| Nevada forum rules
Posted: 2/14/2005 10:12:52 AM | This forum is for here for singles to talk about local events, happenings etc. You can also use this forum to plan local get togethers.
This forum is NOT FOR.
Threads such as " I am in town for the weekend looking for sex" etc
NO THREADS THAT DRAW ATTENTION TO YOURSELF ARE ALLOWED.
Threads like this will result in your thread being deleted as well as your account. Each part of this site has a purpose, if you want to message a lot of people and talk to others use the IM and message functions of this site. | |
|
| Nevada forum rules
Posted: 2/14/2005 5:13:30 PM | WHAT ARE THE PRO'S AND CON'S OF DATING IN LASVEGAS ?? What have been your dating experinces in Vegas been like ? good,bad and ugly. | |
|
| Nevada forum rules
Posted: 2/14/2005 11:28:34 PM | | Women here are a little money hungry. Everyone is, but some of them, $ is all they care about. I am not poor, but finding someone that you could live your life with is a little hard to find here.I have been here for about 16 years. | |
|
| Nevada forum rules
Posted: 2/15/2005 1:44:16 AM | | Maybe you're searching in the wrong places. I wouldn't look for anything more than a 1 night stand at a club, bar or casino. I know a lot of girls who would rather stay home at night than go party on someone elses tab. | |
|
| Nevada forum rules
Posted: 2/20/2005 1:30:14 PM | Finest...now here's a guy who knows Vegas! You are absolutely right...it's the "where" a person goes to meet women as well as women to meet men. Women that want to have something in life (and I don't mean materialistically) don't always have the need to be out and can be quite happy at home spending their own tab!  | |
|
| Nevada forum rules
Posted: 3/5/2005 8:59:26 PM | | I agree, you aren't looking for a REAL girl who's gonna be around for awhile if you are looking in a bar or club. Sure it happens sometimes, but there are plenty of girls who are single, beautiful and fun, that you won't find at your local bar. I know I go out with my friends every once in awhile, but usually don't even try looking for a guy, because I know better. I stay in most nights, do the cooking dinner, working out, and watchin' a movie thing with my baby niece, my sister, or a gf. Of course if you WANT the one night stand then go for it, I'm sure it's out here too. | |
|
| Nevada forum rules
Posted: 3/7/2005 7:33:37 PM | I agree, But if they are home, how do you meet them?
That is why I am trying this site!!!!
All you girls that are staying home, read my profile and drop me aline.
I am a great cook, I'll cook and you bring the movie. LOL | |
|
| Nevada forum rules
Posted: 3/10/2005 8:04:12 PM | Yes i agree ........WOW !!! Vegas is an orginal city that glamours gambling and sex. It really is a community at tug of war with it's self . I mean dating blows I mean I've meet some fine ladies some of the best are from mexico So props to the latin ladies who give us decent gringos a chance. People moving here from ca to get away from the high rent and everything else TRYING to raise families in sin city i feel for you.Hey they always talk up about people coming here to live but I sure alot leave also.This sure is an up side down city. It's a big city with a small town attitude. Alot of flacky people come to vegas looking for the american dream but vegas bites 'em in the ass also. Fear in lothing in LasVegas ??? I hope NOT for me !!!not to many years more. HEY YOU MAKE THE BEST OF WHERE EVER YOU ARE. i'M OK YOUR OK ...SO LET THE DATING BEGIN IN THIS UP SIDE DOWN TOWN WE CALL VEGAS       HAVE FUN DATING AND ALWAYS SAFE SEX | |
|
| Nevada forum rules
Posted: 3/26/2005 3:24:53 PM | Hey all,I'm new to this,but i have to disagree with virgo.It seems the good women are here but oversexed by his Latin counterparts.I have met many white(caucasian)women who hate the fact that Vegas is now 60% Mexican.As a white man,I do agree that the latinas are very attractive,but whatever.I work with the public and most attractive (and some horrid) women complain to me that the Mexicans seem to stalk them.I agree also that Vegas is the only city in America that shows small town love with big city convenience,but the rent is getting higher and cali people are getting shocked.Thanks for reading my ramble.
ps-if you hear a scraping noise,it's an old hooker's nipple rings dragging | |
|
| Nevada forum rules
Posted: 4/5/2005 1:58:08 AM | I think dating in this town stinks!
