what *we* make it...at any age.
 Lipstick1961

Joined: 3/8/2006
Msg: 5
Okay, is turning 45 the worst or what?
Posted: 4/7/2006 11:52:14 AM
I'll be turning 45 tomorrow!!! I think the worst will be 50. Not looking forward to that one.
 sexyviper

Joined: 10/12/2005
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Posted: 4/7/2006 11:56:20 AM
happy b-day lipstick .........you look great and not a day over 29
and your from Ottawa too ....are you going out to party it up ?
 1jay1

Joined: 2/28/2006
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Okay, is turning 45 the worst or what?
Posted: 4/7/2006 4:04:04 PM
I'm 47, turning 48 in about 3 weeks. Hell, I look and feel better now than I did at 45! BRING IT ON!!
 ChillingRuby

Joined: 3/21/2006
Msg: 8
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Posted: 4/7/2006 6:35:35 PM
If turning 45 is my worst experience..............I am ready to conquer the world!
 My_Island

Joined: 12/10/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 4/7/2006 8:00:24 PM
Dating people half your age in order to ignore the truth is worse. Your 40's should be the best time of your life (as an individual). I'm enjoying it immensely. Maturity and experience makes life a lot easier to understand.

You should be very horny at your age... enjoy it
 pickles51

Joined: 1/17/2005
Msg: 10
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Posted: 4/8/2006 7:02:36 AM
Well Darlin'

Let me tell you.........

I'm creeping up on 55 and I can't wait!!!!!!!! Senior discounts, cheaper car insurance, I could go on.....

This preoccupation with 40, 45, 50 etc is such a waste of time and energy.....

Celebrate EVERY single second of EVERY single day. You have no idea what maybe around the corner and let me tell you when you face a major health crisis numbers mean nothing!

I am in better shape now than I was years ago...I laugh out loud, and my life is so rich that I don't have the time to worry about age, Im too busy loving who I am, where I am at and enjoying my friends and family.

End of lecture

Pickles
 blue_eyes3

Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 11
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Posted: 4/8/2006 4:25:38 PM
I would rather be 45 year old I am now than 25 year old I used to be!
 arleigh_logan

Joined: 4/7/2006
Msg: 12
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Posted: 4/8/2006 4:40:41 PM
I totally agree, blue eyes3!
 picker_grinner

Joined: 7/26/2005
Msg: 13
Okay, is turning 45 the worst or what?
Posted: 4/8/2006 5:38:03 PM

Gettin old ain't for babies!!!

That is just so funny
 ~-~GEM~-~

Joined: 11/16/2005
Msg: 14
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Posted: 4/8/2006 6:15:31 PM
okay,, so I come on here for support and well, someone to make it all better..

You're all not helping!!!!!!
I know.. I know.. I know..all of those things ***psst. especially the umm yeah the horny part***.. WTF is with that? LOL
And I wouldn't want to go back in time.. but.. still.. its a little creepy to talk to your friends and you realize they're old and then you realize you're their age!!!!

Come on, doesn't anyone ever have a moment's UH>> SHIT>> I"M *insert number here***!~!!!
 Lipstick1961

Joined: 3/8/2006
Msg: 15
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Posted: 4/8/2006 8:56:10 PM
It's official, I'm 45!!
 dbndon

Joined: 7/15/2005
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Posted: 4/8/2006 9:31:10 PM
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Happy birthday to you!

I’ve had my “45th birthday” twenty times already. LOL

You will soon learn the same things I did: There are plenty more good years to come. In my case, life is more enjoyable now than it has been for the past 35 years.
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 Jane Doe

Joined: 5/26/2005
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Posted: 4/8/2006 9:44:32 PM
45 sucked! 46 sucks more! I'm let you know about 47 in a few months. I think that's whole thing about getting closer to 50...1/2 century, blah, blah, blah. Regardless, I'd give my eye teeth to be 30 again!
 heartofvenus

Joined: 4/8/2006
Msg: 18
Okay, is turning 45 the worst or what?
Posted: 4/8/2006 10:07:03 PM
I dont think so since I will be 45 on my next birthday.
 Speranza

Joined: 3/4/2006
Msg: 19
Okay, is turning 45 the worst or what?
Posted: 4/9/2006 4:25:22 AM
I LOVE being 45!

Truthfully, every year since 40, I've felt wiser, sexier, lovelier, more beautiful...

...okay, so no guy has actually noticed, but HEY! The older you get, the less you care

Of course I want some passionate, romantic guy to spot me and sweep me off my feet. BUT... I bet there are a lot of women out there in their forties secretly chortling to themselves as they walk along the street, "You have NO idea what you're missing!!"

I know I do!

(Of course, it could just be early-onset Alzheimer's... )

Seriously - it's a NUMBER. Only a number! And in ten years it will be 55. So what? Enjoy NOW!
 Lynlin1957

Joined: 2/21/2006
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Okay, is turning 45 the worst or what?
Posted: 4/9/2006 4:39:02 AM
In all honesty I hated my 41st Birthday since it meant I was officially over 40. But, I got over it, and enjoy myself most of the time. I'm sure that I'll also hate (at least for a short time) my 51st, 61st and so on. It's the "officially over" that gets to me. But again, I'll get over it and start enjoying myself again.
 picker_grinner

Joined: 7/26/2005
Msg: 21
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Posted: 4/9/2006 5:17:18 AM

The older you get, the less you care

That's the spirit!!... it's also very true.
Happy Birthday, lipstick
 merf1961

Joined: 4/6/2006
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Posted: 4/9/2006 6:06:15 AM
turning 45 this july...not too worried about it...but i am wondering how traumatized i will be at turning 50...???? ugh!
 PrettyWoman1952

Joined: 3/2/2006
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Posted: 4/9/2006 6:10:20 AM
greeneyedmisfit: I'll be 54 in July and have never felt better about life or myself. The alternative to turning 45 is death - take your pick!
 Ilene

Joined: 12/31/2005
Msg: 24
Okay, is turning 45 the worst or what?
Posted: 4/9/2006 8:28:58 AM
I have to say my 40th birthday was definitely an eye opener. Where in the heck did the time go. Looking back at my 20's, 30's it was great. At this point in time you feel that did you accomplish everything you want to it kinda scared me to a loop. Well got over that within a couple of months and now being 43 I feel more secure about who I am. You basically have to take time for yourself and look into what you want out of your life and make it your number one goal. We tend to take care of others and sometimes forget about ourselves. Ladies look after yourself first because we only live once and its not being selfish you will always tend to others but you come out great at the end. List things you love to do and and do it. We are in our prime but we all look great dont we lol
 ShadowKnight59

Joined: 9/18/2005
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Okay, is turning 45 the worst or what?
Posted: 4/9/2006 10:27:41 AM
I am 46 and last year I must say was a good one...I got full custody of my two little ones. I stay more active and am more healthy now than I was at 41 when I had three heart attacks. So I am not really sure what your complaining about.

Kevin
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