| No Love Posted: 2/13/2005 1:45:55 PM | | I am amazed to find that men want to find love BUT only if the wrapping on the outside is sexy slim and trim model type. Men have really lost the meaning of love. | |
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| No Love Posted: 2/14/2005 10:52:10 AM | | well that might be true starmagic,but it works for both men and women.Women do the same they look at the picture and if they like what they see then they might read your email.But just remember starmagic,that it is there lose,cause its the same for me,the girls who over look me are missing out on one hell a guy. | |
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| No Love Posted: 2/14/2005 11:40:38 AM | | its true. Some people look at the outside and Either say f*** that or go for it. it's not really right but if they do that it's their fault. Some pretty ugly people can be the smartest and funnest people to be around. On the other hand You can find some pretty good lookin people can be snobs. I'm not sayin all of them are like that but some are. | |
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| No Love Posted: 2/14/2005 12:58:45 PM | It's not like that for everyone, though. And who in their right mind wants someone that shallow anyway?
For me...the first thing I look at is their age...then what they have to say about themselves. I met my ex online. It was a beautiful, loving relationship. It can happen. Have faith and keep looking.
And before anyone asks...Yes my relationship was beautiful. It lasted 5 years. Even the happiest of couples can't work out if they lose communication. It wasn't an ugly break up and we ARE friends.
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| No Love Posted: 2/14/2005 1:35:49 PM | For people to chose to talk to someone on the sole basis of looks, is not only shallow, but makes alot of sense. I know that didn't make much sense. When you look at someone to do get a vibe, if you want to admit it or not. You attracted to certain "looks", thats scientifically proven. Just some people are only attracted to the so called "model looks". Its all part of the great chemistry of attraction. Just try and meet as many different people as you can to improve your odds of finding someone compatiable. -Chris | |
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| No Love Posted: 2/14/2005 2:44:27 PM | I am not the thin, gorgeous, model type for sure. BUT I have had TONZ of luck on this site and have met some really wonderful people. Of course you need to have some kind of attraction to the person you plan on getting to know, it is not fair to say ANY of us do not care about looks. I say keep trying and if you are not getting the response you want, check your profile. Maybe you could get into more detail on who you are or what you are looking for. I changed my profile about a month ago and it really helped. Good luck girl! :) | |
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| No Love Posted: 2/14/2005 5:52:19 PM | | attraction is a big thing, though alot of ppl dont post their real pics nowadays but when i get a message i do go and look at their profile, i will talk to anyone cause looks arent that important b/c once you talk to someone you may not find them very good looking but for other reasons be attracted to them, only time i dont or am put off is if they are from another country n dont know english very well most tend to be very pushy or if they are just looking for a cam whore cause that aint me, but i will send someone a message back and even have a few ppl on my msn who i am not really attracted to physically but are great people which makes them stand out more | |
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| No Love Posted: 2/14/2005 5:56:56 PM | | Yep | |
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| No Love Posted: 2/14/2005 10:04:55 PM | | Hoi its me balampaki from nepal.have love withme if u know yhe meaning of love. | |
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| No Love Posted: 2/15/2005 12:08:46 AM | "I am amazed to find that men want to find love BUT only if the wrapping on the outside is sexy slim and trim model type. Men have really lost the meaning of love."
I don't know about all of that. Sure physical attraction is important to most people, but people have diffrent tastes. Some like skinny, some like big, some like tall or short...Diffrent people are into diffrent things. If i had an arm growing out of my forehead i bet i can find a big group of people(especially on the net) that happens to find that sexy. You just got to look for the right kind of people in the right places. | |
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| No Love Posted: 2/15/2005 12:17:35 AM | | good answer | |
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| No Love Posted: 2/15/2005 12:18:41 AM | | right on product! I have really enjoyed reading this section of fish tanite on v day no less LOL! | |
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| No Love Posted: 2/15/2005 12:36:04 AM | I agree with you on that Product as well! I have a hard time finding a woman because I hear the same bull sh*t lines every time I approach a woman... "Are you a player" or "how many girls do you say that to" or "you could have any woman here why are you talking to me" and I get sick and tired of hearing that!!!! If a woman would only give me a chance I would prove to her that I am really an honest down to earth person that would treat her with respect. Looks arent everything to me.... But someone that is willing to get to know the real me is priceless!!!! Well im off my soap box for now HAPPY VALENTINES DAY TO EVERYONE!!!