I have done the clubbing thing in my early 20's. It's fun for a night out with the girls or friends but it's not someplace you go to meet a "nice guy".
I'm really sick of the emails or IM's from people asking if I want to go to a swing party, be part of their 3some, or have no strings sex. Not all women in the greater Vegas area are wanting that. Besides, it's everywhere, if I wanted it I know how to find it. Don't get me wrong, I do enjoy sex, but does one of the first three questions have to be sex related? ;)
On the plus side, I know I'm not alone in the quest for a 'normal' (non-sex industry) dating scene. So I have faith that there are good men out there. Just where are ya hiding???
:)
Amy | |
|
| Nevada forum rules
Posted: 6/16/2005 10:30:59 AM | I have been through the dating scene twice before in Las Vegas.  Bad News! 
I find it's difficult to find the real "honest" women in this town.  The bars are out - although everyone appears to be looking for the same thing. 
I tried Match.com but that didn't work. I keep getting updates on women that match but it appears the same ones come back up as new matches every two weeks. Most like to meet for a dinner out  , like a show on the strip , ready to travel or drinks  . That should tell you something.
I met my last wife at a Las Vegas Singles club free lecture (safe place to meet women I thought). Things clicked and I invited her to lunch to get to know her better. I asked her my routine compatability questions about how many prior marriages she had, her educational background and degrees, religious background, did she own her own home, etc. It turned out she lied to me from day-one. That forever marriage only lasted 5 years, just until she got her last daughter married $$,$$$.
I am out there looking - I'm walking around Target, Walmart, Sam's Club, I-Hop, Einstein's Bagels, Smiths, Albertsons, Baja Fresh, Borders, Best Buy, Home Depot, Lowes, Dillards, a church group every week and at UNLV.
Like Danny Glover say's in the movies, I'm getting to old for this shit.
I came here looking for some answers. So gals - give us good guys some hints.
Where are all the good looking single girls hiding? Girls, you got to get out of the house.
How can I meet you  if your sitting at home and - who can you trust?  | |
|
| FEAR AND DATING IN LASVEGAS
Posted: 8/4/2005 1:01:10 PM | OR HOW I LEARNED TO STOP WORRYING AND LOVE LASVEGAS..............WHY DO MOST SINGLE LADIES IN THIS TOWN HAVE FREAKIN KIDS ???? EVEN WHEN I GO TO THE LOCAL HANGOUTS EITHER SHE'S A GOLD DIGGING FLAKE OR SHE HAS KIDS OR BOTH . WHAT UP WITH THIS CITY ??? I REALLY THINK IT SHOULD BE SAID AND DONE THAT  ONCE IN VEGAS DO AS THE LOCALS DO SMOKE SOME METH GET REAL SKINNY POOH AND READ FEAR AND LOATHING IN LASVEGAS AT LEAST ONE. WHY NOT RUB SHOULDERS WITH ALL THE RICH WANNA BE'S LIVING IN SUMMERLIN TRYING SO HARD TO MAKE THIS A COMMUNITY .OR GET REAL WHITE TRASHY AND GO RIDE THE SPIN AND BARF AT CIRCUS CIRCUS. AS THE ORIGIN GOES THE OWNER OF THE CASINO WANTED TO RUN AWAY AND JOIN THE CIRCUS SO WHEN HE GREW UP HE BUILT A CASINO CALLED CIRCUS CIRCUS WOW WHEN I GROW UP I GOING TO BUILD MY OWN THEM PARK AND CALL IT LEAVING LASVEGAS. BUY THE TICKET AND RIDE THE RIDE THE TURDOPILIS VEGAS OH F8CK IT I LUV THIS CITY JUST SAY NO TO DRUGS AND FLAKY DISCO CHICS | |
|
| FEAR AND DATING IN LASVEGAS
Posted: 8/4/2005 1:04:58 PM | LET LOVE RULE ........STAY POSITIVE AND YES I WILL STILL HAVE SEX WITH WEMON WHO HAVE KIDS BEST DATING WISHES TO YOU ALL SKINNY POOH.  | |
|
| sighs
Posted: 8/26/2005 4:39:29 PM | i see a few examples here of why dating in vegas CAN suck...
