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Posted: 4/18/2006 11:44:23 AM | | Do you think it is wrong to be with a male 17 years younger than a woman? | |
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Posted: 4/18/2006 11:49:54 AM | | if you love eachother what does it matter | |
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Posted: 4/18/2006 11:51:18 AM | | but you have to really get to know some one before you can fall in love, but is it worth it with such an age difference | |
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Posted: 4/18/2006 11:52:05 AM | Totally depends on the age of the woman....If you are referring to a woman who is say 30....ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.
If the young man is over 18 then I guess it wouldn't matter....although when my son turns 18 I sure as heck don't want him dating someone 17 years older than he is.  Personally I think it wouldn't be a good idea to date someone that much younger, but I wouldn't say it is "wrong." | |
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Posted: 4/18/2006 11:54:07 AM | Yeah, I agree with Carol...........simply depends on the ages...........
30 and 47 works for example .........I think they should at least be 25 years of age as a given number so that have some maturity to handle an older woman. | |
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Posted: 4/18/2006 11:57:57 AM | well...i'm 44 and 30 doesn't work for ME even...why? because i think he and i are in totally different places in our lives, i've had my kids, they've grown up, i am in a different phase or something, i don't mean an OLD phase, just a diff one. i was in a totally different "place" as a person when i was 30... so... but of course there's nothing wrong with it, hey, to each their own, fall in love, have fun, go for it, et cetera...   | |
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kame
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Joined: 4/7/2006
Msg: 8 | |
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Posted: 4/18/2006 11:59:52 AM | | That would make him 17 right?Idont think I would go there if I were you.My kids are 26 & 30 I think I wouldnt feel to comfortable being with someone that age.And he also wouldnt be too mature hes still a kid in my books.But only can decide whats best for yourself | |
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Posted: 4/18/2006 12:01:50 PM | | nope i wouldn't for nothing | |
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Posted: 4/18/2006 12:02:37 PM | | i know people wont approve my parents and brothers would be disguste but i cant help the way i feel | |
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Posted: 4/18/2006 12:03:30 PM | I can honestly say that, if MY son was 17 and wanted to date a 34 year old woman....well, let me just put it this way....I am pretty sure I would make the woman's life a living nightmare. 
Edit: You might not be able to help the way you feel....however, you CAN control your actions. I would avoid the situation if I were you. | |
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Posted: 4/18/2006 12:04:31 PM | All depends on the ages of the people involved. If a 30 yr old is wanting to date a 13 yr old well I think you need to seek help....serious help. But I know for a fact 43 & 33 work quite well together.
I think 17 is a bit much but if you really care for one another, what should it matter. | |
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Posted: 4/18/2006 12:05:11 PM | age has nothing to do with love its what you make of it there is nothing wrong with loveing some one younger than you because im seeing a younger guy and all i can say its great he is all man in all ways.  | |
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Posted: 4/18/2006 12:05:50 PM | | ouch, no way, jose. 17? not even of legal age to enter into a binding contract. and in some states it might even be considered statutory rape (not legal advice, that's something you need to look into on your own); er, um, don't even go there, girlfriend. | |
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Posted: 4/18/2006 12:07:06 PM | | yeah his mother is a bit of a nutter any way dont think she would be to pleased. i did used to be his manager but nother happened whilst we worked together | |
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Posted: 4/18/2006 12:10:14 PM | Nutty or not.....her son dating a 34 year old woman will turn her that way....
I guess I am just having a hard time seeing what any 34 year old woman would have in common with a 17 year old BOY. Heck, I am 29 and 17 is way too immature of an age for me.
Or maybe it is just the mother coming out in me.
JMHO. | |
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Posted: 4/18/2006 12:10:46 PM | | in the uk as long as they are over 16 they are legal | |
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Posted: 4/18/2006 12:12:34 PM | | i dont have children but i dont think i would want my 17 year old with a 34 year old thats what makes it harder | |
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kame
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Joined: 4/7/2006
Msg: 19 | |
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Posted: 4/18/2006 12:14:48 PM | | And just how young is this guy your seeing ?crystal 00 43 | |
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Posted: 4/18/2006 12:15:56 PM | | he is 17, but he looks older than that i dont look as old as i am he makes me laugh | |
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Posted: 4/18/2006 12:21:55 PM | | So what if he looks older than 17.....be fair to the KID and treat him as his age. I am sure you can find a MAN closer to your age who is able to make you laugh. It sounds to me like you know what you should do. | |
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Posted: 4/18/2006 12:22:03 PM | With his age in particular, I wouldn't recommend it. There's nothing wrong with an older woman dating a man younger than herself, but personally I wouldn't recommend anything greater than a 10 year difference. But most importantly he has had no real life experience, and people change as they grow older.
If you realize that a relationship with him would not be a long-term one till death do you part, then enjoy his attention for a time and then move on. But unfortunately, while you are focused on this young fellow, you yourself are possibly missing out on someone who could be there for the long haul. So if you're looking for someone for the long-haul, stick with someone closer to your age...no more than 10 year rule. | |
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Posted: 4/18/2006 12:25:09 PM | oh, sister, there are lots of guys who make us laugh!  | |
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Posted: 4/18/2006 1:49:24 PM | Ye I make um laught then I get sad why no one takes me serious But, whom cares I am me never will change | |
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Posted: 4/19/2006 5:23:04 AM | | the sex is pretty good so i will stick with it and deal with the complications at a later date | |
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