| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 5/2/2006 10:30:36 PM | As a female, I have found alot of the emails I get are pretty rude and fairly offensive. Guys wanting to know tit size, fav positions, grooming down there, and wanting to hook up for a one nighter. Talking to other women, I know I'm not alone. I'm just wondering what would happen if the shoe was on the other foot, and we asked about size and the rest of it. I'm just wondering how would you react?  | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 5/2/2006 10:41:34 PM | never had a crude or rude one , but have had some st8 to the point .
personally , id have a laugh - not much really bothers me
the worst emails ive had , some chick from a dating site , would cc me junk mail , like 4 times a day , stupid chain mail , old jokes i heard when i was in school and such , the offensive thing about it all was the non personal touch - if it was addressed to me , i might have read them . but as a cc , cant be bothered - time waster !
edited : pervious statement came out wrong , and cant think of how i want to say it | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 5/2/2006 10:43:37 PM | depending on the mood im in is to how i will react...
i had one not long ago asked where i lived.... i replied... obviously you havent read my profile then you would know where i live....
one today asked me what i thought of him... so read the profile... had nothing to comment so i just deleted.....
i have flung it back on them a few times... and i get abused back for asking such Q's...lol...
i only reply to a selected few people.... if i feel they deserve it... but 95% of the unwanted contact i just delete.... | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 5/2/2006 10:52:59 PM | | Yeh, I agree, depends how my patience is at the time. I have told them to read my profile, then asked them if they really thought they would get what they are asking from me...I've also asked if they actually get women responding and meeting up with them with the way they talk...and the answer was yes...hmm. But that's a good idea MC...maybe next time when I'm hit with those questions I'll ask them something like that back (although it wouldn't surprise me if they responded happily)...I would delete them straight away but I'm just curious as to why they would talk to someone like that when I clearly have written in my profile that "I have high morals when it comes to relationships", it just seems so stupid. | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 5/2/2006 11:00:38 PM | I imd, a woman to say hello stated my marital status and that i was looking for friends,and she sent back ,go fick your wife and leave me alone.I was not rude i was upfront and still got that responce.Thankyou so much for that your such a lady.I only write to females if something in there prof interests me and i would never even dream of asking personal questions.I guess thats why i have made so many wonderfull female friends on pof.  | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 5/2/2006 11:08:14 PM | I message any women unless they say that they dont want to speak with married people.
I have been told not to write back and i accept it.Mostly only women looking for email/friends.Also it is not just a dating site even if it is called one many here are only interested in forums.Ta for askin dreamcatcher. | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 5/2/2006 11:12:36 PM | l dont have that problem ,but if l did and wanted a quick bang it might interest me
but to be honest just delete them and block them
they are just testing the waters to see how far they can get
lm sure nearly every woman has copped it
and no lm not looking for a quick bang  | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 5/2/2006 11:19:34 PM | | I had started with saying i recieved a hurtfull mesage.BUT anyway thats life online and life if you put yourself out there youll cop some shit.Be strong and block there a***s. | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 5/2/2006 11:35:30 PM | nah but ceral... I have never meet a girl that was ever impressed but this sort of carry on. Its mostly desperados venting their sexual frustration, knowing they will never get a reply but secretly hoping you'd be so utterly turned on you'll reply. ever thought of playing with them? Agreeing, setting up a meet and then tell them they went to the wrong place and missed out bahahahaha.  | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 5/3/2006 12:00:12 AM | I had one (amongst a few) it said something like I think you are H*T and he wanted to do something with my ears....
I just replied "Yes I know and I know you do" ... not a peep back, I think it floored him that I had not reacted with indignation .. | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 5/3/2006 12:41:05 AM | Oh but you are hot, you know it and i know it too, I wanna touch you in all your special places, reow... I know you want me to, too. I know you know i do, i know you know i know you know and now everybody knows i know you know.
ya know :P
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 5/3/2006 1:18:26 AM | hmmm....think the point was totally missed, you're right dreamcatcher. I do delete and block them, by the way, I was just wondering if guys would be offended by messages like how big is your c**k? or do you wax? or whats your fav position? instead a normal introduction message like 'Hi, I like your profile and believe we have a few things in common. check out mine and let me know what you think'. what would you do if you got an introduction message that crude? How would you react? and yes, this is directed at the 20 something tools, you know who you are.... | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 5/3/2006 1:25:05 AM | bottom line is, once all that carry on takes place, you soon know what kind of person your dealing with! best to find out via messege than in real life!
from a blokes perspective, i've never really had one go the "full monty" {damn!} as yet, but i've been in a few "fresh" type situations. one was in the first minute of msn! too much too soon girl, sorry.
i think that if she's going to get like that with me, is she like that with other blokes as well?
a blokes gotta think of his health right?
hope this all comes across ok.
cheers. | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 5/3/2006 1:40:06 AM | | I get you vandy, had that problem too. chatted to who I thought was a nice guy for a couple weeks, exchanged msn addy's and the first thing he says on msn is 'what are you wearing?' I said huh? and it went seriously downhill from there. don't think I've ever blocked and deleted anyone faster! | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 5/3/2006 1:55:48 AM | on my last answer l did sort of miss the point
if a woman asked me questions about the size and all that in a message ,and l didnt know her
delete and block that does nothing for me
theres plenty of guys who would like that so go to them
lm after a potential relationship ..not a dirty date | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 5/3/2006 5:03:22 AM | Crude mail I would possibly react favourably to. 
Offensive mail I would delete without dwelling on it, but I am hard to offend. I am not sure a random stranger on the internet could really offend me. You really need to know somebody to know what gets under their skin.
A stranger could quickly convince me that they are a moron and not worthy of having the second half of their message read, but that is different. | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 5/3/2006 8:27:11 AM | Mark, I don't think I have a problem after putting this thread up, its been a hassle free night, the first since I joined! Besides I am here to find a man after all....
waves, what can I say?
Ladies I think we've found the answer...... | |
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| how would you react to crude and offensive emails?
Posted: 5/3/2006 2:32:07 PM |
I'm just wondering what would happen if the shoe was on the other foot, and we asked about size and the rest of it. I'm just wondering how would you react?
It happens all the time. I just tell them the truth. I have a small penis.
It's much more effective than blocking them.
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