jeez, just reminds me that some people need a few clues on getting real,
maybe starting with themselves would help.
good luck and happy fishing to all, may we find that which we seek! | |
|
| looking for mr right someday
Posted: 6/25/2006 5:23:24 PM | | you said it all........ it is very hard to meet someone with intergrity in vegas, i know all you men out there say your looking for a ltr but are you really???????? | |
|
| looking for mr right someday
Posted: 6/25/2006 8:13:55 PM | | i found my local great guy, here on PoF, now we're living together; so it CAN and DOES happen, people; good luck to all the sincere fish looking for a special someone to share their lives with! | |
|
| looking for mr right someday
Posted: 9/28/2006 7:32:08 PM | i see a few examples here of why dating in vegas CAN suck...
jeez, just reminds me that some people need a few clues on getting real,
maybe starting with themselves would help.
good luck and happy fishing to all, may we find that which we seek! wow. like the pot, kettle, black...
like looking in the mirror, just over a year ago and at summer's beginning, too!
| |
|
| looking for mr right someday
Posted: 10/26/2006 12:56:49 AM | Howdy All y'all from Las Vegas
Well, there's ONE MORE option on finding real ladies and gents here in Las Vegas. I go to a dance class almost every sunday night. It is awesome and I get to meet and greet ladies from 18 to 80 (most in the 40 to 60 range) for a few minutes as they rotate to me during the lesson. Then during the "free dance" periods I choose who I like, ask her to dance and go from there. I have met literally hundreds of women that way. Some of them stay around for a few lessons, some don't. I like to dance, (and am told by those ladies I dance with I do it well), and am told women generally like a man who dances. And for the ladies, it is a SAFE place for you to meet guys, so some of my lady friends tell me (- of course as with anywhere you will meet the odd crank or wierdo [male OR female] but the instructor and the regular attendees [of which I am one] monitor for that and usually deal with them and ask them to leave - so I believe it is way far safer than going to a Bar or Lounge )
BTW these lessons are free. The instructors, Mark and Cheryl, do not make a dime by doing this. They met on the dance floor and want to pass on the experience. They do ask for donations to pay for incidentals like room rent and nametags and whatnot, and the rest is donated to local battered womens shelters. I am not the instructor. I go every sunday night I am able (most Sunday nights) and get my "endorphin high", so I am not promoting it because I get anything from promoting this, outside of meeting more new ladies, that is. If you think you have two left feet, that's OK, come anyway. I couldn't do this kind of dance before I started with DanceGig.com on Sunday nights. As Mark, the instructor says, the main thing is not learning to dance, the main thing is that we're having fun! And I couldn't get the basic step at first, but some sweet "angels" took me under their wings and danced with me and drilled the basic step until I got it. Now I do the same with the new ladies who are having trouble getting the basic step. Usually it doesn't take long. (It took a bit longer with me but I definitely got it [ the "basic step" that is -- what were YOU thinking? LoL] eventually.
So google DanceGig.com for a website with all the details, and hope to see you on the dance floor!
