| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/27/2006 11:49:31 AM | | Ok now that I have posted a thread on what men want, and most of the replies where somewhere in the sex category then what about casual sex. Is it wrong for 2 consenting adults to have casual sex, what if neither one of them want to really date anyone, what if life on your own is just to damn good. We all have needs and I do know that it is the electronic age, but come on people, sometimes there is nothing better then some good sex, with someone that is not expecting you to make breakfast for them in the morning. This has nothing to do with not respecting yourself, and of course you must be careful. But what do you think about the topic. I say it's all good as long as you ar both on the same level and understand that it is just sex. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/27/2006 12:00:58 PM | | i don't think there's anything wrong with it... there's a time when ya need to have sex and if you have a f**k friend all the power to ya. we're humans and it's a natural thing. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/27/2006 12:02:23 PM | Ugh...I don't want casual sex....it's a step down from having a sex buddy in my mind, however, to each their own. If two consenting adults can handle having casual sex...more power to them. Me? I'll just continue to take care of myself until I find someone I have enough feelings for to share myself with them. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/27/2006 12:12:01 PM | | i for one can't do it. maybe it sounds strange coming from a guy but unless i feel something for the person i won't have sex. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/27/2006 12:15:14 PM | | I dont think that sound strange at all. Of course I would have to be attracted to the person that goes without say. But at this point in my life I am not 100 percent sure I want to date anyone, I have been seperated for almost a year right now, and for reasons out of my control it is just not a great time to date, but I would like some fun and pleassure in my life. | |
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Qt30
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Joined: 3/30/2006
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/27/2006 12:28:31 PM | To each their own. I prefer NOT to be someone's side dish. Those of us who aren't into the casual thing suffer all the more. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/27/2006 12:32:19 PM | | i don't see it as suffering, its a choice i make and its a choice i can live with. YES it sucks not being able to go out and be a ho, but at least i'm doing it how i want to | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/27/2006 12:33:47 PM | I would say that I generally agree with the OP, however, after some personal experience with the topic, I am not one of those people that can do it. Honestly, I wish I could  but I can't. | |
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Qt30
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Joined: 3/30/2006
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/27/2006 12:38:54 PM | | I chose the wrong word (suffer) but Erractic you're right with the ho thing. I think it's also the lack of affection/cuddles some miss & turn it into sex? | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/27/2006 12:50:32 PM | | I'v been in one before its was fun but i was not safe about it. the one that i was with was with 3 other parters. i had to see the doc. becarefull and allways be honest and safe. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/27/2006 1:21:35 PM | It's better than paying for it... at least you know the person
Ok I was kidding.
For some it works for others it doesn't. I guess it all depends on what it is you want and if it's a mutual thing. Been there, done that.... not into going that route again thank you. Emotions get in the way and things complicated. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/27/2006 1:23:03 PM | I am never casual about sex. I always have anxiety over performance. :-P
Funny, but I have never had sex with anyone that I havent known for at least some period of time, and that is much longer then a week. So no bar pickups. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/27/2006 1:25:04 PM | I am thinking that if I go much longer without it, then I will be a whole lot more open to something casual!!!  | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/27/2006 1:50:43 PM | I think there is a lot to be said about building a relationship before jumping in bed with someone. I don’t think my level of respect for a man is the same if he is willing to or have had a one-night stand. Call it morals, call it values…call it religious beliefs. Whatever you want to call it; it still boils down to not giving yourself enough credit or valuing your own self worth to give up very important moments like that to just any man or women.
With that said, sex is great but it takes time to be sexually compatible with anyone with each time getting better as you figure out what you both like…and don’t like. One-night stands usually end up with one person scratching their head saying,”What was that and what the hell was I thinking?” as the dust settles from feet hitting the floor on the way to the door! Call this girl old fashioned….. Intimacy is one of the most valued moments in life. | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/27/2006 1:53:51 PM | MSG 13
qt30
I am curioui If you are not into casual then how would you suffer if I was Not that I am. That statement just didn't ring true with me . Can you explain it Thanks | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/27/2006 7:53:50 PM | it is not wrong.......
who really does not want to date anyone though?
whose life is too damn good on it's own?
yes we all can be comfortable on our own, but too damn good? get real!
yes this is the electronic age and I prefer electronics to casual..there has to be some feeling behind it......
as for breakfast? who says I have to make it or he has to? thats what diner's are for!
the last thing I will say......who is EVER on the same level???????????? think about it....
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/27/2006 8:02:18 PM | | Trust me, I am way happier on my own right now, just got out of a bad marriage so. I agree on the levels part, who really is. But as long as both parties agree that it's just sex, the chance you take I guess if you get hurt that is. All I know is that right now I could not do the dating thing, just not ready, board with electrontics, so whats next, just a thought | |
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| What's your take on casual sex
Posted: 4/27/2006 8:06:46 PM | | Its a personal choice and sometimes it depends on whats going on in your life at that time. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. My personal choice at this time is not to have casual sex. I'm dating a fishie and I prefer to focus on a relationship at this time. | |
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