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| No Love Posted: 2/15/2005 12:44:41 AM | | my hunny loves me and i'm a big fat ass. and i met him here. | |
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| No Love Posted: 2/15/2005 12:56:02 AM | | I feel the same why about some of the women I have met here, Seems like everyone wants good looks or money, but there are some that value the truth of someone rather then the physical. Although I have yet to find them. | |
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| No Love Posted: 2/15/2005 12:56:48 AM | | wHY DO U SAY THAT MR.?I THINK YOU'RE LIKE THAT RIGHT?WELL ITS NOT UNFAIR TO US WOMEN BECAUSE A WOMAN LIKE ME IS NOT THAt EASY TO CAPTURED THAT KIND OF MAN AND I WILL ASSURE EVERYTIME I FACE AND MET A MAN I SHOULD SET TO IT THAT I SAY A RIGHT WORD WD A RIGHT DIRECTION IN YOUR CONVERSATION IN WHICH ME AND THAT MAN WILL RESPECT EACH OTHER FAIRLY... | |
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| No Love Posted: 2/15/2005 1:18:35 AM | | I don't see too many women going after the "ugly" guy, unless he has money. Hell, women don't even go after the "good" guys. | |
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| No Love Posted: 2/15/2005 2:49:17 AM | well my man is not what most would consider attractive and makes almost no money as a pastor. But his heart and soul make him gorgeous and special and money is irrelevant as long as oyu are happy and can afford the basics in life.
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| No Love Posted: 2/15/2005 9:23:32 AM | why do guys like skinny girls cause you have to like what your getting in bed with or whats the point of having sex at all. its all about evolution. any most fat chicks I know not all of them. are poor have kids, no education and they are dirty so why would I want anything to do with that. even if she tried to have sex with me I couldn't get hard so there is your answer. fat chicks make me impotent. | |
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| No Love Posted: 2/15/2005 9:59:49 AM | | Thats totaly wrong........theres nothing hotter than a "real" girl...with all her "perfect imperfections"......Now...ask yourself this.....do you buy a bottle of beer for the cool bottle...or for whats waiting for you inside?? Sure....looks are a deffinate plus...if all youre looking for is a quick booty call......but...if youre looking for real love.....the "imperfect girl" wins....hands down in my book!!! | |
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| No Love Posted: 2/15/2005 11:10:15 AM | | well you know the saying one mans nightmare is anthor mans dream.I do believe that looks matter,as long as I find her attactive then I really don't care what anyone else thinks.but it should not only be looks or even worse just wealth.....you know gold diggers. | |
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| No Love Posted: 2/15/2005 10:16:26 PM | Well...If everyone says that looks doesn't matters, that's a lie...1st impression is important..if someone appear to b not that presentable...sure the other will say no...Love is blind...i believe that if i get to knw a guy well enough...n knw that he'll loe me for every reason..And i'd love him for who he is n not wat he is...
OK...let say...2 guys propose on the same time...u duno them well...1 is as good looking as Brad Pitt...but the others will b an average Joe...so??who will u pay more attention to??
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| No Love Posted: 2/15/2005 11:02:50 PM | ONLY thing this site has is a banana                | |
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| No Love Posted: 2/16/2005 9:37:20 AM | Love is some thing which cannot be defined accurately its meaning changes from person to person , sex is somewhat a part of love but love is beyond it  | |
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| No Love Posted: 2/16/2005 10:59:34 AM | Love is a feeling, ehsash..............actually i wonder how it will be when u really get a true one..!!..
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