Ta Ta For Now
~James~
By all means, introduce yourself to me when you come (guy or gal). My name tag will have a little fish in the lower right corner for PoF
[as an aside to Perfect rose in post #14, I can't speak for anyone other than myself, but yes I DO want a LTR! I have thought about having casual "intimate encounters" or one night stands, but on reflection it wouldn't really do it for me -- it wouldn't satisfy me. So, I do want an LTR after getting to know that lady (as a friend) well first.] | |
|
| looking for mr right someday
Posted: 7/5/2007 7:13:43 PM | Some of us men are! We've been there and done that and really don't want any more drama... I personally don't play games. If I say something I truly mean it until proven wrong. And then I will apologize if otherwise: And I have been known to put my foot in my mouth more that once. So why can't anyone else! | |
|
| Nevada forum rules
Posted: 9/26/2007 12:24:57 PM | Engineer Lou,
You have been looking for love in all the wrong places....
you did not mention two places I go to.....Kmart....Sears.....
Now that's where you will find me!!!
Good women don't attend the strip or bars, hotels, or clubs..
They are at Starbucks......Barnes & Nobles......movies.....dinner....
the shopping malls.......the mountains......walking or jogging on the side streets...serving others....taking care of their children....attending PTA.....working.....and some are attending church........
When you can trust yourself, then you can trust me and other women!!!
SecureHeart
| |
|
| Nevada forum rules
Posted: 9/26/2007 12:28:35 PM | Sorry I drew attention to myself. And forumites....
I am new so just learning the rules.
I look forward to your posts and getting to know you.
Secure Heart  | |
|
| Nevada forum rules
Posted: 7/20/2008 1:48:52 PM | i been in Las Vegas just under 29 years. Most women in this town are full of it. I joined meetup to get away from the BS i hear daily from females in this city. you must make this much, drive this,live in that, look like this , not have those. And people ask why i don't date the locals. i am better off dating females who are in town for the weekend who go home to their hubbys Monday.
I am kevin and i approve this message. | |
|
| Nevada forum rules
Posted: 7/25/2008 1:18:03 PM | I don't know what to say to you all other than don't let the downfalls in life make you bitter. My son reminds me often when I start to loose my focus that I am too close to the door & I need to step back and look at the whole picture. When something is not going right, focus on something else that is right. If nothing is going right (believe me I have been there) Look up at the clouds and dream.
First, PoF can not be the only avenue.
Do what interests you and then you will find what your looking for. I do know it is hard. For example, I was a fitness instructor at 17 & an honor student. I had to stop the fitness when I had kids cause there was no one to watch the babies. Then my ex left me pregnant & there really wasn't time or anyone to watch the babies ~ not to mention $$. But now my blonde beauty is 12 & I can go & believe me I go because I have needed this outlet again. It makes me happy. Unfortunately, I would love to date someone there - but I like going to this fitness center so I have made the rule not to date anyone because it would stumble me if the relationship did not work. Just the same reason I do not date at work - actually not even slightly attracted to any one at work - so this one is easy.
Try not to let the "singles scene" make you bitter. I know it is hard - this is why I hike, explore & work out a lot - helps my frustration when my frustration is so high I can't focus on school. I try to take the dating thing light & try not to get wound up in the committment drama. Committment doesnt happen over night or even next year. From what I see you look up one day and that nice fella that has always been by your side is still there years later ~ through the thick & thin of it all. Hopefully in my future I will see some other male standing there besides my son, my three beautiful daughters & my totally loving mother. But if not, I have by my side exactly what I need - true love in my family.
By the way SBond was a really wonderful one time date. I am sorry but because he didn't have any children & I listend closely to him at dinner when he talked about his dreams..... I thought he should have more of an opportunity to find someone who wants to have more children for I am done. | |
|
| Nevada forum rules
Posted: 8/8/2008 2:59:32 PM | Well it pretty much sounds like Vegas sucks!
Can we hear from the Reno delegation: "Yeah, it sucks"
Isn't there anyone from Reno who can add something positive in here? | |
|
Home
login 
