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 Hutterfly

Joined: 2/14/2005
Msg: 1
Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/16/2005 8:14:08 PM
I am not! That has never bothered me! Am I the only brave one here?

My friends have paint a terrible picture for me:

"...cant you see it's happening? when you are 70 or 80, not having a spouse or children around to take care of you when your health is failing..."

heehee,these blahs didnt freak me out! Maybe I am like the silly big bird Ostrich, putting my head in the sand

Are you pretty terrified of old age or you'd rather not think about it too much?
 Cache-Monet

Joined: 12/2/2004
Msg: 2
Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/16/2005 9:16:40 PM
I totally am afraid of growing old alone...........
 squeak365

Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 3
Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/17/2005 12:32:24 AM
I am not afraid of growing old alone ---I never intend to get old...or to completely grow up...

I am wistful about finding someone to spend the remaining time with but ifn it don't happen, so be it...

Squeak
 kciredor

Joined: 12/20/2004
Msg: 4
Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/17/2005 2:50:25 AM
It is my secret plan.
 Fid Copya

Joined: 1/13/2005
Msg: 5
Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/17/2005 3:06:20 AM
I'm doing it as we speak.
 koople

Joined: 2/16/2005
Msg: 6
Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/17/2005 4:40:16 AM
I plan on growing old along with everyone else.
 lyrical heart

Joined: 11/24/2004
Msg: 7
Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/17/2005 6:57:40 AM
Maybe, once in a great while, at 3 a.m. when the world is asleep, and I'm not. But - think of the alternative. There's a lot I want to do before I "shuffle off this mortal coil." And whether I do it alone or with someone else, I plan to be doing it.

lyrical
 squeak365

Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 8
Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/17/2005 9:51:18 AM
Here is something I wrote back in '92...


Before I leap out
I want to:
make one more person smile -
one more wrong right -
make one more right left....

(Always the non-comformist...hehe)

Also


My dragon's draggin cuz he's got he draggin flu...or was that dragon flu?

Squeak
 funkinrock

Joined: 12/7/2004
Msg: 9
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Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/17/2005 1:16:34 PM
good answer koople...lol
 blondago56

Joined: 8/21/2004
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Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/17/2005 6:50:26 PM
. . . maybe not so much old & alone, as old and LONELY..... i want to stay active, busy and have my marbles all together! Later, & hugs to all,
 ashley1861

Joined: 11/6/2004
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Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/17/2005 8:25:13 PM
Afraid is the wrong word. I want to grow old with my best friend, who will still hold my hand, caress my backside, kiss me nite, and then wake up in the morning. I really don't want to get old, but if I must, I want to have a companion who I enjoy. Otherwise, I choose to be alone.
 squeak365

Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 12
Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/18/2005 2:21:59 AM
Still ain't gonna get old....wise, yes...old, no

Squeak
 Singlemaltgirl

Joined: 12/31/2004
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Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/18/2005 7:57:55 AM
absolutely not! i like my own company too much
 schweetassdoll

Joined: 2/14/2005
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Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/18/2005 8:54:27 AM
Nope.
 kadmus

Joined: 8/13/2004
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Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/18/2005 9:37:41 AM
One, I'm not alone. I have wonderful friends. If I find a special girl, that's awesome. If not, no regrets.
 floridastyle1818

Joined: 2/18/2005
Msg: 16
Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/18/2005 10:01:09 AM
nope..it happens to the best looking of us..did you ever think that with each passing second, our life is passing by..every day brings us closer to our maker SO tuck in that lip, lift your head HIGH and go have some fun..
 Missy

Joined: 1/29/2005
Msg: 17
Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/18/2005 12:46:57 PM
Not me, I've got three kids...I am SO gonna drive them and their kids nuts!
muah ha ha ha ha <--evil laughter

~Missy~
 miss music

Joined: 1/18/2005
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Absolutely not!
Posted: 2/18/2005 4:03:22 PM
I know that even if I don't have a "special someone" in my life, I will not be alone. I have and will always have a full life.

And I see no point in shacking up with someone just to avoid "being alone". I will never settle for second-best.
 angeleyes41

Joined: 12/23/2004
Msg: 19
Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/18/2005 7:31:41 PM
I doubt I will grow old alone,
I have my four kids and two foster kids,
and im sure i will have lots of grandbabies,
so i can bug them haha!

but im not afraid to grow old alone if i had to.

 Byrd

Joined: 7/19/2004
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Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/18/2005 9:34:06 PM
Yes...Now that I found someone we can be miserable together...
 salamander000

Joined: 10/26/2004
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Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/18/2005 9:52:31 PM
hahah thanks for that insight Byrd. I think I've heard that somewhere before.......
 taji

Joined: 1/19/2005
Msg: 22
Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/18/2005 10:31:25 PM
Hell yes.
 Hui Ching

Joined: 7/15/2004
Msg: 23
Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/18/2005 11:10:32 PM
I don't think I will grow old alone because I have good friends and nice kids around me all the time and if I had to grow old with someone I detest, I would rather grow old alone.
 Tom Orrow

Joined: 8/26/2004
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Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/19/2005 6:18:08 AM
Not afraid of growing old, but once I was very ill, laying alone in bed and hardly noticed by anyone.
An awful experience!
 summer bliss

Joined: 2/16/2004
Msg: 25
Are you afraid of growing Old alone?
Posted: 2/19/2005 7:35:56 AM
No. I can be alone without being lonely. Would prefer it if the alternative is a physically/emotionally-scarring relationship.
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