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 debindi

Joined: 3/11/2006
Msg: 1
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Posted: 4/9/2006 7:51:40 PM
DOES ANYONE OUT THERE BESIDES ME HAVE A ISSUE WITH PEOPLE POSTING CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN? I DO! IT JUST SEEMS TO ME THAT THERE IS SO MUCH CHILD EXPOITATION, AND CHILD MOLESTORS..SUCH REALLY BAD PEOPLE...WHY WOULD ANYONE EXPLOIT THERE BABIES ON THE NET? I DONT UNDERSTAND!!!!!!!
 MISS13

Joined: 12/4/2005
Msg: 2
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Posted: 4/9/2006 9:42:13 PM
Join the club...I don't understand where the kids fit in out here either
 victoriapb

Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 3
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Posted: 4/10/2006 5:27:44 PM
Some people say it's like a "package deal." Their kids come with them, and they want the person who doesn't want kids to see the pics, and pass them by. But yes, it does sound like a pedo's dream.
 MISS13

Joined: 12/4/2005
Msg: 4
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Posted: 4/10/2006 5:50:51 PM
Of course my child and I are a package deal too...I will weed out the people that don't want children by their profile or by asking them. It also says in my profile under do you have kids?...and it's marked yes...not how many, not how old they are, not their sexual gender or any other information that is in a picture.


Their kids come with them, and they want the person who doesn't want kids to see the pics, and pass them by


It would be worth their child's safety to have to put up with extra mail and separate the people themselves.
 bonniii

Joined: 3/9/2006
Msg: 5
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Posted: 4/14/2006 3:49:22 PM
Yes i do. I have a big problem with that...in fact i just did my post about it too today...you should give it a read !
 special angel

Joined: 5/15/2005
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Posted: 7/14/2008 7:29:55 PM
IMPORTANT BULLETIN: ( to me anyways )
I SO agree with you and posting of Children pictures on these sites. Once you get to know a person by all means share that part of your life talk about your child be proud of them. BUT always remember these ppl are slick and are a lot smarter then we give them credit, they know how to manipulate a situation and catch you off guard. We as adults are looking for someone, not trying to replace a parent. I think we need to show who we are and yes be proud of our children. But to lure these predators into our lives is not cool... Some claim ppl like me have a wild imagination, have no faith in others. And that is so far from the truth, but i am a Survivor of such a predator. That seen the loneliness in my mother and made his way into my life. He was classified in the courts eyes as a Pedophile that only Preys on women that has young children.
Pedophile sly their way into a child’s life thru a parent wants for companionship. They prey on lonely individuals knowing their main goal is an Innocent child’s soul. So please we all deserve to be happy and share our lives with another person. But if you have children remember your main objective is to protect them. If a person feels the need to question you for your protection then maybe it is them that is hiding something. I wish you all success in your search and as I have noted in my profile “Have integrity while searching”.
SO FOR ME.....ITS
UNCOOL TO POST PICTURES WITH YOUR KIDS ON THIS SITE WHERE POTENTIAL PREDATORS LURK. KIDS SHOULD NOT BE USED AS SALES TOOLS TO MARKET YOURSELF. PLEASE PETITION POF TO CHANGE THEIR POLICY ON POSTINGS WITH CHILDREN TO AT LEAST MASK OUT THEIR FACES IF POSTED.
 TrinB

Joined: 4/27/2008
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Posted: 7/20/2008 12:16:35 PM
Is it right...? probably not.....can you control what people post as long as it falls within the guidelines of the site...(um no)...honestly if I see a guy with three kids (little ones)...standing beside him i probably wont respond. I've raised my two and just really wanna have fun now if u know what i mean.
 IndyMustang

Joined: 11/20/2007
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Posted: 7/20/2008 4:38:16 PM
75% of all children molested are molested by a close family memeber or friend.

So ... should you take down the pictures in your home also ????
 joshww

Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 9
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Posted: 7/21/2008 6:11:31 PM
well i dont really have any issues with ppl show pics of their kids i dont care i mean it makes it easier for them to find someone who wants kids and will take care of them. as far as child peds go what does a pic matter to them they only want kids they will go after kids all the time with a pic. would a child ped just pic a male or female with kids anyways. becuase there will always be sick ppl out there and no way to tell its not like everyone has to wear signs on there foreheads would make things alot easier lol.
 jessie231

Joined: 7/29/2008
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Posted: 8/2/2008 1:37:12 PM
I know! And what is the deal with the idiots that let it go on?? I hate that!!
 cew011473

Joined: 6/6/2006
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Posted: 8/5/2008 11:12:21 AM
Great answer...
 MelloDLyn

Joined: 10/25/2004
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Posted: 8/5/2008 11:45:24 PM
I totally agree with u! I don't like pics of people's children or grandchildren or pets or friends or where they have traveled or provocative pics. It should just be about u and not where u have traveled or what pets u own or what u look like under your shirt. The worst part is posting your kids. Why do u feel the need to show what your child looks like. U could draw some child molesters your way.
 itechman42

Joined: 7/7/2005
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Posted: 8/18/2008 9:48:19 AM
I have one with me holding my youngest but I have her face blocked-out for the very concerns the OP stated. Out of curiosity, would many consider that even this is more than should be there?
 femmechic1

Joined: 11/4/2007
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Posted: 8/21/2008 7:36:40 AM
I AGREE COMPLETELY! Just last week I chated with someone who whas into young boys and was horrified! I reported her to AFF and hope they took her off. People are crazy to put kids pics on here and beward of a bi female who is in to young 16ish year old boys.

 teresaq

Joined: 8/31/2007
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Posted: 8/21/2008 2:20:17 PM
I never thought of people posting or looking for pics with kids. I guess I'm pretty naive, I just assumed they didn't have any thing else to post. Goes to show how easy it would be to take advantage of someone who like me wouldn't think a thing of posting loved ones, be them kids or animals.
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