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 soulblaze
Joined: 4/17/2006
Msg: 1
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If a woman you are with is no longer saying "I love you" at the end of telephone calls when you tell her you love her, call her by affectionate pet names, etc... and her response is "okay", "whatever", "you to", "fine bye", etc... how would you interpret this? And this is going on for weeks...
 AngelicusBraticus
Joined: 4/28/2006
Msg: 2
She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 5/9/2006 7:05:11 PM
Sorry to say, it's over.
 soulblaze
Joined: 4/17/2006
Msg: 3
She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 5/9/2006 7:06:17 PM
Could she just be mad?
 abulous
Joined: 5/5/2006
Msg: 4
She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 5/9/2006 7:06:40 PM
I hate to say this to you sir, but it appears that you have entered the "Friend Zone".


The black hole of no return.
 escaping
Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 5
She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 5/9/2006 7:06:49 PM
Seems like she has lost interest...guard your heart...and move on
 random_bird
Joined: 9/4/2005
Msg: 6
She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 5/9/2006 7:07:00 PM

Could she just be mad?


Did you do something....why else would you ask this?
 jessikaowl
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 7
She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 5/9/2006 7:07:34 PM
you're 33...... she's being very obvious without coming out and telling you....

sounds like she doesn't feel that way about you anymore and can't actually get the words out. people can go for a long time saying what they don't really feel, but eventually it will start to come out in their actions.

sorry dude....
 FantasyFlavor
Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 8
She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 5/9/2006 7:46:55 PM
I would interpret it as trouble in paradise!...

And it's been going on for weeks & you don't know
or haven't asked her?...More trouble in paradise!...

Sorry...It doesn't sound too good in paradise...Have a hug!...
 soulblaze
Joined: 4/17/2006
Msg: 9
She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 5/9/2006 7:47:37 PM
Thanks for the hug

boo-hoo-hoo

 ksue44
Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 10
She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 5/9/2006 7:50:00 PM
The ol saying goes "if Mama ain't happy, no one will be happy".. Seems you have a problem here, but what you really need to do is ask her. Tell her your feelings. How does she treat you otherwise?

You won't find out here on POF, but you may find out if you talk with her. It's simple, ASK!
 Gmaverick
Joined: 12/31/2005
Msg: 11
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She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 5/9/2006 8:32:22 PM
Souds like..........The paaartyyyy is oveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeerrrr...............
 Bobbyleed
Joined: 10/21/2004
Msg: 12
She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 5/25/2006 5:06:02 PM
Gawd brother i hope not(that its over) because the only woman I love hasnt said it now for awhile, I hope she does love me,and is just upset and wants to see changes.(its a long story) But I still tell her , because and yes i know Im a sappy twit, but I do love her , more than she'll ever know.
All i can do is hope to gawd someday she'll say it and mean it, i pray for those words everytime i talk to her and everytime she doesnt it kills me a little everytime. I would erase all that i have ever done just to hear those sweet words from her again and see that 10 million dollar smile of hers.
anyway to make a long story short... DO NOT **** UP NEXT TIME!!!!
then you (and I) wont ever have this problem .with the ones we love.
get it
 sammy salt
Joined: 5/15/2006
Msg: 13
She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 5/25/2006 5:11:10 PM
"okay", "whatever", "you to", "fine bye", etc...

means she don't want to say it to you dude, are she is in a hurry. That are she has someone there that don't want to know she has someone that matters to her. Other wards a proublem, unless she is at work. Then its expected, because thats work and its o.k not to say it there.
 Catwm
Joined: 3/1/2006
Msg: 14
She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 5/25/2006 5:12:35 PM
The phrase " I love you " is often times spoken out of habit.

If you are thinking that she has changed feelings about you maybe you should just ask her about it.
 Smily_face
Joined: 2/1/2006
Msg: 15
She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 5/25/2006 5:29:26 PM
Let her go. Don't call her and pretend you don't care about her anymore and if she
doesn't call you either, you will know it's over for sure. Get on with your life.
 wannabe_writer
Joined: 4/11/2006
Msg: 16
She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 5/25/2006 5:34:53 PM
Could be one of three things.......1) She is no longer in love with you. 2) She is upset with you about something and trying to make a point. 3) She may be undecided as to whether she is still in love with you or not.


Time to have that little talk that goes like this......."Honey do we have a problem and is it fixable?"

Good luck either way.......
 mogrl
Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 17
She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 5/25/2006 5:42:07 PM
Yes she could be mad because you didn`t notice that she was mad about something.
 Kerrianna
Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 18
She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 6/22/2006 9:38:25 AM
Hate to say it sweetie

She either doesn't love you anymore and doesn't know how to tell you or

Done something she feels really guilty about which makes it hard for her to say I love you

My guess would be she is a nice person who is afraid of hurting your feelings so instead of coming out and dumping you she's making it worse by pulling away.

You have to ask her otherwise you're going to end every phone call waiting for an I love you that doesn't come and then you're going to be miserable.

Come right out and ask her what's wrong, whether the answer is good or bad or if you get through it or not at least you'll know and you can rebuild or move on.

Just my two cents

JL
 ducksquat
Joined: 10/26/2005
Msg: 19
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She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 6/22/2006 10:03:44 AM
Why not simply talk about it face to face and find out? At least you'll know one way or another. It could be salvaged if it's indeed headed out the door but if you let it linger too long, those odds significantly decresae.
 Angelle_in_disguise
Joined: 5/2/2006
Msg: 20
She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 6/22/2006 10:30:49 AM
Sorry Soul...but judging by my past relationship, she's lost interest. For the latter part of my marriage my ex said "I love you" on almost a daily basis...but, I couldn't bring myself to say "love you too". She may be mad at you, but if she's anything like a lot of women (my age)...they'll tell you if and why they're angry...no problem.
 LunaLover
Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 21
She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 6/22/2006 10:34:38 AM
The word coward comes to mind. She's letting you know in a very s h i tt y way that it's over. Move and let her be a coward with someone else. Good luck!
Luna
 stoneside
Joined: 9/3/2004
Msg: 22
She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 6/22/2006 10:37:44 AM
While I disagree that a lady will tell you when she's angry (You should know I'm angry and if you don't, then you're not sorry lol). If she stops saying "I love you" you're in trouble. I think it's done. Sorry.
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 23
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She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 6/22/2006 11:14:03 AM
Only you know the true answer to this. What has occured up to this point - is she dissatisfied in some way? Have you had some difficulties that were not resolved. If any of this is a problem it may very well be over.
 BossyLady
Joined: 8/20/2005
Msg: 24
She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 6/22/2006 11:18:00 AM
Communication is key....if you don't know what happened to spark the change in atmosphere...ask her. It is the only way to know. Good luck,hopefully it will work out for the best!
 Smily_face
Joined: 2/1/2006
Msg: 25
She doesn't say I love you anymore
Posted: 6/22/2006 11:54:27 AM
Sorry SOUL, I think it's time for a new girlfriend.
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