Ab_Ram
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Posted: 4/20/2006 11:22:33 AM | | as you get older does have kinky sex or nasty sex ( anal, oral, orgy, or what ever you into ) mean more in a relationship or less | |
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Posted: 4/20/2006 12:05:41 PM | Ab,
I don't believe that there is such a thing as kinky or nasty sex, as long as both partners are consenting. Any sex involves a comfort level with your partner. I do believe that as we mature, we become more comfortable with our sexuality. If you are in a trusting relationship, you are more inclined to be adventurous and try new things. Some things work well and you add them to your list of activities. Others make you wonder what all the hype is about and you move on.
The most important thing is to not judge people for their proclivities. What works for someone else, might not for you.
Thank you very much, I will be taking appointments today after five. The line starts at the rear (couldn't help myself).  | |
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Posted: 4/20/2006 12:07:12 PM | They do those things in Claresholm? I thought the only thing people did in Claresholm was farm and sleep! Well, I never.....  | |
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Posted: 4/20/2006 1:23:58 PM | hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
its your relationship .... so you should answer the question. | |
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Posted: 4/20/2006 1:27:46 PM | | Ab_ram, Your in Canada and wearing a Florida shirt? Whats up with that? | |
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Ab_Ram
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Posted: 4/20/2006 2:10:42 PM | | does that have anything to do with the post ??? if ya want to know i was in fl and bought the shirt its just i was wearing that day of the picture | |
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Ab_Ram
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Posted: 4/20/2006 2:20:12 PM | geeees i,m i get knocked around here do you think all people live outside a city are hicks
were not running around in the country banging sheep, family members  | |
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Posted: 4/21/2006 7:31:42 AM | | ^^^ now that would be kinky and nasty | |
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Posted: 4/21/2006 10:03:19 AM | | I don't think it has to do with getting older. I enjoy bondage and have always preferred it with someone I'm in a relationship with because you already have a level of trust with that individual. Besides, the more you explore your sexuality with your partner the more you understand what it is they are looking for and how you can fulfill that for them. Kind of hard to do when you're not in a relationship with someone who cares about your safety, feelings and motivations. | |
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Ab_Ram
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Posted: 4/21/2006 10:17:35 AM | must say well said guess i need to think outside of the box  | |
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Posted: 5/12/2006 8:22:49 PM |
I don't believe that there is such a thing as kinky or nasty sex, as long as both partners are consenting.
Sex Rules!! It's so much better now, it's not just an act, it's an art, adventure & a "whole body" thing now. | |
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Posted: 5/12/2006 8:28:31 PM | Shell your digging these posts out of the archive
Am wondering if the cowboy has any experiences he would like to talk about and we can give him some feedback  | |
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Posted: 5/12/2006 9:44:24 PM | | Yeah LIPSTICK. lol. Need some new threads to post to. We don't seem to have many new ones here very often, so I'm looking to the past posts. | |
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Posted: 5/13/2006 12:21:13 AM | | As long as you're in a good, trusting, respectful relationship - why not enjoy your kink? | |
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Posted: 5/13/2006 12:31:38 AM | I think its strange to think about what you use to think was kinky or 'nasty' in your 20's to what you might think would be strange for you today The definition of kinky certainly narrows down some | |
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Posted: 5/13/2006 1:14:00 AM |
as you get older does have kinky sex or nasty sex ( anal, oral, orgy, or what ever you into ) mean more in a relationship or less
I think it's likely to become more important to experiment with sex as you get older. At least in my case it is. I'm easliy bored with the regular same ol' same ol', and like to mix things up a little (or a lot) to keep my interest piqued, as well as that of my partner(s). And I've long been all about kinky sex anyway
~ Debbie | |
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Ab_Ram
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Posted: 5/13/2006 1:47:29 PM | | ^^^^ one of a few i,m guessin | |
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Posted: 5/13/2006 1:55:44 PM | | So, are you saying you're into kinky, nasty sex or do you find it disgusting? | |
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Posted: 5/13/2006 1:59:39 PM | | It's becoming more important for me to have kinky sex but only because of nostalgia. I also like listening to 70's music again now, and may even buy an album of collected hits, which I guess brings us full circle. Once you have seen people have every kind of sex there is, and some of those people were yourself, kinky loses its erotic meaning and becomes a shibboleth for open mindedness. | |
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Ab_Ram
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Posted: 5/13/2006 5:36:52 PM | | Me ya guess i,m into somethings depends on my partner at that time | |
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Posted: 5/13/2006 7:14:16 PM | One person's kink would be another's norm, your "I can't believe you'd do that!", his "Ohhhh, now that sound's interesting." and hers "Ewwwwww, that's the nastiest thing I've ever heard of." It all boils down to, how open-minded or adventurous you are.
Disclaimer: All pronouns were used only to keep the "another's" to a minimum. They refer to no specific person | |
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Posted: 5/14/2006 5:10:32 AM | I say: BRING ON THE BEDROOM (or wherever) EXCITEMENT!!
There's no holding back with two consenting adults. | |
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Posted: 5/14/2006 5:58:15 AM | Ab ;
One of the best summers of my life was spent on a farm. I'm not shy to admit it..I like sheep and even today I wear wool 'jammies' to bed. | |
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Posted: 5/14/2006 6:04:57 AM | Debbie;
If I meet a woman who allows her two pets to sleep on the bed and she invites me to stay the night..would I be able to tell my buddies I had group sex? | |
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Posted: 6/3/2006 10:38:05 PM | Wow, I sure agree with you on that statement...
The trouble often begins when one partner would like to try new things and the other one thinks things are better left as they are...
Why do these two people always get together? It seems like this is the one reason that as we get a little older and start to fantasize about trying new things that one has heard, seen or thought about, there is no outlet for this and either one stays unhappy, unfulfilled or just accepts things as they are. This site and a few others will at least provide a service that will enable many of us to explore a kinkier side of life and hopefully, make some friends at the same time...No harm, just a great time and a fullfilling life...what could be wrong with that? | |
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