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| Can you teach an old dog new tricks? Posted: 4/16/2006 4:43:30 PM | guide him through it... for example if u want it harder and faster... grab him sexy butt and u guide the speed and force... mood also has alot to do with it... if ur looking for slow sensual sex... light some candles and have some soft music... but if its a matter of some oral responsibilities just hold off rushing into vaginal sex... he will evenually get the point to got down under... | |
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| Can you teach an old dog new tricks? Posted: 4/16/2006 4:50:20 PM | | Talk to him. trust me guys love to be told what to do. most guys are not thinking during sex or foreplay.. talk talk talk. | |
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| Can you teach an old dog new tricks? Posted: 4/16/2006 4:52:28 PM | | From a guys perspective... Just tell me. I'm there to make sure you (well not specifically you) are enjoying it as much as I am. No one knows what you like, better than yourself and we don't read minds, contrary to popular belief. What one likes, may not be what another does. Just talk to him and tell him, or rather, show him and say... this way.... or that way... Communication is the key. I know what I'm doing, but I don't mind being told what specifically is going to do it for someone. If he's not into learning, then he's not worth taking the time to teach and find another... my 2 cents. | |
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| Can you teach an old dog new tricks? Posted: 4/16/2006 4:55:15 PM | | if you wanna be like all the other retarded girls who fake it and think that it's helping the guy out and then complaining about it later on that's fine. but if you're smart, tell him what you like. if he's not willing to do the things it takes to satisfy you, then you know he's not the one for you. i always tell a girl what i like and don't like. | |
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| Can you teach an old dog new tricks? Posted: 4/16/2006 4:58:12 PM | | I would imagine that the procedure to 'teach' a man to touch you the way you like would be remarkably similiar to the way in which you have learnt to touch him the way he likes. This observation is only relevant if the man's needs are comparible to the women's in regards to sexual gratification. | |
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| Can you teach an old dog new tricks? Posted: 4/16/2006 8:19:52 PM | It is called communication... If he is not capable of handling that... well then maybe he shouldn't be in a mature relationship
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| Can you teach an old dog new tricks? Posted: 4/16/2006 8:27:26 PM | get him/her to read a few books or magazines on the subject. Most of it's bull, but a few magazines have good ideas. Be receptive.
Although the best efforts can go astray. Such as one girl who mistook "Ow! Slower for ****'s sake!" to mean "yum! More, please." | |
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| Can you teach an old dog new tricks? Posted: 4/16/2006 8:48:25 PM | You thorw that stick into a river and watch them jump in after it and hope they do not come back...
Then move onto a dog that does know tricks...
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| Can you teach an old dog new tricks? Posted: 4/16/2006 9:13:22 PM | Hmmm.... are we talking about someone who doesn't know anything or doesn't have any sexual experience?
... or is this about making the other person your "love robot"?
No matter HOW hot (physically attractive) the lady is, tantric sex never did much for me. I think if I don't like the way the person does it when they do it THEIR way, it's never really going to be right. It's got to come from inside. Not good to try to change people. It doesn' work. I've learned that the hard way already...  | |
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| Can you teach an old dog new tricks? Posted: 4/16/2006 9:33:46 PM | Good luck to you! I spent 6 years trying to train somebody.. they sucked at the beginning and only moderately sucked at the end..lol. You're better off finding another person who pleases your interests.
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| Can you teach an old dog new tricks? Posted: 4/17/2006 4:57:06 AM | | put some steak sauce on your body in places you want to be touched and licked, when he is at those places tell him how you like it | |
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| Can you teach an old dog new tricks? Posted: 4/17/2006 6:46:42 AM | I don't think you can teach a person to be a "giver" in bed. I think you can train a "giver" to be a better over by letting him know what works and what doesn't work for you. If he is any good he should be figuring this out by trial and error anyways.
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| Can you teach an old dog new tricks? Posted: 4/17/2006 8:46:51 AM | you tell him what you like, and unless he is a nut, he should do everything in his power to please you. but he can not read minds. | |
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| Can you teach an old dog new tricks? Posted: 4/17/2006 8:49:22 AM |
put some steak sauce on your body in places you want to be touched and licked, when he is at those places tell him how you like it
7times, you really have to put out a book at some point..lol. You're like the working man's Dr. Phil..lol. Too freaking funny..lol
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| Can you teach an old dog new tricks? Posted: 4/17/2006 10:00:42 AM | Communication communication communication!!!!!!
as far as touch...... take his hand.... and put it where u want him to touch him... and apply the type of pressure you want....... let him know how nice it feels....
You don't have to tell him u DON'T like the way he makes love... but you can tellhim u want to spice things up.... and show him what you want/ like......
When it comes to sex... I think most people are willing participants in a lil bit of learnen!!!!! | |
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| Can you teach an old dog new tricks? Posted: 4/17/2006 10:29:57 AM | Just like you teach little boys to pee lol talk to them and show them... they're usually eager to learn fun things, and isn't there better fun than a screaming, wriggling, wet and happy woman in his bed... ? especially if later she tells all her friends what kind of a stallion you were...  | |
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| Can you teach an old dog new tricks? Posted: 4/17/2006 12:23:21 PM | Breathe, just breathe. when you like something, breathe, squirm, smile (if your mouth isnt otherwise busy) its a positive thing, like it and his reward is your pleasure. Teach him by being pleased when you are. | |
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